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    wtf???!!!

    as  some of you may know, im dancing in tokyo, at seventh heaven.....least  i was....

    tonihgt i got fired.


    why???


    cos i wouldnt talkj to a customer. at our club we have the rule, if a girls already talking to a guy, you cannot go and push in if they get up to go on stage or to the bathroom. fair enouhgh.

    so my manager comes up to me, dancing to the music, and says "dqnce with me!" im like no way, right, i just feel weird dancing normally, lap dance or pole dance, fine, dancing normally, i cant do, strange i know, anyways.....

    so hes standing there dancing for about 5 seconds, then he says, "go and talk to that customer" he wants to talkto you" im like wtf no he doesnt,hes already got a girl ( shed gone to the bathroom) so he got a lil shitty,said the customer REALLY wanted to talk to me ( of all people) ithought he was making it up, cos normally if i guy wants to request you, the manager will say " this man REQUESTS you etc"

    so my boss goes over to the guy, says something ,.points at me, then comes over to me, and says, "its ok,he doesnt wanna talk to you now anyways, i told him you were a bitch" lol im like oh yeah sweet as, whatever.....

    then my boss walks away, and 30 sec later he comes back and says "you know what, get out, your fired, this club doesnt need you"


    what the fucking fuck was that about?????!!!!!!!!


    anyone else been "unfairly dismissed " from a strip club of all places???


    i mean i could understand if igot fired for soing somehting slutty....or breaking the rule, but i really dont understand why i waz fired.


    anyone knmow of any good clubs in tokyo??lol

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    sorry to hear that. didn't you say that if you had worked at one tokyo club you were then prohibited from working at any other clubs? does that still apply?

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    Default Re: unfair dissmissle???

    Sorry to hear this, you are gorj, don't see why you couldn't get in 'nother club. Never worked overseas, myself. It sounds like mgr had a thing for you, felt rejected (which he shouldn't) & decided to f*ck w/you & f*ck you over. Altho never been fired (from SC) I wanted to get back in this bikini bar. The bee-otch mgr. is extremely jealous of me, so she wouldn't hire me back even tho the owner who I spoke to about this said I could have my job back.


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    ha yeah, i feel pretty stupid, to get fired from a strip club is pretty bad. even worse, it was over something so bullshit.


    lovesexmoney, we are allowed to work at other clubs in tokyo, but while we are working for one, we cannot visit the others.....i guess now i have no job, ill have to visit!!

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    I completely agree with whirlerz about why he did that, sounds like a loser! Maybe the next club you work at will be better and this is just a blessing in disguise. Good luck!

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    Do they still have that rule that if you've worked at one SC in tokyo you can't work at another?

    I may have many faults, but being wrong ain't one of them.

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    What a fucker.
    Did he say it all in Japanese?

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    If I were you, I'd look on this as him possibly doing you a favor since you said it was a little slow where you were at right now. Perhaps this club just isn't the "hot spot" in town anymore, and there are greener pastures elsewhere.
    Check out Tantra, and Private Eyes, and some of the better hostess clubs. I hear the hostess clubs with the most money customers are in Akasaka. (sp?)
    It does sound like this manager is just an ass, who felt you were being "uppity" by not wanting to dance with him.
    Do you now have to find a new place to live as well? Or is the housing they give you from the agent and not the club?

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    Wow, that truly sucks...

    What an asshole! He must have been on a power trip or something....

    That's ok, you will find a better place, everything happens for a reason. Maybe it's time to move to the United States!

    Good-luck sweetie....



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    That sucks! Hope you find a better club. What nationality was your manager? From the way you described his communication to you, he didn't seem Japanese. They are far more refined in their language usually ????

    Best of luck, keep us updated on the club scene!

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    He probally was offended that you didnt dance with him...

    Seriously, they are like that.

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    I like the idea of moving back to the states.

    How long have you been in the Far East??

    As a white woman,you should have known what standing toe to toe with the manager(MALE)in public like that would have caused.
    He had no choice but to fire you or he would have lost face.

    If what the manager was asking you to do wasnt illegal,or something that violates your limits,I think you should have done it and just explained what happened to the other girl.

    Its always best to plan your departure from a club,that way you can find another gig,or save for a ticket home.


    I dont mean to sound critical during your well deserved rant or like father flannigan,but you know where you are and what kind of social structure your surrounded by,it hasnt really changed all that much in 2000 years.When working in Rome.......

    I hope your safe and i hope you have options.

    Mind if I ask if your american??

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    Hey mermaid, you're better off going to another club. You'll be fine, since you're tall and Caucasian...that is the Money look with the Japanese. (I learned about how Japanese men treat women when I worked in Guam...very frustrating lesson!)
    Good to hear from you! We miss you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
    I like the idea of moving back to the states.

    How long have you been in the Far East??

    As a white woman,you should have known what standing toe to toe with the manager(MALE)in public like that would have caused.
    He had no choice but to fire you or he would have lost face.

    If what the manager was asking you to do wasnt illegal,or something that violates your limits,I think you should have done it and just explained what happened to the other girl.

    Its always best to plan your departure from a club,that way you can find another gig,or save for a ticket home.


    I dont mean to sound critical during your well deserved rant or like father flannigan,but you know where you are and what kind of social structure your surrounded by,it hasnt really changed all that much in 2000 years.When working in Rome.......

    I hope your safe and i hope you have options.

    Mind if I ask if your american??
    She's from the land down under.......

    Your attitude is typical American xenophobe BigGreen. People don't necessarily beat their women over the head with a bat and drag them into their caves in other parts of the world. The poor situation she went through could have easily happened here as well. Look at what happened to NinaDaisy. She is hot, she will do fine at another club.

    Poor stupid management is universal.........

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    Yah, this totally sounds like "little man, tall ego" syndrome. And if the guy was dancing by himself and wanting you to dance with him, I'm betting he had a few drinks himself.

    You're going to be a hot commodity in Japan, so you're better off finding a club with more.. stable.. management. The last thing you need is working in a club where your boss and managers are on the floor trying to have a good time themselves... or directing the dancers around in hopes of 'knowing what's best'. I've seen clubs like that here in the 'states... where the managers are trying to 'party' and play a more active role when they belong locked upstairs counting beans the way it should be. LOL.

    99% of the time, a skilled dancer knows what's best and they should have the bottom line figures to prove it. If a little declined direction by a floor hovering disco inferno boss leads to being fired, it's all the better to get the hell out of there.
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    Holy shit! This is becoming a global pandemic apparently!

    I know why I was fired; I questioned a lot of "managerial" decisions openly to them (especially since they affected my money often) and that made their dicks shrivel up.

    What happened to you truly WAS random bullshit. I reread your post several times and still didn't get why you were fired. Apparently the majority of strip club managers, no matter where the club is, are spawned from the same hellhole!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    She's from the land down under.......

    Your attitude is typical American xenophobe BigGreen. People don't necessarily beat their women over the head with a bat and drag them into their caves in other parts of the world. The poor situation she went through could have easily happened here as well. Look at what happened to NinaDaisy. She is hot, she will do fine at another club.

    Poor stupid management is universal.........
    We agree that stupid is stupid anywhere,but there are things at play in her situation that i dont think you understand.
    Its not the same for a woman where she is as it is for a woman down under or in the states,thats just fact.I learned from 1st hand time spent in the far east,im sure others that have been there can explain it to you alot better then I can.

    I dont agree with it,I dont condone it,but i know what it looks like,and i didnt form my conclusions on what i saw on the Discovery channel.

    Where she is,she rates lower then a geisha on the social scale of things.Thats like telling an american entertainer they are less then escorts or prostitutes.

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    geishas aren't escorts or prostitutes.

    I may have many faults, but being wrong ain't one of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Muyaha
    geishas aren't escorts or prostitutes.
    Ok i agree to a certain point.

    Now how would you translate their historical role into an american word that better fits?

    Hostess?

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    To bring up an old cliche, it loses something in the translation.

    There is no direct American counterpart to a Geisha.

    Anyhow, to get back on topic, please keep us updated to let us know if you find work somewhere else.

    And to think I briefly thought of a hitch in Tokyo to escape that crap! Like I wrote earlier, it's global!
    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

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    Yeah, that's bad. He was just mad that you didn't want to dance with him. It sounds like a case of "I'm the mgr, so I own you." I wouldn't worry too much about it and move on. If that is you on the picture you will have NO TROUBLE at all finding another job, you are a beaty. Hang in there.

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    oooooooooo baby.

    eek, wont your agents place you again?
    thats scary.......
    like theres nothing else you really could have done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    To bring up an old cliche, it loses something in the translation.

    There is no direct American counterpart to a Geisha.
    well,here is the deff...

    Main Entry: gei·sha
    Pronunciation:
    'gA-sh&, also 'gE-
    Function: noun
    Inflected Form(s): plural geisha or geishas
    Etymology: Japanese, from gei art + -sha person
    Date: 1887
    : a Japanese girl or woman who is trained to provide entertaining and lighthearted company especially for a man or a group of men


    Thats websters take on it,and if anything,the deff of what Americans consider an escort to be.correct?

    Now the question is,does a Geisha have sex with her clients??

    Who knows.

    I do know that a LARGE part of a Geisha training is in sexual pleasure of a man,and how to do it to completion.

    Money changes hands,a man gets off,we call that service ,one provided by a prostitute.
    We have many words for prostitution here.Call girl,escort,hooker,street walker,sexual services provider,etc.
    The Japanese have one,Geisha.

    Anyhow, to get back on topic, please keep us updated to let us know if you find work somewhere else.
    I know this all seems off topic Nina,but it really isnt.

    She has been at this club for LESS THEN A MONTH!!!!!

    What Tokyo club fires a hot white blonde for no reason??? they are worth their weight in gold!
    I also hope she finds a new club to work in and I hope she is safe and ok,but i also hope she sees what im talking about.
    She has admitted to not really understanding why she was fired,im just offering suggestions as to what that reason might be.
    I hope she researches the culture and history of the country she is working in,maybe it will give her a better chance at lasting in another club.

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    While a geisha may not be considered a prostitute by some, she does take on what is called a Danna, what we in the US refer to as a sugar daddy. A Geisha is considered a failure unless she finds a man to become her danna. This man pays for the priveledge of calling a geisha his mistress and being allowed to have sex with her. He pays all of her living and other expenses.
    So I guess it all goes back to each of us having our own interpretation of what a prostitute is. Whether it's someone who has sex with lots of different men for money, or only one man for money.
    And I kinda hafta agree that in Japan, women and foreigners aren't looked upon with much esteem. You can be refused entry to a club, restaurant, or not allowed to rent in a bullding because you are a foreigner. And many Japanese laws make it hard for women over there to have equal rights. Sad fact, really.

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    Go to Tantra ! I'm sure you'll find a club to work at !

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