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    Default who to take with you for the first time?

    DID YOU GO ALONE, OR TAKE A FRIEND. HAVE YOU TRAVELED TO NEW CLUBS ALONE BEFORE?

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    Default Re: who to take with you for the first time?

    I have always gone to other clubs with friends or a boyfriend. Don't get me wrong, I would go by myself, but only if I knew the club. I would not attend a club alone I knew nothing about. If I went to a club I knew alone, they would know who I was and would not think of me as someone's wife checking in on the husband or out for the wrong reason...



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    Default Re: who to take with you for the first time?

    I go alone and con a bunch of guys to buy me dances. I've been doing that a lot lately. I really need to get on stage. Sheesh.

    Scouting clubs can be a lot of fun. I make sure that I am not taking away the dancers' business by entertaining men with my company. If anyone wants to talk with me, they have to buy me a dance. Haha. It sharpens my hustling skills. I make a point not to drink.

    Also, by doing this, the regulars are freaking begging me to start NOW.

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    You got your head on straight Lizette. You know how to not piss off the other dancers. Get on that stage woman!



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    Default Re: who to take with you for the first time?

    lol

    what state are you in Lizette?? Its time for you to get on stage.

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    Default Re: who to take with you for the first time?

    When I was club hunting, I went to clubs with a guy friend. The clubs here in Las Vegas do not let girls in alone. Some of them let you in if you're with a group of girls, but never alone. I'm guessing that's because they think you're gonna go in and try to hustle the customers....
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    I guess I have a rather severe attitude about it.

    I think that REAL women come into my club for the first time alone. They are not intimidated, they are in control, they know why they came, and they look managers /bouncers / other girls in the eye right from the start to get the respect they deserve.

    Little girls come with their boyfriends the first time (stay tuned 3 weeks for the dressingroom drama 'my bf cant handle this, he wants me to quit').

    Worst are the 'first timers' walking in with some older 'friend' whose rubbin up his mittens ready to start gettin paid. They're the ones asking "how much do the girls average, how much is the cost to work here", not the girl!!

    For some people, any man who takes his girlfriend or 'ladyfriend' into the strip club for the first time has turned her out, and they call them pimps. oh fu*k it. I call them pimps.
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    Default Re: who to take with you for the first time?

    Quote Originally Posted by 242_fair
    For some people, any man who takes his girlfriend or 'ladyfriend' into the strip club for the first time has turned her out, and they call them pimps. oh fu*k it. I call them pimps.
    Hmmm, I thought of myself as more of a "supportive boyfriend" than a "pimp". She decided she wanted to dance and asked me to take her out to check out clubs. That was her choice and I took her to the club to help her out. Obviously, not all men are this way. But don't generalize.

    If you have a supportive guy, he'd probably be quite happy that you valued his input. Like either a man or woman making a change, your significant other should always appreciate being part of the process.

    But that's just me.

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    Default Re: who to take with you for the first time?

    I go by myself, I've always kind of been a loner that way. I feel bringing someone else along for the ride is just baggage I can do without...
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    Re: who to take with you for the first time?

    Hey I'm in Las Vegas too ...I went into Spearmint Rhino to check it out last night. The managers and Dancers were really friendly to me. On the other Hand I went to Sapphire and I pretty much got ignored there. Have you been to either establishment? If so what was your experience there? This will be my first time dancing. Well after I go get my sherrifs card and business license.
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    I have always gone by myself to get hired at clubs.
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    Default Re: who to take with you for the first time?

    yeah I can really understand the go by yourself thing. The couple times I went with my girl, it was not the most comfortable experience waiting. I think mostly from the natural concern for her. Once in a while I would meet her since a club was kinda far for driving back from and we planned on doing some things together the next day, but the one time that I had to stop into a club to get the key, she was working on stage and it was still weird. I felt like she was in the middle of work and that it was a break in stride for her. As it turned out, we sat together for a few minutes and it was not uncomfortable for either of us, but with that said, I would not want to stick around. It's her choice to dance, I knew that when I met her and I accepted it then. She knows that its not something that I would like her to do, but nowhere is there the kind of money thats available there to her anywhere else where she still retains her spiritual ground.

    There were a couple of times that she checked out new clubs with a friend, and I always felt better knowing that she was not alone. After all, she is not walking into churches... anyway, thats my $.02

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    Default Re: who to take with you for the first time?

    The first job I got dancing, I went to visit a dancer friend at her club by myself, and then ended up working there, and the second time, my friend and her boyfriend and I went and checked out some clubs together. This same friend and I auditioned together for the club we chose also. Recently, I was in the market for a new club, and I went and auditioned at a few that I already had information about since I knew people that used to work at them. I went alone. I think for auditioning it definitely is more adult to just suck it up and go by yourself. Unless of course you and your friend are auditioning together.

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