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    Hi Im Nick! Im the new guy around here!

    Im here because i need advice on my ex girlfriend. She is a beutiful stripper. I have also done male stripping and i think its great!

    We started dating after she broke up with my best friend. She moved in to my house and we lived together for 3 months. It was great, the sex the realationship, we did so many fun things! Got stuck up in the moutains in my truck and partyed like crazy all the time. I did everything for her.

    Then things started going not so good, she started going out without me because i had to work the next day, then she would stay out for 3 days. It would kill me! After awhile we broke up and she moved out.

    After she moved out a week later she called my telling me that she was pregnate, we had to get an abortion. It really sucked. Then we got back together 2 times, and broke up within acouple of days.

    She is now staying with her dather and the father, i dont think they are seeing eachother. She just got her boob job and her phone has been off because she was saving money for her boobs, so i have not talked to her in like a week.

    We do see eachother once in awhile, and i still get text msg from her like "hi baby" or "i miss u", "i luv u". I really love this girl and wish i could have made it work the first time. I asked her "how can i get u back baby?" she said "time." LOL Rite now we are just friends but we do have sex sometimes, last time she was telling me how much she loves me.

    So what should I do? Leave her alone and just be her friend? Or should I put myself out on the line and ask her if she wants to come back to me. Its seems everytime I ask her to come back to me im on my knees.

    What do you think?

    Love to all you cuties in here!

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    Hi Nick! Welcome to Stripperweb!

    Please, listen to me. Get away from this girl. Seriously, don't see her, don't talk to her. It will be a very difficult and painful thing for you to do, but please, just trust me on this. You will be doing yourself the biggest favor of your life. I know you care about her very much and want to be back together with her, and you think that even after everything that she's done she still deserves you. SHE DOES NOT. She sounds very dysfunctional to me, and I think you need to put distance between the two of you. She will never respect you or really want to be with you when you are begging her to come back to you, and still having sex with her. She may still care about you, or even love you, but I don't think that she respects you. Guess what? If you act like you're no longer interested in getting back together with her, and you are busy with friends, maybe a new girl (make one up if you have to), she will suddenly claim to have seen the error of her ways and come running back to you. This is because you will have proven to her that you are a strong, independent man, and not her bitch puppy dog. Do not take her back if this happens. Appreciate the situation for what it is, and move on. The chances of you forming a respectful, long-term relationship with her are next to none. I know you will probably not take my advice, because you think I don't know you, don't know her, don't understand your situation, but you asked for help, and I'm giving it to you straight. I've been in a situation very similar to yours, and it took me way too much time, energy, pain, and sleepless nights to finally understand what was going on, get past the emotions involved, and deal with the situation at hand accordingly. Don't be offended by anything I've written, I'm just trying to be blunt with you because you're not going to get through this one by being emotional and rationalizing her behavior.

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    Thanks for the reply commando! I know this is what i need to do.

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    I'm glad you know it. Now comes the tough part...doing it. It's the only way you will come to be able to respect YOURSELF. (She will probably respect you more as well, although she won't recognize that that's what she's feeling, but at this point, that's irrelevant) The most important thing here is for you to respect yourself, and not be played by anyone, or take shit from anyone, regardless of who it is.

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    Good advice Commando.

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    Yeah you have to leave that girl i think she just play with your feelings, she knows how much you love here... don't make her life to easy if she really loves you she comes after you.




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    that's so sweet Darcy

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    I agree 100% with Commando.... Good-Luck......



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    im not saying anything....
    but i have a question...

    How old are you?

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    I think you two should stick together...in the same house...and lock the doors...from the outside.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY
    im not saying anything....
    but i have a question...

    How old are you?
    From the look of his Screen name, I would venture to say 21...

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    Hmmm... Sounds like Jerry Springer would like this one! My family is like that! I say meditate and do what you know your intuition says. Works for me most times.
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    I agree with commando 100%. You need to get away from this chick. Don't call her, erase her number, change your number so she can't call you. Don't go to her house, don't have sex with her, don't answer the door if she comes over. The relationship will never be healthy and the only way to get past it is to completely cut her out of your life.

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    I say leave her, go farrrrrrrr away where she can't find you

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    Ive been trying to do this but some way she keeps coming back, I have other girls but they just dont compare. She took a huge part of my heart and i cant get it back. I should post a pic maybe then you guys would understand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nickg1983
    Ive been trying to do this but some way she keeps coming back, I have other girls but they just dont compare. She took a huge part of my heart and i cant get it back. I should post a pic maybe then you guys would understand.
    Why?

    Please do not take offense to this ... but sounds a little superficial. (btw-not your story, just this comment.)

    Looks aren't everything. Yes they attract, but it's the other qualities which determine whether a relationship is lasting.
    If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.


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    Verf....i was going to say why to that also....but you know...i really want to see the picture now.

    Try and make me understand

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    I agree with commando, you have no respect for yourself. Let her go, don't play games just find someone who want to be with you. I know she may sound fun and wild in bed, but that sh*t fades. She went out with your bestfriend and disappears for days while partying!! This chick is bad for you and your heart.
    Stop torturing yourself. I hope you are not giving her money too?
    Alot of us here have been blinded by love and it's hard to accept the truth. I think you should really listen to everyone and forget that beeyatch!

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    This is one of those trick question threads, right?

    Right?

    Anyone? Anyone? Bueller?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Prina
    I think you should really listen to everyone and forget that beeyatch!
    The Truth...brought to you by Prina

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    You gotta give her 'THE CUT' Let me explain 'The Cut' to all of you...

    The Cut, a term coined by a friend of mine, is when you have a lover, friend, family member, in your life and they just really suck. They bring you down, make you feel like miserable shit, or you just don't really give a fuck about them anymore and they are annoying. So you give them 'The Cut' which means you no longer hang out with them, talk to them, see them, NOTHIN. They are completely CUT out of your life.

    The cut dude, give her the cut!
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