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    What is with girls who come into the club just to make fun of and give dirty looks to the dancers? It's really frustrating, especially since management and the owner do nothing about it. Last night, this girl and her boyfriend came in and right from the start the girl was making remarks about ugly and fat the girls were, and how poorly we danced. I wanted to say something to her so badly, but I most likely would have gotten into trouble. What do you guys do when dealing with this?

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    Last week a girl came in and was talking shit, and one of the dancer heard her. This dancer does not take shit from ANYONE, and I love her for it. Needless to say, a brawl broke out and the female customer got kicked out. I'm not sure if the dancer got in trouble. At the most, maybe someone told her not to do it again. But hey, I think most of us would do the same in that situation.

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    A little while ago, we had this girl, dressed in white t-shirt and black sweat pants, and her bf sit at the stage and say stuff like "don't tip, she's fat" or "I don't like her, don't give her a dollar."
    Now, unlike some clubs, where they try to make it really obvious that sitting at the stage and not tipping won't be tolerated, they don't really do anything about it. So the dj started making comments like "I rememer when I went to that Sea World, with Shamu, that LARGE creature, ALL black and white and blubber..." and so forth. Girl n bf finally left, but ugh. Sometimes strip clubs just totally have this effect on people that "normal rules of social engagement don't matter."
    Though, these would be the same girls at a regular dance club:
    "She's so fat"
    "She's dressed like such a slut"
    "They can't make a decent drink here"
    "She can't dance worth shit"
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    I think that the best thing that the dancers could do in this situation is just ingnore her. She's jelous and doesn'e feel very well about herself

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    My response is "Well while you're in here, why don't you get on that stage and show me how to do my job?"

    Nearly all the girls that talk shit will shut the fuck up on that one.
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    I always liked to make goo goo eyes and kissy lips at the boyfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveSexMoney
    I always liked to make goo goo eyes and kissy lips at the boyfriend.
    LMAO I do that...and i also tell them...when they say stoopid remarks...I say well "someone has to entertain YOUR MAN!"


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    There are alot of girls like this, whether it's in a club or not. I hate it. Chics like that are insecure & have to put others down to make themself feel better. I am a true believer of, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it." Sheesh, I hate rude ppl who have to worry about others & not themselves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kryssy
    I think that the best thing that the dancers could do in this situation is just ingnore her. She's jelous and doesn'e feel very well about herself
    Exactly, & she doesn't pay your bills either.

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    Eh...just ignore them. I've said something before to the effect of: "If you're so good at this, then why is your man in here constantly looking to be turned on before he goes home to your fat ass?" Didn't get in trouble cuz I said it with a smile and a wink...and since she was being bitchy I don't think management cared...but, still...

    I think it's just better to not say or do anything. She's looking for drama...and she's feeling very insecure...just let her be.

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    I've said something before to the effect of: "If you're so good at this, then why is your man in here constantly looking to be turned on before he goes home to your fat ass?"
    Classic.

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    Girls that go in the clubs with a chip on thier shoulder from the start have serious personal issues. If a girl cannot appreciate the beauty of another girl..even if the girl is not exactly her style..then the chick is insecure!!!! Don't take offense to them talking crap , don't give them the pleasure. We are the ones whom have the guts, the additude, the body and we have the class to go shake it! Plus, if they go there with a boyfriend and they can't be secure..it's thier own problem. I love girls that are supportive of each other! Anytime I go to another club as a customer with my friends. Looking at all the other girls just motivates me to work it and work out more often!

    Long ago I before I ever went to a strip club...and my boyfriend (at the time) would go with his pals..I felt that dancers were homewreking hoochies and I had this preconception about what was going on in the clubs. I thought that it was a place were the guys were trying to get with the dancers and the dancers were trying to get with the guys. WOW! Did I discover a totally different world when I went in a club for my first time. I thought it was so cool. I loved the dancers. Soon after that trip to the club I became a dancer. I have never known a cooler community of girls whom are so supportive of each other. Yes, thier can be a few that have additude...but I fully discovered that the club is a place of business for dancers...not girls trying to get it on with the customers! And it put my issues about the guys who go to clubs to rest..there are really some nice guys, married ones too that go in there just to chill and have someone listen to them while getting in a little eye candy.

    So the girls that have problems with us in the club... it's just there ignorance of what its like to work there and who were really are.

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    I felt the same way as amber 88 until I worked as a dancer. Some women are always going to be bitchy and f*cked up about other people, no matter where they go or what they do. Only in the strip bar are those women mouthing off 'cause they think dancers will take the abuse. No one remembers the main difference between a dancer and any woman off the street is confidence and courage.
    I used to get mad at stuff like that, but now I just ignore it. One person can't control what someone else says and does. Remember, you're not the rude moron mouthing off in a place where you shouldn't even be inside of.

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    If I have time, I like to confront people when they're being rude, they usually back down and apologise - and end up looking stupid infront of their friends (-: Management in the clubs I've worked in have usually been good though about asking customers to leave if they're critisizing the dancers.

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    LoL Noelle and NinaDaisy!! I loved reading those! Girls that come in to talk shit creep me out! The last club I worked at, girls would poor in and, although I didn't hear anything about me, I heard so much of this crap being talked that I felt really really nervous... plus there were those typical bitchy looks they give... GOD! GRRRR!! If I had a friend that pulled that shit... I'd... I'd... I don't know but grr!
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    The only time shit like this happens is when girls are insecure and probably jealous b/c their man is checking out other girls. No secure female I know would talk about other girls in this way. I don't know why girls even go into our clubs with their men if they can't handle it. Damn....

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    Two weeks ago I was at work and the girl on stage before me came out and said "there's haters at the tipping rail". I gave her the "I'm a new dancer" confused look and she said there were several bitchy girls with their men at the tipping rail. I was nervous but then the DJ told me that once he had seen a girl dance to " Boom I got your Boyfriend" and was totally all over some bitchy girl's guy and the guy was loving it the whole time. Something about that story made me feel better and I went out on stage all smiles. And when the bitchy girls would sneer at me I would just smile even bigger and wink at them and their guys. They looked really pissed when each of the four guys tipped me $5 for my "pretty smile"....hehe. I made sure to tip the DJ well at the end of the night for the good story!

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    Quote Originally Posted by NurseBettie13
    DJ told me that once he had seen a girl dance to " Boom I got your Boyfriend" and was totally all over some bitchy girl's guy and the guy was loving it the whole time.
    LOL...Love it. That's what they get for being bitches. If they're not secure with their BF it's their own fault, not the dancer or any other girl's fault.

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    I like your replies, girls! I usually just smile and act nice and polite--their disdain towards me is a compliment. It means that I'm a threat to them. The sad part is, it also means they feel ugly and insecure, and even sadder than that is, they usually are.


    Last night, a regular's wife came in. He said to me, "My wife wants to tip you." She gives a sour look and says, "No I don't." And I just smiled and said "okay, have fun!" She needs to, 'cause her husband always has fun tipping me and buying dances from me.

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    And then there is always ...

    "Hey, I don't come to your job and diss you while you are flipping burgers, do I?"


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    I was thinking the same thing last night!! There was some chics in the front row just looking horrified and slightly disgusted at stripping. Didn't really give me negative attention, but I wish some bitch would try to get crazy with me. They're not better than anybody else, everyone has bills, this is a job bitch, don't get mad 'cause your man wants me and he pays for it. I feel like this:

    I know you'd like to thank your shit don't stank
    But lean a little bit closer
    See that roses really smell like boo-boo know you'd like to thank your shit don't stank
    But lean a little bit closer
    See that roses really smell like boo-boo

    They're just stinky little Caroline hoes, so I try not to really worry about it.

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    Off topic, but wow, RaggDollz has THE most beautiful fabrics for her clothes. Really cute designs,too.

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    I get a lot of dancers coming into our club from some of the bigger beach clubs, to laugh at us. Feh. Whatever. I remember once, when I was just a DJ at a bar in NY, a group of girls were at the bar, ragging on the dancers. A lot of the girls complained to me while picking out their music, over the course of an hour or so.... we had a wireless mic so I sauntered out to the table of bitchtastics and said over the mic, "Hey ladies? I really like that the girls here want me and stuff, but all the petty bullshit you all are talking is going to turn them all straight and I just cant have that...."
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    I have a tried and true method for bitchy tip rail girls: go up to her, smile and do the 'lift up your top!' motion. Get the other guys up there and in the club all into it (get them to clap and yell), hopefully the DJ will join in. Eventually she'll either succumb to peer pressure and show off her floppy boobies (because if she's a bitch they surely are), or she'll make herself look dumb by getting up and storming off. Usually they do it though, and it's great- the club loves you for it, the crowd loves you for it, and the girl HATES you for it .

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver
    I have a tried and true method for bitchy tip rail girls: go up to her, smile and do the 'lift up your top!' motion. Get the other guys up there and in the club all into it (get them to clap and yell), hopefully the DJ will join in. Eventually she'll either succumb to peer pressure and show off her floppy boobies (because if she's a bitch they surely are), or she'll make herself look dumb by getting up and storming off. Usually they do it though, and it's great- the club loves you for it, the crowd loves you for it, and the girl HATES you for it .
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