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    Default Domination

    Recently, a really good regular at my club (and who is particularly fond of my good friend) has asked me to dominate him, i.e. talk shit, maybe slap him around a bit. The request was for in the club. He says that he'll do anything for me and what's more, my friend seems burnt out on him (he's high maintenance) and has told me to go for it. FYI, I have already informed him that there will be no sex play involved. He wants humiliation, the whole deal.

    Not only does it sound like fun, but I do have some aggressive tendencies that I have no outlet for. He has lots of money and is not afraid to spend it. He WANTS to be submissive and seems to think that I am the one to boss him around. It seems that not only could this arrangement be profitable but also therapeutic for me.

    Anyone else ever had an offer like this that they took up? Any of you guys out there ever made this kind of request? Feel free to PM me, ladies or gentlemen, if you don't feel comfortable posting in the public forum.

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    Domination can be a very interesting area to get into or think about, but as with anything, warnings do need to be issued.

    I've been involved in the BDSM community on one level or another for many years (I'm a Dom), and there are some great people who enjoy it, but there are the jerks (like in any group) that are a bit out of their minds.

    But there are many people who enjoy this type of Domination play, even with the no sex, and there is a particular male market for it. I've done a few plays with some girls I've known over the years that focus on humiliation fantasies and it's intriguing. I must admit that despite my aggressive and controling tendencies, I don't enjoy it very much, so I don't know how well it would play as an outlet. It's one of those give and take things...I do it because I know the girl I'm with wants it. The first couple of times I tried it, it made me feel like even bigger of an asshole than I normally am, but I was eventually able to justify it with myself.

    If it's profitable, there's nothing wrong with it as long as you're comfortable with it...but I don't recommend it as something to make you feel better or to vent. It may just frustrate you more (ask your friend why she's burnt out on him, specifically). If you're interested in trying it, I do recommend going to a domination or general BDSM club, or meet with some people who do it a bit more regularly, and talk about it or see what it's like. I don't recommend the 'Power Exchange' in SF, which has turned into a bit of a meathouse for the pop-alternative crowd and the genderbenders in town.

    If you want, I know of a Yahoo Group for BDSM enthusiasts in the Bay Area, and would be happy to send it over to you. The people on there are good people, and might be able to give you some excellent advice.

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