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    OKAY, probably the WRONG message board to be asking this since most of the guys here all go to strip clubs, but maybe the girls can help me out with their opinions, too.

    I got into a fight with my bf the other day because he seems to just look at SOOOOOO much porn. Even on MY computer at my house. When I asked him about it, he says that he just needs the visual, but that he always thinks of ME in the fantasy in that scenario

    Is it wrong for me to feel like I am not good enough for him or don't please him enough if he still has to look at so much porn??? Or do all guys always look at porn, no matter how hot their girlfriend, no matter how much sex they get, no matter how good the sex is????

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    Well I'm married to an extremely hot woman and I watch porn with her.....for me it adds to how hot the sex is when she is so turned on by the visual stimulation. I don't view porn without her, to me it's like playing baseball with no ball

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    All guys watch porn except for some fundy types. Get used to it. It isn't an assault against you, its just a habit they get used to from the time they are sneaking off Playboys in the woods. Its not really a stigma against men to use porn as a tool. Its natural for men to want to look at a variety of women...

    I am suprised that as a dancer you are so concerned. Like any habit, some guys take it too far, into a level of addiction when they are out of control with it...

    I wouldn't worry so much about the porn watching, but rather does he jack off like 10 times a day +, does he regularly visit strip clubs without you, has he been unfaithful, etc....looks for borderline personality signs instead.

    Porn, for lack of a better word, is just a dirty, nasty habit...

    Mine looks at porn on my computer on occasion because I have a faster internet connection, LOL

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    We think about it so much that we have to have it mentally and physicaly. Watching porn takes care of the mentally part don't worrie about it.
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    ^ Kat has it right.

    However, shared porn is far better than solo porn. The women I've cared about the most, the women I've connected with the best, they shared my proclivities and predilections, including porn.

    In a healthy relationship, porn isn't about you, so keep that in mind.
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    Yes!
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    look at it this way, the main thing during a porno is a guy fuckin the hell out of the girl, i personally like to see a guy go down on a girl for more than 1 min then fucking her for 30 min!umm...can you say dry? sex sells, mainly from a guys pocketbook, look at it this way, strip clubs: GENTLEMEN club. men are obsessed with the female body.
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    I don't allow my boyfriend to look at porn. He made me quit dancing so I made him quit looking at porn. I think it's a fair trade, he doesn't see it that way but I really dont care. He complies with it though. If a man can't look at my naked body why should he be able to look at other naked women? His excuse is..."Your on top of a guy, dry humping him. I'm looking at pictures." The fact of the matter is, your getting your jollies off and I quit my job to work a miserable, lowpaying shit job so it is NOT ok for you to look at porn fucker!

    Who is with me here???!
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    MisFit Bunny, that's the thing, too..........the bf REALLY doesn't want me to dance(and I don't.........yet). I tend to agree with you a bit!!

    It IS nice to hear from others that it has nothing to do with me not being good enough, though. (and BLADE, I would much rather watch it WITH him...which I have....than to have him do it while I'm sleeping or something.....so I'm with you on that!)

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    Another person agrees with me!Yay! LOL! Almost every person I tell my senario too agrees with me and yet my boyfriend can't understand at all.

    I too wouldn't mind watching porn with my boyfriend but the fact of the matter is that I am bored with porn and don't really give a fuck about it! But maybe one day I'll get a hair up my ass and say "Hey baby, lets get a porn!" LOL! I'm waiting for that day to come but I don't see it comming anytime soon. I'm still pissed at him for making me quit dancing.

    Good luck Devinn!
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    Absolutely, unless I had a 24/7 women to have sex with me on command, porn will always be for me =)

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    I don't think that you're not good enough for him. It's OK for both of you to watch porn, it'll make the sex better and you'll feel great about it.



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    I kinda dig porn.



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    I like bikini/solo nude pics, but I have no interest in porn. It's B-O-R-I-N-G... Zzzzzz.

    My ex used to bring porn DVD's over and try to make me sit through them.. I'd be asleep usually 1/4 of the way through. I find nothing arousing or erotic about them given how piss poor 99% of them are. I think of 'all times', there are maybe 2-3 I can *tolerate*.. the rest are just snoozeville.

    Interestingly enough, most of my local peer male friends of near age group feel similarly. We never were big porn afficianado's. I guess it's the local lifestyle and culture.

    More interesting, I have a couple female friends that are all former or currently in porn.. one rather famous (has multiple AVN awards)... Never seen a single scene of any of them, although admittedly, I am a bit curious.

    Lastly, the only porn in this whole house was from a rather comedic event with my former roommates several years ago. We had a female friend who was actually mastering in human sexuality (wanted to eventually be a counselor/surrogate).. she came to our old house (total bachelor pad, 3 single dudes sharing the rent of a BIG house).. and asked for us to produce ANYTHING that resembled porn. The best we could manage was a Zalman King movie LOL. She commented that three single guys living under the same roof with NO porn was a clear indication of repressed homosexuality. The next day, all three of us saps came home with brown paper bags from the adult bookstore with a couple porn movies. She laughed hysterically at how well her plan worked- the homosexuality comment was totally made up, but the reaction was exactly as she planned.
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    The ones that deny having any at all, and yet belong to this forum are kidding themselves. Although having your woman next to you while watching does have some benefits especially if you're both into trying new and exciting things.

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    Porn doesn't do that much for me. There's other things that do.

    Different people get stimulated by different things. Shrug.

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    No...not all guys watch porn. Yes...it is perfectly normal. No...it is not unreasonable for you to feel slighted...PROVIDED the porn watching is an enhancement for your sexual relationship, and not a substitution. That is where the problem lies should it reach that point.
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    Chris - who has now informed me that I have to introduce him as NightWalker, because all the strippers and DJs have cool names and he doesn't - says he only watches porn when bored and I'm at work.
    Actually he got really upset at me awhile ago for making fun of the porn he had been surfing, which was really silly because he's got a girlfriend THAT IS ON PORN SITES. Oh well. We buy silly porn, like pirate porn and if it comes down in price a little some sort of "the alien life form is unusually sedutive - startrek-esque" porn. Honestly, he doesn't look at it ALL the time, but I really don't care if he does.

    Oh, and we both get ideas from porn and use them, he isn't just making it up. I think it is normal, and if you're happy in other forms of your relationship, it shouldn't be a big deal.
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    Yes...you should not make fun of porn.

    http://www.furnitureporn.com
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    Only straight and gay men look at porn. The others don't bother.

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    Would someone define what specifically constitutes "porn"?

    Vivid video? Playboy? Hustler? Fetish material without sex/nudity in it? The Victoria's Secret catalog? The SW gallery? I mean c'mon. I remember reading about a study some years back where 28% of men admitted to masturbating to non-pornographic material.

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    The ones that deny having any at all, and yet belong to this forum are kidding themselves.
    And I don't deny that I have a small stash of hardcore around the place, but its ahem, seldom used. And its far outweighed volume wise by softer subtler Playboy/Maxim type stuff.

    Why such demure tastes for a guy? Because the whole point of beating off to porn is for it to fit the fantasy going on in your head. With a softcore picture, there is enough left to my imagination that I can fill in the blanks with what I want. I can't really do that with a hardcore movie (unless I directed it myself), because I'm partaking in someone else's fantasy. Why do you think any porn viewer's best friend is the fast forward button?

    Its not that I mind watching people get it on, but to me watching that is like watching golf. I'd much rather be doing said activity than be relegated to being a spectator.
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    I don't care if my man watches it, as long as it does not take over our relationship and take away from our time. I love watching it with him and in all reality, I watch it more than he does! LOL



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    Be thankful he's just looking and not doing! Seriously, men are visual creatures and they like to look. They're like little kids in a candy store when they look at porn. Nothing wrong with it. My suggestion? Let the kid have his candy.
    We tend to want the fruit a whole lot more when it's forbidden. To put restrictions on his viewing material might cause serious repercussions.

    As far as feeling bummed about yourself, why not ask him what he likes about the pics. Maybe do a few naughty pics of your own for him (if you're in a TRUSTING relationship and only if you're comfy doing it). Take a look at some porno yourself.


    Most porn makes me laugh and pics are all digitally touched up, and if they aren't then they aren't very appealing.



    Or........get a vibrator and every time he goes to look at porn, give him something else to look at

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    Quote Originally Posted by Devinn4
    OKAY, probably the WRONG message board to be asking this since most of the guys here all go to strip clubs, but maybe the girls can help me out with their opinions, too.

    I got into a fight with my bf the other day because he seems to just look at SOOOOOO much porn. Even on MY computer at my house. When I asked him about it, he says that he just needs the visual, but that he always thinks of ME in the fantasy in that scenario

    Is it wrong for me to feel like I am not good enough for him or don't please him enough if he still has to look at so much porn??? Or do all guys always look at porn, no matter how hot their girlfriend, no matter how much sex they get, no matter how good the sex is????
    Buy him a play station 2. He won't have any time for porn with that in the house! (I know I don't!)

    Ah.. maybe that not such a great idea....

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