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    Does anyone know if dancing for private parties make good money? I know that for some male stripper they charge like $150.00 for half hour, so $300.00 for a whole hour. I think that's good money right there. It should be the same for the women too, I guess.

    Have any of you girls done this & what was your experience with that like? Would you reccomend it, yes...no?

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    Default Re: Stripping for private parties

    If so, anyone know of any good high end Companies that run this in the NJ/NYC area?

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    Default Re: Stripping for private parties

    Private parties are MUCH more involved than clubs. I had a friend who did bachelor parties...and some of the things she'd do...ick. Well, pussy shots (put a plastic test tube shot glass in her pussy and let the guy take a shot that way), shower shows (where every guy who pays $20 can lather her up with soap), nipple shots, lollipop sucks (the guy lays on the floor with the stick part of the lollipop in his mouth, and she would sit on his face, and take the lollipop out of his mouth with her pussy)...dildo shows, girl-on-girl shows, high-contact lap dancing...

    If that's something that you are interested in doing, then look into it. I am sure that there are girls who don't go to the upward mentioned degree...but, I've never met them. Sooooo....maybe contact a few agencies and "escort" some of the parties (meaning go to the party with the girls and see what they do without having to be a part of the entertainment).

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: Stripping for private parties

    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess

    If that's something that you are interested in doing, then look into it.
    Good luck!
    Um wow, I had no clue, lol.
    No, thanks...lol. That wouldn't be my shing dig, but thanks for the info.

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    When you get into private parties, YOU are the boss! All money goes to you. Pay your taxes...lol.

    Anyway, i do them, and LOVE them! I have many repeat customers, and some guys who i found are shy and want 1-on-1 party. I do shower shows, but my prices are fixed. Meaning the more guys i have and depending on what they want me do do, the price goes up! No tips, all is negotiated over the phone, and a male friend present.

    I will perform dildo shows while they watch...NO touching. I do shower shows while they probably jack off, i am not really looking at some of the guys. I have let some guys lather up my thighs and hair! No breasts or vagina...ever.

    I do friction dances...nude. I have done a few massages, but i suck at it, so i prefer to strip and perform while guys watch me.

    I loved doing this when cam was big, now cam sucks, so i do it LIVE!!!!

    YES! There is money to be made, just make sure the guys get what they ask for, and you set your limits, and they know what they are.

    I have 1 guy who i will do a private for once a month now, and he is great, very shy, does not talk much, young (over 18+ yes) and does not care what i do, he just never wants to leave....lol. He is very cool. My fav.


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    Default Re: Stripping for private parties

    ugh,private parties!!!

    Its safer for you to be in the clubs .You have many in the area that will make you alot of money.You wont have time to do private parties.

    I could care less what two adults do behind closed doors,im concerned about the well being of the entertainer.Without a doubt,the club is the safe place to be IMO.

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    Default Re: Stripping for private parties

    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka
    Does anyone know if dancing for private parties make good money? I know that for some male stripper they charge like $150.00 for half hour, so $300.00 for a whole hour. I think that's good money right there. It should be the same for the women too, I guess.

    Have any of you girls done this & what was your experience with that like? Would you reccomend it, yes...no?
    I did a couple of them for a friend who has a buisness in NJ and I wouldnt recommend them. I like clubs ALOT better!
    Make the money, dont let it make you!

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    I've done 3 private parties via my club [personally, I hates the fact our club pressures girls into doing them, especially topless dancers to do nude parties, but yeah].
    Any of the parties I've done are high contact, full nude, and one was g/g. Club supplied transport, music, + bouncer - but girl only got $100/hour without tips. The first party had plenty of guys, I made about $200 in tips [it was $800/4 girls] + $100 booking. Second I made $55 in tips and $100 booking, they were all poor college kids. Last was a disaster with only three guys, all of whom didn't speak english, and the fellow who arranged it refusing to pay more than the booking fee because we didn't do "full service." He also tried to trick our bouncer into being far away from us. >.<

    You can do without a bouncer and such, though I wouldn't for anything more than 1-on-1 shows - if it is a large party I'd hire a large guy I trust - and don't scimp on his cut! If you charge $300/hour, his cut is at least $50 + 10% tips.
    Contact IS up to you, though the activities VG described aren't unusual at all.
    The activities we did were "tacos" where you put a cherry into a hard taco shell, cover it with whipped cream, then lie down and place it between your legs [you're full nude right now, by the way] then the guy has to get the cherry without breaking the shell - $10
    Another was spraying a blop of whipped cream on each nipple and then right above your pubic hair [if you have any, I think I was the only one at that party that did] - $10
    Girl-girl show, two girls + body oil, guys stick money on them 'where ever' the more money and the 'nastier' it got - $200 base + tips
    Lap dances were one song, $20 w/o touching, $40 w/touching [no crotch] [I think I sold 5 of these, or something]
    Guy lies down and puts $5-10 on his face, girl sits on his face and picks up the bill.

    Basically, I recommend starting in a club to feel it out, if you even like something as simple as lap dancing. If you're very comfortable, maybe find another girl to do a party with to try out.
    Things like outright prostitution, being slipped a mickey [note, do not accept ANY drink that you yourself do not open], guys trying to separate you and your bouncer, etc. DO happen, and there aren't several other large bouncers and/or managers to come to your aid.
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    Default Re: Stripping for private parties

    I agree with Pamela on this one. I too have done private parties. Even a couple of them my husband bounced for me. I did do the body shots. Not the nasty stuff that Venus mentioned. I have done what I call body flips, Ride for Five, lap dances, theme parties, body paint, and used Ice cream and sundee toppings at the parties. I NEVER allowed the men to touch me.

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    When you get into private parties, YOU are the boss!
    Pamela is absolutely right about this. I would never recommend doing private parties through an agency or club. You're just opening yourself up to pressure from all sides to do more than you might be comfortable with.

    If you are able to arrange and schedule your own parties, YOU get to set the price, (I start at $350 for an hour show, but won't negotiate below $300), YOU get to set the limits of what you will do, and YOU get to hire someone you trust to be your bouncer.

    I was so disgusted after doing two parties with other girls - and they weren't nearly as explicit as what VG wrote about - that I decided I would no longer do that kind of party. To me, and many men I've spoken to, they're not sexy in any way.

    Instead, I decided to start offering an old-fashioned striptease show. I arrive in a full business suit, play some great big bandy type music, and slowly undress. I wear thigh-high stockings with a garter belt, a merry widowish camisole with hook-and-eyes - takes forever to get it off, prolonging the excitement, over that a skirt, blouse, jacket and tie.

    I usually let someone help me remove each piece of clothing (men are really bad at hook and eye closures LOL, but they love taking off shoes and stockings) - minimal contact is involved, but they FEEL like they've touched you. I'll only go nude if it is specifically requested. When all my clothes are off, I spend the rest of the hour (maybe another 30min) dancing for each guy around the room.

    Granted, there is a smaller market for this than for a "regular" party, but the men who enjoy this type of performance are the guys that we all prefer to have as customers - older, with money and respectful (relatively )
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    Default Re: Stripping for private parties

    I have done what I call body flips, Ride for Five, lap dances, theme parties, body paint, and used Ice cream and sundee toppings at the parties.


    Kryssy-I'm dying to know what your body flips are and ride for five?? Sounds very interesting..Please fill me in!
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    Ride for 5 is a lap dance with the man laying on the floor. Body flips are kinda a gymnastics type of move where you put your head between their knees (with them laying on the floor) roll over their body, and make it look like you are riding their face. However you are just touching them with you thighs. I always made big money off of this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CrescentLuna
    You can do without a bouncer and such, though I wouldn't for anything more than 1-on-1 shows - if it is a large party I'd hire a large guy I trust - and don't scimp on his cut! If you charge $300/hour, his cut is at least $50 + 10% tips.
    I would reccommend you NEVER EVER go to even a 1 on 1 party without a bouncer...ya never know what you may run into and your life is worth more than any money you're gonna get.
    I bounce ALL of Deanna's parties, 1 on 1 or not.....

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