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    Has anybody ever had another dancer ask if you would share your coustomer (a coustmer of 2 years of mine)with her? This happended to me the other night for the first time in the 6 years I have danced.
    I was so shocked by her question.....thats like someone asking you to give them food off your childerns table to me . what do you all think about thisd?

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    I see your point and can understand your feelings.

    I would say it all depends on the customer at your descretion.

    Sometimes its faster to get to the buried treasure, if two people are digging.

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    Done it before. Friendship is more golden than twenty or fifty bucks......you know those guys are going to want to hang with another dancer sooner or later, why not a pal than not?

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    He eventually will move on to another dancer, they always do. I personally would rather have a friend move in with us so that I could still stay in the hustle... Meaning, now it would be a great threesome dance and if you both play your cards right, you could end up making more money this way off the guy. He will become trapped by the both of you...This happened to me and now he comes in to get double dances only from us.. Just be sure to explain this to your friend and make sure she knows of the new game about to be played, if she is a willing player then you will willingly share.....



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    Has he shown an interest in her, where you can see he likes her, and may want to get a dance from her? Or is she just asking you to intoduce her to him and share him?

    If she's asking you to introduce her to him and just share him without any previous indication from him, then I would say no you don't have to do it. Let her find her own customers. In fact there is a small chance he might find it insulting.

    Now if you know he's interested in her, and she's asking in order to avoid looking like she's just outright trying to steal your customer, than you may feel it's okay to share.

    Some of the dancers I know like it when their regulars show interest in other dancers by tipping them on the stage or getting an occasional dance. It helps to confirm that the customer is not going to turn into a PRIL and get overly possessive on them.
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    at least she asked.

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    wait, is she your friend?

    if not, who cares?! sure he'll move on, and when you sense he wants to, then you can help her out, but until then, this is business. Treat it like it!

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    she is not a friend I hardly know her to say the least. she just started at the club about 4 days ago.... my coustmer showed no intrest in her at all.......Now he does tip every girl on stage and tips very well he always has....If he had shown intrest in her or any other girl for that matter I would have no problem getting him or asking him to give her a dance or 2 or 3 but the fact of the matter is she was trying to be conniving and shady. when my coustmer came in the club that night we all where standing up at the bar and the bartennder ask him what he was up to tonight my coustmer repled ..."not much just out and about and decided to come in and see Myiah" everyone heard him say that even her when she saw him dishing out the money to me and how well he was tipping every girl on stage including her thats when she made her move to "move in" Now I am a nice person and sometimes my niceness is conscrewed as a weakness but i am far from a stepping stone for some one... if she had been patcitent I would have helped her feel and become comfortable at the club and I still will and i am... but she is not a trust worthy person to me nor could i ever consider her a friend... I love helping other girls make money and I always do just dont use me as your steeping stone. She knows she made a mistake and she has aopligized and I am trying real hard to look over the fact she tried to step on my toes ...i am very nice to her and everybody else.

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    Hey there, I see you are trying to bite your tongue on the whole issue... it sucks when people expect you to help them out when clearly they wouldn't do the same for you.... Just watch out! I've lost many a customer because some girl tried to move in and lied about me to him, he didn't go with her but he did leave the club never to return, good riddance I guess if he wouldn't talk to me about it.
    I just say watch out and if need be latch on to the guy and let him know your fears a lot of guys that come in just to see you want to know some about you and I let mine know exactly what is going on, I won't talk trash on the girl, but I do ask him about why he cares ofr me so much that he only comes in to see me. They like to tell us how they feel and a lot of the time you can pick up whether or not they are losing interest.. well, good luck!
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    Well, she did ask, at least, and give you a change to say no. That seems less shady than waiting til you left his table to go on stage or to the bathroom, then horning in. There's a girl at my club who does this constantly...she's not a very good hustler in many way, but she sure is persistant -- she'll just camp out at the table until sometimes customer themselves ask her to leave.

    Anyway, since she asked, I'd say don't judge her right away, depending on how she took your answer, of course.

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    If you're going to intentionally share your customer do it with someone you know and trust! I think it was really rude for this girl to ask! Also if you introduce her to your customer and she turns out to be a bitch then if will reflect badly on you.

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    I agree with Vaden. It may initially seem like you are going to be losing out on money, but in the end if it turns out he loves doing double dances as well as dances with the both of you seperately, then you keep the money close. It also makes you look very secure with yourself. Many customers are aware that some dancers jealously guard their customers as if they are possesions and not people, and by you sharing him with a friend you show that you are beyond that.

    From another angle, you can always tell yourself that by sharing a customer it will allow him to see how much better your dances are in comparison to those of others and just how great a gal you are!

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    Yeah, I wouldnt share my customers with anybody that wasnt a friend. If my customer shows interest in girls that I dont like I just tell them that we dont get along to well, but he is welcome to sit with her if he wants.
    Me and a friend, Lacy, work together a LOT. We make WAY more money when we work together. The trick is finding a girl that you like and work well with. There is nothing worse then working with a girl that wont try to make money.
    I have said in other threads, we hustle drinks. Well, the faster you drink your drink, the sooner you get another and the more money you make. I hate sitting with girls who will sit on a $35 (which we only make 20 off of) for two hours. I drink my drinks, but when I drink 4 in the time that she drinks 1, it makes me look greedy and that i am trying to drink my drinks as fast as i can. Me and Lacy try to stay perfectly in sync with one another that way neither one of us look like we are sucking them down.
    I would NEVER ask a girl if I could join her at a table unless I already knew the answer to the question, YES.

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    From a customers perspective. I've had dancers try to move in on my fav's territory and I doubt they asked for permission. It usualy happens when the fav is not around or tied up in champagne. I'm very loyal and very much a creature of habit so it usualy doesn't work with me. Of course, ultimately, we are going to spend money on whomever we want to spend it on. Unless your dealing with a total RIL, sooner or later every guy wants to try another flavor of ice cream.

    On a related side note, I have a fav in one of my regular clubs who asks me to do a dance or two with her roomate sometimes. The roomate is beautiful but shy-still learning the ropes. It's hard for me to refuse a request from someone who is asking me to do something that she knows will potentialy take money out of her pocket....did I mention the roomate was hot?
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