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    ok, my "friend" knows a dancer at this club.

    my "friend" says um. uhh this dancer looks rather like a guy... and customers keep asking uhh "her" if its a guy or not, and she says of course its a girl...but lately "shes" um begining to wonder...


    its really not important either way, and its not really any of "uhh her" business, but its just one of those lil things that are starting to niggle um her.



    is there any tell tale signs i can tell my "friend " to look for? other then the obvious,maybe something surgery cant quite get at?!

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    Adam's apple. Guys can't hide the adam's apple. No woman has one that sticks out like men's do.

    But sometimes you just can't really tell.

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    yeah, but im pretty sure you can get the adams apple shaved off.....do ALL guys have one in the first place?

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    There is only one way to tell for sure--do a DNA test.
    Any aspect of appearance can be altered by surgery. Appendages can be added or removed.

    People can naturally "look" like anything. Unless altered by surgery, it is rare for a female to have a more pronounced Adam's apple. The physical structure is based on the balance of hormones in the body at the time that appendage is formed + the pre-coded genes, somewhat altered by later balances.

    A good makeup artist and costumer can make 65% of women look like men and 65% of men look like women. Take your "friend" to see Victor/Victoria.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mermaidnz
    yeah, but im pretty sure you can get the adams apple shaved off.....do ALL guys have one in the first place?
    All human beings have one. Actually, probably all mammals have one if you want to get specific. The Adam's Apple is a valve that shuts off the airway to your lungs from your esophagus when you swallow. This way when you eat food doesn't go down into your lungs. Pretty clever, eh? Men typically have a more pronounced Adam's Apple but it's not always the case. I've known women to have large ones and men to have small ones. It's a good general yardstick test, but it isn't always the case just like not every guy who walks in your club with a Rolex likes to spend money.

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    Well, I was going to say, "Grab em between the legs" but, I'm sure they would either have it cut or tucked. LOL



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    Some women have a large amount of testosterone; practically all have some. Just a possibility.

    Why not ask if this person is she was transgendered? Better yet, bring the subject up not directed at them (practice your subtlety first).
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Adam's apple. Guys can't hide the adam's apple. No woman has one that sticks out like men's do.

    But sometimes you just can't really tell.
    nope they get them shaved down it's not a indicater at all anymore.


    if it's a sex change you wont be able to tell. if it's a drag queen she will be tucked and they also get big impants now.

    the only way i can usually tell is the voice. sex change or not usually they retain the "drag queen" voice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VADEN
    Well, I was going to say, "Grab em between the legs" but, I'm sure they would either have it cut or tucked. LOL
    Thats how Crocadile Dundee did it.

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    Size of the hands is often a dead giveaway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adina
    Size of the hands is often a dead giveaway.
    I would have to agree, hands and voice...dead giveaway....



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    OMG I know this one he/she who well...is now %100 woman now. I couldn't even tell it was a man, he didn't sound like a man. He has the real bitchy female attitude, and he looks fucking awesome as a woman!! BEAUTIFUL, he puts alot of women to shame!! Hahaha, sad but true. I couldn't believe it was a man, there was absolutely nothing masculine about him!! :o

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    All of the drag queens I have ever seen, and all of the transexuals I have ever seen have still had their "man" hands. Taking hormones and/or having surgery can get rid of the adam's apple, or change the voice, but they can't do anything about the size and SHAPE of the hands. Also, when I see drag queens/transexuals, they are often very heavily made-up, and tend to try to over-emphasize their "feminine" mannerisms. For instance, they will sip a drink, cross their legs, blink, etc. in an overly feminine way.
    Also, sometimes you can tell because there won't be enough of a hip to waist measurement ratio. In a lot of drag queens/transexuals, even though they have the breast implants, they still don't have a curvy torso. They will still have the pelvic bones of a man, and so will never, even with a sex change or hormones, ever achieve a womanly shape without some drastic plastic surgery. The only guy I ever saw who was able to achieve an acceptable waist to hip ratio had a couple of ribs removed, and implants put in his hips and ass to give him a more womanly shape.

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    hmmm so when i think about it....she definatly over accentates things in action as brittany describes, and she dresses kinda umm drag queen-ish ( god i hope she never reads this!) she is shortish,and skinny,so maybe ill check out the hip bone thing.oh yeah,and shes got implants.and dances kinda out there...well i know shes been stiripping for a while, yet she dances really robotic,not fluid at all. something id expect from a fresh scared dancer.lol i dunno...

    it really doesnt matter tho, its not going to change anything, im just interested now


    as for the hands, i have massive hands! lol and i definatly am not a guy! lol long skinny piano fingers apparently!

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    Hahahahah..now I understand "The Man Hands" episode of "Seinfeld."

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    man hands eposide??

    damn my hands arent hairy or nothing, just long and skinny! ( but im 5 foot 10!)

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    Default Re: is SHE a HE? how can i tell??

    Every time I go out to the dance clubs around my area there are a few asian women always hanging out. The thing is I can't figure out if their girls or transgenders either!
    I also don't think there is as subtle way of asking anyone that looks transgender if they are. Thats like asking a woman, " How far along are you?" (cause she looks pregnant) and finding out she is not.. ( < I did that once) Maybe if you get to know the he/she it can be asked more comfortably. That way the person won't get offended as easily.

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    lol well tonight SHE had a tampon string hanging out, .lol i guess thats a pretty sure sign! unless she did it on purpose cos she read this site.hah

    i was talking to another dancer tonight about it, and she said she thought the same thing!

    maybe this chick does just have too much testosterone?!!

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