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    Quote Originally Posted by RedZ28
    ... And as far as dysfunctional soap operas go, I smell a hit! lol
    I agree!

    Hell, they've got every other kind of reality show.

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    Default Re: Why strippers will not date you. Helpful guide for the deluded (found on the net)

    Actually there was this "documentary" miniseries on HBO called G-String Divas. I found it to be quite educational. A peek into the hearts and minds of entertainers working in an upscale club. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap
    Sorry hun, but that's not true. Nice guys like hot chicks, too. It's the way we're wired.

    Not that i think you should be looking for a BF in a SC, though. I just wasn't happy with the connotation that nice guys didn't go to strip clubs.

    After all, plenty of nice girls are strippers, why would it be any different on the other side of the tip rail?
    notice the question mark at the end.

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    Default Re: Why strippers will not date you. Helpful guide for the deluded (found on the net)

    i liked it .. some of it was true... some was just harsh.. rest kinda humerous

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    Casual Observer's Universal Stripper Conundrum. I keep hoping Stephen Hawking will find an answer to this problem before he dies...or before I die.
    CO has it figured out. What most guys don't figure out, though, is the difference between fantasy and reality. This is a business; people are there to make money for providing a certain environment. Real conversations and relationships can happen, but to go seeking or expecting that is unwise and not fun. What is fun is appreciating a club for what it is and focusing on enjoying that by taking part properly.

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    Default Re: Why strippers will not date you. Helpful guide for the deluded (found on the net)

    Here's an even worse one...

    11 - Don't even consider dating us because : half of us are abusing street drugs, half of us are abusing alcohol, half of us are abusing people because we have been abused ourselves, half of us are lesbians and hate men, half of us have outstanding warrants, half of us are too busy buying motorcycles for our unemployed, abusive, wannabe rock-drummer boyfriends, and the rest of us are too smart to be fooled by your lame moronic overtures.

    from ASS-C (but in my words because it is one google didn't keep)
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    Here's an even worse one...

    11 - Don't even consider dating us because : half of us are abusing street drugs, half of us are abusing alcohol, half of us are abusing people because we have been abused ourselves, half of us are lesbians and hate men, half of us have outstanding warrants, half of us are too busy buying motorcycles for our unemployed, abusive, wannabe rock-drummer boyfriends, and the rest of us are too smart to be fooled by your lame moronic overtures.

    from ASS-C (but in my words because it is one google didn't keep)
    That is very amusing.

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    Love it ! There is sooooo much truth to this one- sure its a bit rough but that doesnt make it incorrect

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    I have to agree that a guy wrote this, but I always get some enjoyment each time I come on here. For instance a look at Vaden's ass is very pleasing, and also Tragic Beauty is quite a beauty, in fact maybe they want to date me,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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    Oh yah but they prolly wouldnt cause no nice guys would be on this site,,,,,,,,

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    lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    Here's an even worse one...

    11 - Don't even consider dating us because : half of us are abusing street drugs, half of us are abusing alcohol, half of us are abusing people because we have been abused ourselves, half of us are lesbians and hate men, half of us have outstanding warrants, half of us are too busy buying motorcycles for our unemployed, abusive, wannabe rock-drummer boyfriends, and the rest of us are too smart to be fooled by your lame moronic overtures.

    from ASS-C (but in my words because it is one google didn't keep)
    Yeah. I always hear about how strippers are "Drug users, drunken sluts", and also Lesbians!

    I always thought I was straight but wait until I tell my girlfriend she's a lesbian.


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    yup thats some of the things they say about dancers AFTER they get shot down- its so funny too. One min. they are dying to out with a girl and she is the queen of their universe and then the next min. she's a crack addict who must be dating an abusive guy.

    the male ego can be so fragile it's not even funny- oh wait yes it is

    Sometimes I'm so glad and thankful I have a secure and confident man in my life and no longer have to sort through the sea of PL's out there !

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    I seriously don't understand why you all seem to make dating a stripper seem like dating a celebrtity or something... in my "travels," I have seen plenty of strippers date "normal" or even average guys that yes, they met while they were dancing... I find it hard to believe that NO ONE here has lol...

    Lets lay down some facts:

    1.) People often meet people of the opp. sex at their place of work... if an SC is someone's place of work, why isn't there a chance they would date a "client?"

    2.) The above listed argument that most strippers are married or have SOs... I personally don't think this is true... Most of you say that you are stripping ONLY for the money - if that's the case, then you wouldn't be stripping if you didn't need the money, i.e your SO was taking care of you the way he should be... if you don't need that income, then the whole "doing it ONLY for the $" argument is totally out the window...

    Also, unfortunately, many people w/ SOs cheat... so wouldn't it make sense that the same % of strippers w/ SO's would cheat? Haven't you guys heard of bored housewives having an affair w/ a co-worker or client? Monagamy doen't seem to be a very common American moral these days...

    3.) Most strippers (altho it seems that a lot of you on here are very cute), as is tru of most people in general, are not better than average looking... If you want to make it seem like strippers are so far ABOVE customers and would never date them, wouldn't that require the majority of these strippers to be incredibly hot? And if they were THAT hot, would they be modeling or stripping?

    I think stripping is a job, the same as any other, and I respect the local strippers no less than anyone working your traditional 9-5, but why the holier-than-thou attitude when it comes to admitting that you guys MIGHT actually date a customer? lol

    (and yes, I agree w/ whoever started this thread not being a woman, it's kinda obvious)

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    1. Some dancers might date their customers, I haven't. I find that to be a huge waste of time.

    2. Regardless of if someone has a SO, You're stating that as to why strippers can't use the "I Only do it for money" reason? Some dancers might do it for the attention, men, etc. But a majority of them do it for the money.

    Monogamy is very common, Stop watching tv so much. Yes, Strippers cheat. Anyone with a dick or vagina can cheat.

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    3.) Most strippers (altho it seems that a lot of you on here are very cute), as is tru of most people in general, are not better than average looking... If you want to make it seem like strippers are so far ABOVE customers and would never date them, wouldn't that require the majority of these strippers to be incredibly hot? And if they were THAT hot, would they be modeling or stripping?"

    I don't think we're above anyone, (I don't feel that way anyways).....I just wouldn't waste my time on someone that sat there giving me bullshit lines. "Will you fuck me?"...."I'll give you 300 bucks to come home with me"....Are you kidding? Have some intelligence. Most customers I've seen completely disrespect us in some form. Get your dance, have a casual talk, and shut the hell up. There's no need for insults, rude rants, or coy remarks about our bodies.

    Most of these men (not all) see us as Toys and nothing else. Would you date someone that you saw you as that? I certainly wouldn't. Yes, we strip. Yes, You pay to see us naked. But don't treat us as garbage and that's what the majority of these customers treat us as.


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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight

    Monogamy is very common, Stop watching tv so much.

    I don't watch TV besides sports and news... I think people who pretend to be monagamous are very common but those who actualy are, are not...

    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight

    There's no need for insults, rude rants, or coy remarks about our bodies.
    I don't think that any remotely classy guy would throw around comments like that...

    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight

    Most of these men (not all) see us as Toys and nothing else. Would you date someone that you saw you as that? I certainly wouldn't.
    What you initially see someone as is not always the same as what you eventually see them as...

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    How often do you see classy guys in strip clubs? Most are dogs. I am not saying that dancers shouldn't date customers....If you find someone decent, I say go for it! It's just not my thing.

    But that's why a lot of strippers will not date customers. Plus, It messes with business. When you're at work, You don't have time for the 'jealous boyfriend'......I just wish a lot more of the customers understood that just because we're doing our JOB...(A job, like any other job). We're still humans. We're not toys, at all. Be respectful.

    A strip club is for fun! Buy dances, talk to strippers, etc....Have fun! If you 'connect' with someone, Whatever floats your boat. But normally she's probably having that same 'connection' with 100 other customers.


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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    How often do you see classy guys in strip clubs? Most are dogs.
    If you are going to say that, you could just as easily say, "How often do you see classy girls dancing in strip clubs? Most are sluts"

    A lot of very classy guys go to strip clubs... I for one, have taken clients to Scores and Diamond Club in Manhattan on a few occassions... Just because a guy wants to lay back and look at some naked chicks doesn't make him uncouth...

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    lol, Alright.

    I never said "There are no classy guys that go to strip clubs"....I said How often. It's rare that you do, but it is possible. MOST are dogs.

    This isn't about what you have done/seen.

    Most of the customers aren't classy, and some are dogs. Yes, it's been said time and time again. "Strippers aren't celebs", You're right. We're not. We're human. Treat us as such, and everything will be gravy.

    My Question is to you; Why do so many male customers want to date strippers? Do they see us as being easier, or?


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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    Most of these men (not all) see us as Toys and nothing else. Would you date someone that you saw you as that? I certainly wouldn't. Yes, we strip. Yes, You pay to see us naked. But don't treat us as garbage and that's what the majority of these customers treat us as.
    Wow. You must've had a bad night, or work in a horrible place, cause I'm pretty sure I would never treat a dancer like that. I think most realize that you're there to do a job, and the usually the only men you're attracted to that night are the presidents on his dollars. The rest are kidding themselves.
    I wouldn't date anyone who saw me as that, nor would I date anyone who saw themselves as that. BTW Rose, anyone who treats you rudely is a F*CKING IDIOT!!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by DSUsb19
    Wow. You must've had a bad night, or work in a horrible place, cause I'm pretty sure I would never treat a dancer like that. I think most realize that you're there to do a job, and the usually the only men you're attracted to that night are the presidents on his dollars. The rest are kidding themselves.
    I wouldn't date anyone who saw me as that, nor would I date anyone who saw themselves as that. BTW Rose, anyone who treats you rudely is a F*CKING IDIOT!!!!!!
    I didn't have a bad night, nor am I dancing at the moment. I am glad you wouldn't treat a dancer like that but most (I again, say NOT ALL) treat dancers as that. Some are very great/respectful/kind, I love customers like that.

    But most treat us as if we're toys, or some sort of trophy to be sought after.


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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    I didn't have a bad night, nor am I dancing at the moment. I am glad you wouldn't treat a dancer like that but most (I again, say NOT ALL) treat dancers as that. Some are very great/respectful/kind, I love customers like that.

    But most treat us as if we're toys, or some sort of trophy to be sought after.


    I agree with r.d.Most 95% of the guys are dogs and treat you like a toy.absolutly!

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight

    My Question is to you; Why do so many male customers want to date strippers? Do they see us as being easier, or?
    I don't think it's se much that so many customers want to date strippers per se, as that men in general want to date WOMEN, wherever they may be... it's kind of human nature - men are usually the pursuers... and I think the fact that these women are not fully clothed just adds fuel to the fire...

    I'm sure CERTAIN men (my best friend is one of these lol) are specifically INTO strippers the same way that certain women seek out dealers, bikers, DJs, athletes, etc...

    Pretty much anywhere that a hot girl works, she will be hit on, no?

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    Amen Girl Rose!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight

    But most treat us as if we're toys, or some sort of trophy to be sought after.
    Then don't reat us like suckers who were born yesterday and are too stupid to discern between "Wow I love your tatts - lets go get busy in the champaign room" and real interest lol...

    My number one pet peeve in a club is a girl who fakes interest to get $... If I think you are hot, and u know how to move, you will get paid, and I won't ask for any stupid extras or make rude comments... I expect a dance, not a GF... now if this is real interest, then bring it on lol

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