Hi everyone,
I'm in a pretty bad place financially, I'm trying like crazy to get a job, but right now it really doesn't seem all that promising! I've been curious about dancing for quite some time now, and think it would be a good way to at least get me back on my feet and make me some money to save until I can find a different job, or even so that I can go to school and then find a career. There aren't many places to dance where I live, so I would possibly have to take a trip to the states or tokyo, or just to the mainland.
BUT......
My boyfriend doesn't want me to do it at all. He doesn't like the idea of me dancing in the city we live in, because it is small, and although he says he's proud of me, he doesn't want to show ALL of me off to EVERYbody. He also is worried about the "stripper lifestyle", which he considers to be littered with drugs and alcohol.......but from talking to you guys, I think a LOT of you don't touch drugs, am I right? He worries about my self-esteem and me not being able to handle mean comments.
I don't know. I'm desperate for cash, I don't want to lose my apartment. He's not too keen on me living with him if I do lose it, because he just has a small bachelor pad, and yet he doesn't want to move in with me in my one bedroom to split the rent. He definitely doesn't make enough to support me, and I wouldn't want him to, either.
I know I've heard on here "never let dancing come between a relationship", but What Do I Do???



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