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    Default custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    just curious, during a dance do you like to be looked in the eye while getting a dance? do you liked to be talked to or do you want us to shut up?
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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    I liked to be looked at in the eye. If you don't and just wonder around, I might get the impression that you really don't want to be dancing for me right now, your annoyed, your having a bad day etc etc. Pay attention to me, and I will make it worth your while.

    I also liked to be talked to, don't have to get personnal, but its good to chat about things. Maybe like my job, my hobbies or even a sexier topic.
    The more we talk the more I would like to be around you, hence, the dancer will get more money out of me. Things simple as a wave, coming up to me and saying hello etc will make our "club relationship" stronger and you as the dancer would only benefit more.

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    Climb on, sit down, and be quiet. Look me in the eye. At the very least don't look in the mirror behind me and pretend to give yourself a lap. That's a one-way ticket to going back on the floor after one song, sans tip.

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    I'll say eye contact is pretty critical, because it tells me if you're actually OK with what you're doing with me (if not enjoying it outright). It's certainly more important then how big your breasts are or if I can bounce quarters off your ass because it conveys intimacy.


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    I love it.

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    Look me in the eyes throughtout much of the dance, while gently touching and whispering softly...and I'll pretty much hand you my wallet.

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    I would have to agree with the guys on this one! If you make me feel like I'm the only guy there you will get a lot of my money!
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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    sometimes i feel as though i am making them feel uncomfortable when i look them in the eye. i'm thinking there thinking " don't look at me, i want to look at your body and i don't want you to notice me do that" call me crazy.
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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    definitely eye contact please

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    I ain't no fat, balding, toothless raincoating PL with a bottle of hand lube in my sweatpants pocket so don't treat me like one.
    Stopped wearing sweats finally CO?Glad to see that the advice you got for free on this site is paying off, now we just gotta get you to start tipping!

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    ^ Moved up to nylon running pants. They have more pockets.

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    ALWAYS eye contact! Unfocus your eyes if you have to......50% will look at your face, the rest close their eyes or are trying to beam into your heart by way of staring at your ta-tas like its the first time they've seen any since breastfeeding!

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    Quote Originally Posted by slutty
    just curious, during a dance do you like to be looked in the eye while getting a dance? do you liked to be talked to or do you want us to shut up?
    I love eye contact, but if it makes the dancer uncomfy, then it's up to her. All in all, it's her limits. If Eye contact is too intimate then fine. Just dance then.

    But i like it, and it WILL get more dances out of me. But that's just me.

    BUT, sometime it IS intimate. And at those times i'll sometimes look away. I don't want to fall in love with a ghost (so to speak), i'd rather know a real person, something Dancers are not known for letting a customer in on. With good reason. And i mean no insult or offense by this.

    But this is a tough question since guys are so whacky in what turns them.

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    EYE CONTACT IS A MUST! I swear, it is the single simple tactic that is most successful in getting me repeat dances, or dances after I get off the stage. I get thanked for it a lot with a lot of guys saying that it makes me a very sincere dancer. As a stripper, you've got to entice a man and eye contact is one of your best bets.
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    Post Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    yes look me in the eye. make me believe that you are, at least for the moment, totally engrossed in the interaction between us. that you want to take me back in the vip and gently seperate me from my wallet. be into it totally. i will respond.

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    Smiley Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    Definitely like the eye contact and maybe some gentle whispers in my ear. Don't try to hold a conversation.

    Also, as others have mentioned, dancing for yourself in the mirror is a major turn-off.

    Thanks for asking.

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    Eye contact and some cheerful banter will get me to spend more

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    Eye contact, though occasional ear nibbling/whispering is good too. If the guy is seeming uncomfortable, though, do something that requires you to look away, dance facing away while occasionally looking back and smiling.

    That reminds me, smiling does help. Occcasionally look seductive, but I think smiling works better, if you're enjoying yourself, he is enjoying himself, it's all good. Any guy want to contribute on that point?
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    Quote Originally Posted by slutty
    sometimes i feel as though i am making them feel uncomfortable when i look them in the eye. i'm thinking there thinking " don't look at me, i want to look at your body and i don't want you to notice me do that" call me crazy.
    I like eye contact, especially for a lap dance-- it's more intimate and sensual. Even when I go up to the stage to tip, I like to make eye contact, because I see more than just a body up there. That's just me...

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    I think it's best to try to notice a guy's eye color during a dance, this ensures eye contact, and I do best when I look into their eyes, but on the other hand,

    I HATE when guys try to "force" eye contact on me, especially when my eyes are the only thing they are looking at. I'll look into a customers eyes, but it's not necessary to stare me down. It seems like either an attempt at control, or a faux gesture of respect. Don't try to peer into my soul with the intensity of fire while I am dancing for you, I'll just keep sticking my butt in your face.

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    I cannot imagine a guy that is going to say they prefer to not have eye contact. We like it...very simply because it makes us feel attended to. It's the same for anyone having a conversation. You want your conversation partner, regardless of the setting, to have eye contact with you. If the other person is looking around at other stuff, then they seem bored with you. The more eye contact the better. You don't need to say a word...just make eye contact and give us your periodic gorgeous smile...even for those of us who realize this is just a business transaction, our instinctual mental and physical responses tell us that we are enjoying ourselves.
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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    I don't necessarily need a lot of eye contact, but what I do need is your attention. Your undivided attention. As written above, if you're looking around, looking in the mirror, being distant and appearing not to be into your job, I'll not be interested in another dance. But, I believe many dancers are . . . for whatever reason . . . intimidated to make prolonged eye contact.

    Also, a matter of common sense, I'm not there necessarily to look longingly deep into your eyes, but look in another part of your anatomy.

    Now if we are sitting and having a chat, that's a different matter.

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    Default Re: custy's: do you like to be looked in the eye?

    I already replied but wanted to add one thing.

    My last trip at Tootsie's in Miami, the dancer would like bite down on her lower lip like she was really enjoying herself. That was a total turn-on and definitely got her some extra dances and a good tip on top too.


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    There's no bigger turn-off than to be talking to someone and their eyes are wandering around the room. Make eye contact with me and smile a lot and I'll empty my wallet every time. And be playful, I'm really big on playful. I much prefer the cute playful girl to the sexy/slutty one.
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    I always look someone in the eyes..whether I am on-stage or private dance. When I look someone in the eyes...I grab their attention (they don't look around the room)...I tease the with my eyes...and just about guarantee they'll buy another dance immediately afterwards. The eyes will always get them!!

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