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    Okay, so I walk up to this group of three guys, is late night. I talk to one of them for a few minutes, apparently he hasn't been here before, so I ask if he'd like to try one of our private dances. He's like "how much?" "twenty." "okay, sure." Then his friend jumps in and is like "wait, bob, lemme negotiate this for you. (I'm like "oh geez!") What are the rules?" me: "You can't touch breasts or crotch." friend of bob: "Well if I got your manager to say it is okay, can you touch breasts?"
    me: "Phhhhtt! Yeah, right, okay, if my manager came up to me and said 'henceforth, touching of the breasts is okay!' sure." [really trying to make it seem like a big joke]
    him: All right, hold on a minute.
    So I tell Bob to hold a sec, as I have to get my coat, and when I get back friend of bob is like 'come with me'
    friend of bob to owner: "tell her I'm okay."
    owner: "yeah, he's okay."
    I'm so rolling my eyes, right, they're about to go back into my skull.
    So I finally go with Bob to private dance area, we pay upfront here to the room manager, so all paid and I start giving him a dance, he goes for my boobs. I'm like "nope." he's like "but he said I could!"
    me: One thing, all I heard from the owner was 'he's okay' nothing about touching boobies. I really doubt your friend actually asked. Two, the person who watches the camera here I KNOW wasn't told about anything, and that is the person who fines me.
    bob: Oh. I don't want you to get fined.
    me: thanks.
    So I dance, when I get out Bob's friend is like "what?? We were watching on the security cameras! why didn't you do anything extra??"
    bob: "she didn't know if the room manager had been told."
    bob's friend: "well here, get another dance."
    me and bob: NO.

    GRRR!! What the hell, my owner is actually saying extras are okay with his friends? Including letting them watch the private cameras to make sure?!!? I was so angry when I left work. I'm one of the dancers they like, I don't pitch a fit about going on stage, I sell private dances [even if otherwise I bitch tremendously about them taking half the money for it] and don't badger the customers for tips, I don't have to be yelled at constantly for breaking the rules, and they pull this kind of crap??

    Oh, yeah, forgot to add earlier. After work neither manager of the private dance area, nor owner or anyone else said anything to me about the whole thing. Which was a good point, if the owner or someone has said "why didn't you go along with it?" I would've quit on the spot. As they didn't, I'm wondering if they secretly were glad at the way I handled it. *Shrug*
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    It was wrong.Crap is a good discription,but very tame imo!

    Is it the owner or the Mgr??

    either way,you need to be ready to leave a club where the mgr "pimps'out his girls for "extras".

    Be sure to tell ALL the girls you work with there the situation.

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    Darling, from all of your posts about this club, it just sounds like suck suck suck!

    That is a huge invasion of privacy to let non-employees watch the LD area, it may be illegal, I don't know.......

    I would walk out of there and never turn back...........

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    This is the reason if I find out that the person/s are friends or related to the owner or manager I RUN! Don't walk RUN!

    I am sorry that this situation happened to you.

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    Agreed with everyone else. Run, don't walk, away from this club. Keeerist. Some managers can be gross and seedy. Too bad you work for one of them. Find another place!

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    Sounds like the "friends" may actualy be the bankrollers behind the club. Better get your ass out of there quick.

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    It's "OK"? With who, for Christ's sake? I mean, their *your boobs.* If the manager/owner is OK with boob touching, he can have his friend touch HIS boobs.

    One thing I don't understand, did the manager really say the guy could touch you? If you feel like you could talk to him, I'd ask if that's really what happened. If yes, screw that place. (Sounds like you handled it in a smart way, though.)

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    I'd say run as well, I worked at a club hat did the same thing, cut deals for the guys friends, let them "try new thhings" and then stiffed me for the money, because we have to wait 5 business days to get credit card payments.... If I had been a "regular" girl I could have had the money immediately... what the hell, right? It's the owners's firends, the card went through and now I have to wait. I left and told them to keep the money and shove it you know where.
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    I'm with everyone else here...RUN, as fast as you can and don't look back. There are plenty of other clubs that respect the dancers enough to watch out for them and value their image.

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    That is totally lame!!

    The manager can't give people special privilages! Damn, that pisses me off...



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    I'll clarify, the guy said "if I ask your manager" and then went right to the owner. The manager didn't really seem to have anything to do with it.

    The guys also stayed close to the owner the rest of the night, so I didn't have a chance to to talk to him directly about it and was really angry and just wanted to leave at that point anyway. If he is there I might talk to him, but I don't really want to, he seems to fly off the handle over anything these days.

    Well, I'm gonna be there the rest of this weekend, normally I just come in one day a week because I magically acquired a regular, the rest of the time I drive out to other places. After the end of this semester I'll be leaving the area a little more permanently.
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    Good for U cause there's no excuses for acting the way he did ! How can he say it's ok to touch YOUR boobs did he asked u before NO !! So this guy is just a jerk and stupid for telling people it's ok to do extras !

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    wow luna... not cool.

    GOOD that you stood up for yourself. And find a new club.

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    Sorry to hear that Luna. I personally hate doing business with manager’s friend or with people who say “manager X knows me” they always want a free ride or try to get more than what they are paying for.

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