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    Angry Having trouble getting motivated to go into work...Grrr

    I work at the most "upscale" club in sh*t hole Albuquerque, NM where the money doesn't even come CLOSE to the kind of money you can make in almost any other state. Yeah, I've had a $600 night.... only twice in the full year that I've been working here! And that's the MOST I've ever managed to sqeeze out of many-a-plastered men in one night. Excluding the girls that give head (or even sex!!!) in VIP, I'm one of the top moneymakers in my club. Our lap dances are $10 and are supposed to be NO-touch, but no guy that enters the club seems to understand what thet means. I have to hold there hands behind their head or on the sides of the chair so they can't keep trying to grab me continuously, and even then they get all excited because I'm "holding their hands"! And all of them lean their heads forward with open mouths as soon as you breasts are within a one foot radius, trying to latch on to a niple like drooling babies. It's getting really heard for me to motivate my self to go into that environment when I could just stay at home with my husband who I don't get to see durring the day, take a hot bath, snuggle up on the couch, or whatever makes me feel comfortable.

    I love dancing.... the money I make IS better than any other job I could get out here... I guess I just hate the slimy, scuzzy, grabby, can-I-get-what-that-guy-in-the-dark-corner-is-getting kind of guys that make up the majority in my club.

    Sorry, just had to vent.

    Any ideas for motivation?
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    Hmm, that can't be an easy work enviroment. Have you tried firmly stating to the guys "Sit on your hands and shut your gob!" Works well for me most of the time - I can say it in such a way that sounds like I'm not joking but is still funny so it doesn't offend... I've also found that if you ask a guy to stop trying to grope or blow on you (with their mouths, not their dicks lol!!!) because you don't like it quite often they'll be surprised and will appologise and stop.
    Some guys nothing really gets through to them though but here we have the right to walk out on dances if people try to break the rules - and they don't get a refund and we don't get into trouble for it. I usually let people know they get 1 warning and after that if they still persist I leave. Even if your club doesn't back you up on this maybe you should do it anyway - it's only a tiny percentage of guys that really persist and get walked out on where I am. (We generally don't have any girls in the club that do extras though...)

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    Be careful with this advice- have ONE drink before your shift, and then when you start telling off the "grope fiesta" customers, smile and be cutesy about it. If that doesn't work, knee them in the groin "accidentally." I KNOW your pain.
    You can play mind games with these guys too- "Oh, I have to tell you....I only love women, your touch does not arouse me..." "OW! I have a burn/bruise/ bug bite right there, and you scraped it! You jerk!" Any crazy shit. There's a chance they will listen- most of them are stuck in having a fantasy moment of possibly having sex with you, and your distress or anger kinda ruins it. (Of course, some cannot be helped. Sorry.)

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    Default Re: Having trouble getting motivated to go into work...Grrr

    Any ideas for motivation?
    It sounds like you answered your own question.



    Quote Originally Posted by sandi_g
    stay at home with my husband who I don't get to see durring the day, take a hot bath, snuggle up on the couch, or whatever makes me feel comfortable.
    sometimes taking a irregular day off is the perfect medicine for what ails ya.

    It sounds like you need a break from the fantasy men for some attention from the real man in your life.
    Surprise him,and treat yourself,to a "fuck it im stayin home"night.

    Aside from curing what ails ya,its also been know to regrow hair in problem areas and cure minor acne of the buttocks.


    Take the night off!!!!!!!!!
    go in this weekend with your batteries recharged!!!

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    Default Re: Having trouble getting motivated to go into work...Grrr

    Surprise him,and treat yourself,to a "fuck it im stayin home"night
    Ooo..how that is soooo true.

    As for your situation, I can empathise. I'm in the most classiest club on the Coast (and newest) and still not making the money I want to be making. This has been in part due to the poor club layout and the fact that the club is new ... still alot of "curious cats" (as I affectionately call those punters who are here due to wanting to experience it for the first time compared to the old Santa Fe) as well.

    I'm lucky in that I, too, can walk out on dances plus have someone in the actual dance area (it's a separate room) that can back me up by giving that type of customer the type of looks that can make the customer really uncomfortable.

    No amount of money is worth customers touching my butt crack, pussy or even pubic area. They are allowed to touch boobs, butt and everywhere else... with their hands only. No mouth contact what-so-ever.

    I state all these rules up-front and then give them one reminder/warning. If they continue.. I give the "controller" (the chick who is in the room that can give those uncomfortable looks to the customer) the signal that I need her to come over and remind him. Usually when it only needs to get to the stage where I remind the customer or subtely (sp?) move their hand(s) to where they should be/go. I can always walk out on the dance ... no refunds.


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