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    Arrow I know you might think I'm nuts....

    Alright..I know its a little crazy. But, I want to look older. I look like I'm 16!!! I have been told that many times?
    I basically want to be taken seriously by men when I'm at work. I can so my make up nice and so on. I know some of it is carrying yourself, clothing, speech.. but I want to LOOK older more mature. I couldnt find if this has been posted before. Any input would be great!!

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    Re: I know you might think I'm nuts....

    R u Kidding me? How do u think Jenna Jameson first became a star? By working the young girl look for as long as she could. I'm 33, but I look 23, and I'm gonna use to break into the the business.

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    Default Re: I know you might think I'm nuts....

    try different make-up techniques (sp)...but trust me...looking younger is an asset...not a liability...when you get my age (36)...you'll understand...and appreciate looking ten to fifteen years younger...that is if you continue to stay on top of things...and take real good care of yourself...
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    Default Re: I know you might think I'm nuts....

    If you put a little bit of eyeliner or mascara on your bottom lashes that will help you look older. Do you wear fake eyelashes? That adds a lot of glamour. What about your hair? Have you tried asking a stylist, or some of the other dancers that you work with, how you could make your hair look more sophistacated and glamourous?
    Try looking at some of the outfits that some of the older dancers wear at your work. Maybe try wearing something that is less revealing when you are walking around trying to sell dances. I have heard more than one person say that "the more you wear the more you make". I learned that in my dancer wealth training class.
    Do you have a lot of peircings or tattoos? Most older dancers don't. A lot of older guys are turned off by peircings and too many tattoos.
    BTW - I have had older guys turn me down because they thought I was too young at first. Then I told them my age- 37.
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    I always try to look older, and wear conservative costumes. "If you wanna see it, you gotta pay for it!" (One hot officer I dated complimented my demure appearance... made it all worth it LOL!) IMO some customers get a "run along little girl" attitude towards a young- appearing dancer..they're hoping for a kinky lady or a date, or both....
    Best way to look maturated: more makeup (including foundation and blush) MATTE lipstick, or darker lipsticks, NO gloss...."aggressive" looking eye-makeup (three shades of shadow, mascara, liner, glitter/gold powder, The Works) And always, well-done hair and nails. Curl, hairspray, and French manicure. Knock 'em dead!

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    Default Re: I know you might think I'm nuts....

    Damn these are some good ones.....And yes I have been turned down right when sit down with them with them telling me "god, you look younger than my daughter!!" Geez what do you say to that..um gee thanks? I do like the sophiticated look myself.
    Thats a good idea about wearing less revealing outfits I'll have keep that in mind when I shop for outfits.

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    For every customer who doesn't want a dance from you because you look like his daughter, there are three others who WANT a dance from you because you look like their NEIGHBORS daughter.

    Some customers don't like blonds (yeah... go figure!)... some don't like skinny girls.... some don't like large boobs.... some don't like lots of makeup.... On the other hand, there are plenty of customers who LOVE skinny blonds with big boobs and makeup that looks like it was troweled on by a brick mason. To each their own.

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    Default Re: I know you might think I'm nuts....

    Quote Originally Posted by susan
    For every customer who doesn't want a dance from you because you look like his daughter, there are three others who WANT a dance from you because you look like their NEIGHBORS daughter.
    lol ya perv susan!!!

    But she is right!
    The number one selling porn in the wolrd???

    yup,teen porn.

    What your asking about is like an NBA star asking if he is to tall or John holmes asking if he is big enough.

    If you look 16 in the adult industry,and learn to use it to its fullest advantages,your gonna bank!!!

    Use it before you lose it sweety!!

    Best of luck

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    For every customer who doesn't want a dance from you because you look like his daughter, there are three others who WANT a dance from you because you look like their NEIGHBORS daughter.
    I agree, and you should read Jenna Jameson's book, she talks a lot about how she looked so young when she was stripping.
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    Guys LOVE the young girl look. I played it to my advantage when I danced. I did the school girl outfit, platform baby-doll shoes, pigtails, the whole thing and I BANKED! Use it to your advantage! Almost all men are pervs that want to fuck teenagers. Kinda fucked up, but hey...use it to your advantage! I did!
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    Quote Originally Posted by susan
    For every customer who doesn't want a dance from you because you look like his daughter, there are three others who WANT a dance from you because you look like their NEIGHBORS daughter.
    Yes! I also look quite young and am thin with small breasts, and there is no shortage of creepy old men that fantasize about younger girls and find that strippers who LOOK young are really the only acceptable outlet. I think if you look young, that is your niche and you should stick to it. I will never appeal to the customers who want a mega-aggressive, older, super sexual woman, but I'm definitly not hurting for customers by appearing young, sweet, and innocent!

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    I am only 20 but I look older the way I portray and carry myself. I personally like the classy, seductive, sensual, glamorous look. It is not the fact that i wanna look older, it's the fact that that is what I find attactive and so I think it should attract others. But everyone does have their own tastes. I could never do the bimbo, cheerleader, giggly act. It's just not in me.

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    Why is it that there is always some one that wants to look older? I say milk the whole you look young enough to be their daughter for what it's worth. Most guys are into the younger looking girls. I know one dancer who was actually 31 but looked easily ten years younger or more and she had no shortage of customers, myself included. Of course it did help that she gave outstanding dances.

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    perfect example of me i always wanna look older when im in the clubs.. some guys say to me 'wow, are you really 18, you look 21' and some say 'are you on your school holidays' grr + grr again!!! just depends on the consumer really, and how much they've had 2 drink. but im sure that when i am alot older (+ more wrinkly) i would probabvly accept the 'are you on your school holidays' lmao... but, as you sed is tru, most blonkes go 4 the yunger look, as i happened be the top earner 2 weeks in a row in the 'you look so yung' club lmfao... *ping*
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    Default Re: I know you might think I'm nuts....

    Older guys seem to go for younger chicks.
    And now it seems younger guys are going for the older chicks.
    By older,i mean over 30.
    When THAT became older?
    I dunno.
    It just crept up on me.
    Weird.

    As Topaz said,When you get to 35?
    Looking 10 years younger is gonna be a godsend.
    If you really want to look older?
    Smoke a lot,spend heaps of time in the sun and drink a shitload of alcohol.
    In about 5 years?
    You'll look MUCH older.

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    Well, take up smoking and drinking, spend lots of time in the sun, without wearing sunblock, never get enough sleep, and eat poorly.

    I'm kidding. You know that, right.

    There's plenty of time to be older, and older, and older later. As one of the dancers told me the other night "30 is 69 in stripper years". OK, she's weird. When you're 35 and people think you're 22, while many of the other 35 year old women look 48, you'll be greatful.

    Just take care of yourself and enjoy favorable genetics.

    BTW, I don't think it's so much "all men are perves that want to fuck teenagers" as it is that all men refuse to admit that they aren't teenagers, so naturally the young women seem the right choice.
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    Thanks everyone.. I'm gonna start puffin away right now! No just kidding! Maybe, it is genetics? My mom is 43 and she looks like she is in her mid to late 30's and get this ..she smokes(I hate it though). She still looks so young probably because she has stayed outta the sun for most of her life. Does anyone else out there want to be taken seriously by looking older? I will try to make up thing and more classic grown up attire when at work.
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    Yup, I definitely want to be taken seriously. I remember when I was a newbie men always thought I was so niave (which I was) and try the most awful shit with me. They'd think I was stupid and say they were playboy and needed a model or that they owned a club in vegas and they wanted me. Pfft! I changed hardcore and get respect now, not to mention more dances, but hey, that's just me.

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