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    Default How DO you talk to an angel?

    What does go through a guy's head when some girl gets it in HER head to play Romeo to his Juliet? is it emasculating? Polecat answered this for me, but I wish for some extra voices.
    Wow, life is complicated...if I had any brains, I'd settle for the current penis parade available......LOL.
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    Default Re: How DO you talk to an angel?

    This is a tough one. Guys get so used to being played in SC's. I've had a couple of real relationships but I've also been burnt a few times as well. The funny thing is, being burnt actually made it easier for me to figure out when a girl was being sincere.
    Have you brought up the idea of seeing this guy outside of the club? It sounds like distance is an issue right now.
    What I can tell you is that going out of your way a little for a guy-doing something nice for him when it's not just about putting more money in your pocket-goes a long way with us caring, shy types.
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    Different guys will react in different ways, so it's hard to say. Even shy, conservative guys will act in different ways.

    Let's start with a girl is pursuing a guy, and the guy's not reacting like she wants. I can think of four immediate possibilities:

    1. He's already committed and faithful (hey, some guys are like that).
    2. He doesn't see her as a target for romance, so he keeps her at arm's length.
    3. He's insecure and doesn't know how to handle a girl who actually wants him. This then will usually segue into the next possibility.....
    4. He doesn't trust and/or understand her motives and is waiting to see what she's really like.

    In order to prove oneself trustworthy, one has to act right in trusting situations. That usually builds in increments - little trusts lead to larger trusts, and so on. Most guys in a strip club build their first level of trust on whether the dancer charges him for a given set of time. As both ladies and men have said on the pink site, "If there's money involved, it's still business." That may suck, because it's on the dancer's clock, but that's the way of things.

    Good luck.

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    Actually, he never patronized me as a dancer, and to be honest, a big part of his hesitancy (I think) is that he knows about my job and was raised in a house where a stripper was considered ....a certain kind of person. (I don't get hung up that- that's how I was raised.)
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    Hmm, sounds like me Well, be yourself and maybe he will get back at you



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    Default Re: How DO you talk to an angel?

    I'm not saying you can't change a guys opinion about strippers. Most of what guys know about women who dance is based on stereotypes that, once you meet a few dancers, become obviosly untrue. This guy may or may not be ready to understand that-honestly, he may be to young to understand that dancing is just a job.

    You sound very sincere about your feelings and expectations here on this site. Ultimately, all you can do is be just as sincere with the guy in question. He's either ready for it or he's not. Good luck.
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