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    What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy?
    I'm sure once in a while a guy asks for a dance that a girl finds very attractive. Am I all wrong? If I'm right... do you do anything different.. try and get to know him??? Give him a better dance??

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Nope to me a customer is a customer regaurdless of looks

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    I agree with Kryssy. Sometimes though I actually get a little "frisky" feeling and wonder what he is like in bed, but that's where it ends...And he has to be smokin for me to get those thoughts....LOL



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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Quote Originally Posted by M3purple
    What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy?
    I don't know about the other ladies, but I usually lose all control and have sex with him right there. Sorry, just kidding.

    When I'm in dancer-mode I don't particularly care what customers look like. In fact, I kind of tend to avoid good-looking younger guys, because I get exactly the vibe from them that I get from this question. They tend to act a bit cocky, as though dancing for them is somehow more of a treat for me than dancing for an older/fatter/balder guy, so they don't have to tip as much or be as polite. (This is not all cute, younger men, but many.)

    As for getting a better dance, everybody gets the best dance from me that I'm capable of giving, cause I'm trying to sell them six more dances. The exception would be someone who's very grabby or smells bad; in that case, I'd avoid getting too close. I don't really try to "get to know" any customer in a deep way.

    Sometimes I've seen dancers hang out all night with cute customers. Usually these girls are very young and very new, and they lose money doing it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by grace
    I don't know about the other ladies, but I usually lose all control and have sex with him right there. Sorry, just kidding.

    When I'm in dancer-mode I don't particularly care what customers look like. In fact, I kind of tend to avoid good-looking younger guys, because I get exactly the vibe from them that I get from this question. They tend to act a bit cocky, as though dancing for them is somehow more of a treat for me than dancing for an older/fatter/balder guy, so they don't have to tip as much or be as polite. (This is not all cute, younger men, but many.)

    As for getting a better dance, everybody gets the best dance from me that I'm capable of giving, cause I'm trying to sell them six more dances. The exception would be someone who's very grabby or smells bad; in that case, I'd avoid getting too close. I don't really try to "get to know" any customer in a deep way.

    Sometimes I've seen dancers hang out all night with cute customers. Usually these girls are very young and very new, and they lose money doing it.
    Well said! I agree 100%



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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    I'm sure you guys have been asked 100,000,000 times, but have you ever said yes?

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Of course we say yes.... every night in your dreams!



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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Quote Originally Posted by M3purple
    I'm sure you guys have been asked 100,000,000 times, but have you ever said yes?
    Uh.......NO.



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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lena
    Of course we say yes.... every night in your dreams!
    lol .... so how do you meet guys?

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    It's funny that you all said no. While I was in school in PA, some friends and I went to this local club. I started talking to this one girl who was very nice. ( I know, she was prob new) So after about 30 min, I ask her if she wants to have dinner. Well, she says yes..I was expecting a NO and maybe a slap in the face!( I was only joking around) We ended up going out a few times too.

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    She probably thought you were rich and by going out to dinner with you she'd get you as her regular.

    Its good for her if that happened, but if not oh well. Maybe next time she'd be smart enough not to see customers outside of work.

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    Sure ya did, M3purple. I bet you've got strippers begging you for dates all the time, you big stud.

    I usually meet people in places that imply we have something in common - social action meetings, religious rituals, through friends, that sort of thing. Why, do you pick up customers at your work?

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lena
    Sure ya did, M3purple. I bet you've got strippers begging you for dates all the time, you big stud.

    I usually meet people in places that imply we have something in common - social action meetings, religious rituals, through friends, that sort of thing. Why, do you pick up customers at your work?

    Lena
    Then again, sometimes they say "yes" and you wind up with them for years.

    PS - Re customers at work... not me, but I've got a few divorce attorney buddies....
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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Quote Originally Posted by M3purple
    What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy?
    I'm sure once in a while a guy asks for a dance that a girl finds very attractive. Am I all wrong? If I'm right... do you do anything different.. try and get to know him??? Give him a better dance??
    What?! No!! So because he's cute, he gets a freebee? What kinda crap is that?!! That's definetly a negative, don't be cheap because someone is hot!!That's like going out with a guy and saying-Well, he doesn't have to pay for dinner because he's cute OR I'll pay all the bills because he's cute. I mean, sure I'll gas him up and tell him how cute he is and how much I just wish we could go home and do all kinds of nasty naughty little things together-but I also tell that to my big fat old smelly bald customers.

    However, I learned the hard way. When I first started dancing, I danced for an 'attractive customer' I was in a club where its common for girls to go out with guys and I went out with this dude a few times until I realized what a jerk he was. Case in point: DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER.

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Hell has just froze over, that's what happens.

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Quote Originally Posted by grace
    I don't know about the other ladies, but I usually lose all control and have sex with him right there. Sorry, just kidding.

    LMAO

    When I'm in dancer-mode I don't particularly care what customers look like. In fact, I kind of tend to avoid good-looking younger guys, because I get exactly the vibe from them that I get from this question. They tend to act a bit cocky, as though dancing for them is somehow more of a treat for me than dancing for an older/fatter/balder guy, so they don't have to tip as much or be as polite.

    TELL ME ABOUT IT.

    As for getting a better dance, everybody gets the best dance from me that I'm capable of giving, cause I'm trying to sell them six more dances. I don't really try to "get to know" any customer in a deep way.

    THAT'S THE WAY TO GO.

    Sometimes I've seen dancers hang out all night with cute customers. Usually these girls are very young and very new, and they lose money doing it.
    And I was one of them for the first month I started dancing. I'm trying to save every newbie the heartache and basically bullshit of a customer trying to get over on you sexually 'cause you're new.

    I second all of this

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena
    Sure ya did, M3purple. I bet you've got strippers begging you for dates all the time, you big stud.

    I usually meet people in places that imply we have something in common - social action meetings, religious rituals, through friends, that sort of thing. Why, do you pick up customers at your work?

    Lena
    lol..no sorry lena..she was the only one. It would be hard to date anyone at all now.... med school leaves me with zero time.

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    I don't do anything different for an attractive guy than I would for an ogre. And no, I'm not at work to find dates, I'm there to WORK, so I don't bother trying to get to know him anymore than I would an ogre. However, if I find him REALLY hot and discover a large python bulging in his pants, I will most definitely enjoy the dance more

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Quote Originally Posted by M3purple
    I'm sure once in a while a guy asks for a dance that a girl finds very attractive. Am I all wrong? If I'm right... do you do anything different.. try and get to know him??? Give him a better dance??
    If you're wondering if this phenomenon exists, the answer is yes. I've seen a number of dancers in my time act that unprofessional (ran into a couple on Saturday night in fact). As Grace pointed out, they're usually newbies who don't quite understand the purpose of being at work. Hopefully in time they will see the big picture. Some sadly never do, because they consider that stripping for 90 bucks a night is still an upgrade in employment from being a cashier at Hot Topic. At last check, you couldn't drink on the job at the mall.

    Please feel free to ask this type of dancer for "special priveledges" on account of your appearance all you want to. In fact, do whatever you can to remove them from my presence. No matter how hot they are, ones who act that unprofessionally are not deserving of my time, much less my money.

    As for the ones who do act professionally, a wad of cash, and to a lesser extent proper manners, are what does the talking. Hope this helps.
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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    The most successful dancers I know spend the majority of their time seeking out and cultivating average looking guys who are at the club to enjoy a fantasy-and spend money on a beautiful woman who makes them feel special. More than one dancer friend has told me that they avoid the handsome "don juan" types like the plague. The dancer is supposed to be the fantasy, not the customer.
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    Attractive? My husband's attractive. Are you my husband? No- pay me now.

    .....Sorry, what's that? You're Brad Pitt? Congratulations. Pay me now.


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    With you there sandi_g !!

    At the same time I would be a huge hyprocrite if I said that it didn't do anything for me (*cough cough Mt Isa Boy cough cough*). I also had a good time with another guy who was also quite attractive over Indy... we started talking a little dirty and I would be a robot if I didn't say that what we were both saying to each other didn't do a little something for me. *blush*

    At the same time, I generally don't "aim" for them as a customer. A customer is a customer is a customer the greater majority of the time. There are exceptions to the rule.


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    Well, there you go, M3purple, your fantasy is complete. Some dancers really might get excited by you. And maybe, just maybe, if you ask them, they'll say yes...

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    The most successful dancers I know spend the majority of their time seeking out and cultivating average looking guys who are at the club to enjoy a fantasy-and spend money on a beautiful woman who makes them feel special. More than one dancer friend has told me that they avoid the handsome "don juan" types like the plague. The dancer is supposed to be the fantasy, not the customer.
    dayum no wonder I never get approached

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    Default Re: What happens when you give a dance to an attractive guy.

    Actually, it's not a bad question, just phrased wrong...

    What goes through your heads when dancing/whatever for a guy that you are actually attracted to? Looks notwithstanding (There's a lot more than looks that makes a guy or girl attractive) just whatever. No dates, no nothing. But what i wanna know is this: Is it easier or harder? Does your heart beat a little faster? Do you enjoy it a little more? Is it a little easier? Do you flirt a little more (Note, i just said FLIRT)?

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