I was thinking about this all week...Don't mean to be a thread whore but I have to ask...
When I see a customer alone, I wait and see if they order a drink...
If they do, I approach, ask if I may join them, and introduce myself.
I ask if they've been here before to see if it's another women's regular,
If not, I continue...But here is where I stumble up...
I'd like to learn some tactics in taking control of the conversation.
Yesterday I felt a quick rapport with one guy because we both voted the same,
but then his friend showed up and they got dances from everyone BUT me.
Last week Weds I must have had my hustle button on, because it was strangly effortless selling, and my technique was the same.
I'm finding it hard to leave my real personality in the dressing room, or decide which persona to play with. Guys always tell me I seem innocent, or collegiate..which means too much of real me is showing through. But I have a great sympathic ear, which seems to work.
BTW, Friends think it's just hilarious that this job requires me to act sexy, because they know just how seriously inexperienced I am with actual sex...lol
Sometimes thoughts like, "Oh my god this guy thinks I'm a dumb girl who can't do anything else", "I'm selling out for less than I'm worth", or shit like that will come into my head while chatting...(Even though no one's said them)..*I* know it's not true, but on some level it keeps me from doing as good as I should. Or if he doesn't want a dance, it becomes, "Damn I'm not even worth $10-$20?"



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