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    I have been dancing for about 6 months. I am 5'7" 108 lbs. Before I started dancing I could go out and feel like everyone was looking at me. I felt very attractive. I thought I would probably be a pretty descent dancer. I have only had a couple of good money nights. The rest have been very consistant, but slow.

    I am finding it hard to get the lap dance. I know one problem is that I spend too much time talking to the customer before asking. Could it be the fact that I am too thin? Has anyone ever heard of that being a factor. I was just wondering if anyone had any more suggestions.

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    Jazmin

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    this sounds overly simple, but just ask. even if you ask right off and they say no, laugh and brush it off, chitchat for like 5-10 mins, then ask again. and if they say no after that, stop back by 20 mins later. where i work too many girls try to camp out with guys for an hour thinking it will result in the guy spending 200+. i bop around asking over and over and over, and i sell a lot more dances. guys are there to see hot girls, preferably dancing topless or naked for them, and asking all the time for the sale reminds them of this, so they then pony up the funds as needed. you being thin or thick is mostly incidental at work. if you are there, you are A Hot Girl and thus worth getting a dance from.

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    Default Re: Stuggling for the dance

    Are the other girls you work with doing better or about the same???

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    Default Re: Stuggling for the dance

    There are a few girls who do well most of the time. The rest seem to complain alot about not making enough money.

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    I have noticed that the girls that complain alot are not trying very hard. The more you move around, the more you will score the dances. I never sit with a customer more than 3 songs, unless he is paying me for my company or gets dances from me. Try to watch the girls that do well. I almost bet that they are doing the above.

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    Default Re: Struggling for the dance

    Read through the "hustle Hut" forum here and see if there is any pointers that give you an "ah-ha!" idea. Also try reading the articles that you can link to from the main page here.

    About you being too thin, I really don't think it matters much, unless all the rest of the dancers at your club are curvy or even thick. Then you might be trying to attract the wrong clientele. The guys who frequent those kind of bars do so hoping to find a certin "type" of dancer.

    If there is a club that has a lot of supermodel type girls, then you may find more guys interested in your type of look.

    I hope this is helpful.

    xoxo Paris Love


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Default Re: Stuggling for the dance

    Paris, I will definitely read the "Hustle Hut". You may be right about the clientele. Most of the dancers are curvy and a few are thick. I will take that in to consideration from now on. I may even check out a few of the other clubs in town to see the body types.

    Thank you,

    Jazmin

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    You might make more money at the club you are at though. Being different always brought more money for me!

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    Default Re: Stuggling for the dance

    Well do u think you are too thin? All guys have different tastes and I personally wish I was super thin. 5'7" and 108lbs is very very thin however! If you look like a concentration camp victum I'd suggest u gain some weight. I personally think extremes in being too thick or too thin is not attractive. But keep in mind this is just my personal opinion.

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