I haven't danced since April, and I'm a nervous as a newbie again. How do I get back in the swing of things?
I haven't danced since April, and I'm a nervous as a newbie again. How do I get back in the swing of things?
I've been there...took 6 months off...it's like riding a bike, it'll come back pretty quickly, but take it easy at first and within a week you'll be back in the swing. good luck!
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Girlfriend I feel for you! Its been the same amount of time for me. I need get shaking soon. Not only do I need to get back in the swing of things...I'm going to re-start in a new state, new club, new prices, new girls,the works!![]()
At my old club the most time (prior to this time) I took off was 2 weeks. I was always nervous driving up to the club and then walking down on to the stage. But once the music came on I just got back into my mode. As for making $$ I would feel like I forgot how to flirt and be cutesy. I felt this way with guys I did not know...I always felt secure again once I would see my customer come through the door, warmed up with them, and then I could move on to new guys. Also seeing the friendly dancers and catching up would always be nice. Now I just hope the new girls I meet will be nice...that's a big thing for me..I like to get a long with the girls..its makes going to work much more fun/comfortable . So I'll see and let you know how it goes. I hope to go in by next week.
I know you'll be fine and me too...its just a scary![]()
Good luck and tell us how it goes!
i so agree ive havent danced in 10 months....!!!
I wish all of y'all luck! I have a feeling after a week it'll bew just like ya never left the stage.





God do I know what your feeling...its been almost a year and a half....But what is helping me from growing a butterfly sanctuary in my stomach is that I am remebering how good it felt to be on stage, being naked with many men around me stage tipping me, when the guy would just keeping buying dances from me. I think good things..postive things. I try to think that would dominate the scene with my charm and new found body confidence. I gues..thats what helps me from getting TOO nervous. Hope some of that helps!! Good Luck hun!!!
see its not that im scared...im just trying to get my body in shape...(i could dance now) Its just that since i had my child (March04) That i have been a lil self concious u kno...but ill get back in the swing of things soon...
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