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    I never really made any friends in the stripclubs, only one, we both started at the same time in the same club, so we clicked. Once we decided to hang out as a group, like five of us went out, but it turned into a disaster and we never did it again. Just wondering if any of you hang out with your coworkers outside the club?
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    I try not to...

    first, you find yourself talking about work all the time
    second, you find it's hard to distance yourself from your "friends" when it comes time to make money, so you either lose money or you hurt someone.

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    Yeah, but that's only because they were my friends before we all started dancing and we work at different places.



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    Default Re: Do You ever Hang out with Other Dancers?

    Just a little.... you know, sometimes we'd get together for lunch or shopping, but not really close.

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    I'm a dj and I often find myself hanging out with dancers outside the club, I think part of it is they know I'm married and I'm not looking to screw them, so I'm "safe"

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    I used to ALL THE TIME. I got a long so good with the girls at this club, its hard sometimes not to hang out with them because we all see each other in clubs or knew some of the same people in high school. HOWEVER, I made the mistake being best friends with girls from work. This is NOT a smart idea. I don't have issues with cattyness or shit-talking just 'cause I'm really blunt and I don't deal with people on that level, but the girls I've chilled with all have MAJOR personal problems that have endangered my own safety at one point or another. (i.e.-being left in a room with a rape-o, not picking me up from work/following through with committments, having psycho boyfriend stalk her to my house and cause problems, etc.) I'm not feelin it. I still enjoy their company and find some fun to hang out with in night clubs, but the only girl I'm friends with now I knew before we both started dancing. Point blank-Chill with? OCCASIONALLY. Friends? NEVER AGAIN

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blade
    they know I'm married and I'm not looking to screw them, so I'm "safe"
    They told me they all thought you were gay.
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    Lmao ya dick!

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    Default Re: Do You ever Hang out with Other Dancers?

    Quote Originally Posted by MojoJojo
    They told me they all thought you were gay.
    Mojo you crack me up!!!!


    I am a firm believer that you shouldn't make friends with the girls at work. I mean me and the girls at work get a long really good, but I don't want them in my personal life. It affects your money, and it's too hard to keep work and real life seperate. I don't think it would be too bad of an idea to hang out for coffee or something, but nothing more than that.

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    Default Re: Do You ever Hang out with Other Dancers?

    I have worked at the same club for 4-1/2 years so I have built a few close relationships with other girls that have been there just as long. Some closer than others. It's usually shopping, lunch or hanging out at my house shootin the shit....



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    I hang out with a couple girls, but only for breakfast after work or going to a party. Most of the girls I work with are caught up in drugs, boyfriend drama, and/or have emotional problems. They are fun to hang out with once in a while, but I would never get on a personal level or develop a close bond with them.

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    Default Re: Do You ever Hang out with Other Dancers?

    Ok, just to clarify, when I say hang out, I mean just hang out, like after work, nothing to buddy buddy.
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    nah....not at all........

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    There are about four of us, two which are no longer dancing that do a girls night out.. needless to say, we can really cause some commotion.. one of the clubs has poles!!! YAY!


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    I have two friends from work,a dancer and a housemom.The dancer and I have an understanding that as soon as we're on the floor,ready to work,it's just business after that.It works out great and no one takes anything personally.
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    I go out to lunch or breakfast sometimes with girls from work, but that's about it. I'm nice to the girls I work with, but I don't go out of my way to make friends. If it happens, it happens, but I'm there to make money, not friends. Sometimes the girls you think are your friends are the ones who talk the most shit about you behind your back-I learned that the hard way.

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    Default Re: Do You ever Hang out with Other Dancers?

    When I danced, we had a little group that would hang out occasionally. It was pretty much all of us (we weren't a very big club), we'd go out after closing, and head to the after-hours club. We'd stay there until about 6 in the morning.. lol.. Other times we'd go to breakfast (Open House Diner <hurl>). I wasn't close with many, just a couple of people. That's the way I like it.

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