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    I worked at a super small club when I started and this month started at a large club that is always busy. I've noticed I get turned down more than I did at my other club, and i am still making the same amount of money. All the other girls are constantly giving dances and at the end of the night they have around 1500 while I am only in the 300's. at this club I give the guys about 5 minutes before asking for the dance...should be enough, but it's not working for me.

    A friend of mine who works there told me to "get drunk", and that doesn't work for me. i've tried it too many times. And then she told me to "Grab them". And I'm not about to do that since I have an uptight boyfriend who doesn't understand the job.

    My bf makes me feel really guilty every day about my work, and that has actually stopped me from working. But besides that when I do go to work, I need to know how to bank, so I don't have to stress out as much when my bf manipulates me into staying home.

    HELP!

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    Default Re: Help me be a hustler!

    Check out DancerWealth's website. I suggest trying out one his seminars.


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    Are you sure they're making $1500 that's an awful lot maybe they say they're making more than they are to try to make you feel bad.? Also you could look at some of those books listed here in the thread sales or selling books. If you're making 300 or 350 that's not bad so you shouldn't feel bad about yourself.
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    Default Re: Help me be a hustler!

    You say the other girls are constantly giving dances, and you're talking to the guyds for 5 min first. Could you maybe be talking to the guy for too long? I know it sounds weid, but if the girls are just dragging the guys off to get dances, that might be what the guys are used to, and conversation isn't the norm. Try talking less and being more assertive and see how it works.

    Also, going from a slow club to a busy club is hard! It might take awhile to get used to. It took me awhile to get used to nights after working days at first,but now it's great. Good luck

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    It's impossible to make $1500/night from just dances. They must be doing VIP rooms (or lying), which is a completely different hustle than "grab them", which can work for selling dances, but it's not going to forge good relationships with the customer so they want to spend more and come back again.

    I'm sure your boyfriend has something to do with this. If you don't go in there with your best game, it's going to affect your attitude at work.

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    I know before I started dating my boyfriend I was making between 700 and 900 a night, so he probably has a lot to do with it. And I have a really good friend who also dances at this club. she always makes $1000+ a night. well thanks, hopefully I can get up there.

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    Default Re: Help me be a hustler!

    so then you know what to do!

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    As a customer, I would advise you not to wait more than one song before hitting them up for a dance. It shouldn't take any longer than that for the customer to know whether he wants a dance from you or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sandi_g
    Check out DancerWealth's website. I suggest trying out one his seminars.
    Sandi is right, his seminar is AMAZING. If you take his course you should be a top earner in no time.
    "She believed she could, so she did." -unknown

    **Rachelle**

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    It's all about the salespitch. From a customer's POV, I'm reluctant at trying out new girls, but sometimes their salespitch just blows me away. It's either a soft stroke of the arm, the leg or a kiss on a cheek, whatever you're comfortable with. Works on me lol.

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    I need to be straight with you. You are carrying your guilt from your boyfriend to the club and your customers. Guys can sense how your feeling. You need to either learn to act better. Dump the dood for a super supportive guy or realize you won't make as much with guilt in your heart. You have to let GO Baby when your at the club.

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    Where's NinaD and her signature DTMA call?

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    She's on vacation right now. She'll be back in the New Year.

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    Whenever I actually employ what I learnt at the DW training... my ability to do less dances for more money is guaranteed. Instead of being in and out a million times a night in the private dance room .... I instead only have to sell a few dances to make the same amount if not more than the girl who is doing 10 minute (cheaper) shows.

    I'm learning this.. learnt this last night very well. Now I only pitch the "half of an hour" and 20 minute dances. I only ever mention the ten minute one if I am sure I can't sell the 20 minute one.

    Anyway... what I was trying to say is that the DW course is worth the investment.

    Other than that, have a look-see at the general "Mode of Operation" (aka MO) of the dancers at your club. They might be more up-front, get closer to the punters, provide more body contact and so forth at this new club. See what the punters are used to receiving as part of the "sales pitch" from the dancers.

    Also.. I too would like to join in with everyone else to say that your man making you feel real guilty for doing something you personally have no problem with (it is HIS problem - do not make it yours) does indeed have an affect/effect on your earnings and self in the club. I learnt this last night as well (except in my case it was something my dad had said to me).


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    I think working at the big club will in time help you with your hustle. I'd pay attention to the behaviors of some of your biggest earners, try to mimic behaviors that seem to catch the customers. In time you'll be able to work your own ideas in, and make more money.

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    Girl you need to stand up for youself. If you were stripping first then he walked into it and if he doesnt like it then he shouldn't have started a relationship with you he has no right to try to change you or what you do nor should he try to make you feel guilty about it
    It was his choise to date a stripper tell him to get over it or get lost

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    I don't like dancers who are too quick to hustle me for dances - if they won't sit with me spending time to get to know I don't mind sending them on their way. I am the one who is in control not them. Sometimes I will sit in a club for an hour or more before I finally pick who I mite have dances with. My goal is either quality entertainment ITC within budget or good sex OTC.

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    ^ Oh, give it up...

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    My bf makes me feel really guilty every day about my work, and that has actually stopped me from working. But besides that when I do go to work, I need to know how to bank, so I don't have to stress out as much when my bf manipulates me into staying home.


    I think the reason you are not making money is because your worried about "making money." I know that we all are dancing for the money, but when it is too much of a concern, it interferes with making money. I would know girls who would come into the club and had to make X amount of dollars to pay rent, car, etc..... When they came in with that attitude, they let off a desperation vibe and it showed and guess what, they had a bad night, versus the girls who came in and had the attitude of "if I make good money great, if not, it's not a big deal, I come back tomorrow, they always banked. The difference is that the girls who were not stressed allowed themselves to have fun. It projected off of them and made customers want to hang out with them. If you go into the club not stressing out about the money you "need" to make, you will most likely make it.

    And as far as your bf is concerned.......well........tell him if he doesn't like it so much then he needs to fork you over $1500 a week and then you'll stop

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