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    Most seem to figure in that we're 'easier'......We'd be easier to fuck with, etc. It'd be something of a trophy that you could float around to your friends,"Dude, I am dating a stripper".

    I've seen some just say "Well, She's naked. Might as well go see if I can fuck her"....If Half of the guys in a club thought that. Would you understand that could be one of the reasons why a lot of strippers won't date customers? She doesn't want to be seen as a piece of meat.

    I'd date guys that weren't customers, and as soon as they found out I did 'stripping'....Sexual Questions come. I'd sit there wondering were they serious.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Russ Reign
    Then don't reat us like suckers who were born yesterday and are too stupid to discern between "Wow I love your tatts - lets go get busy in the champaign room" and real interest lol...

    My number one pet peeve in a club is a girl who fakes interest to get $... If I think you are hot, and u know how to move, you will get paid, and I won't ask for any stupid extras or make rude comments... I expect a dance, not a GF... now if this is real interest, then bring it on lol
    We are selling something, It's called hustling. Yes, we have to compliment you to get something out of you. We can't say,"You're really damn ugly. Would you like a dance?"......Maybe that'd work for someone who was deaf, but not for the general population. She might be interested in you but if you're paying out 500 at the end of the night, You just got played, my friend.

    Some dancers might be interested, Who knows. But it's a business.....We need to pay our bills as much as you do.


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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    Most seem to figure in that we're 'easier'......We'd be easier to fuck with, etc. It'd be something of a trophy that you could float around to your friends,"Dude, I am dating a stripper".

    I've seen some just say "Well, She's naked. Might as well go see if I can fuck her"....If Half of the guys in a club thought that. Would you understand that could be one of the reasons why a lot of strippers won't date customers? She doesn't want to be seen as a piece of meat.

    I'd date guys that weren't customers, and as soon as they found out I did 'stripping'....Sexual Questions come. I'd sit there wondering were they serious.
    I see ur points, althouh I disagree w/ them somewhat... Personally my friends would be more impressed if I was dating a med student...

    As far as "Well, she's naked, might as well go see if I can fuck her," what about the STRIPPERS, who upon leaving the club and walking through the parking lot, saw what I drive and asked me if I wanted to party? Was that because they were interested in ME as a person, or cause they thought I could afford a Kg of blow?

    You are fun to argue w lol...

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    We are selling something, It's called hustling. Yes, we have to compliment you to get something out of you. We can't say,"You're really damn ugly. Would you like a dance?"......Maybe that'd work for someone who was deaf, but not for the general population. She might be interested in you but if you're paying out 500 at the end of the night, You just got played, my friend.

    Some dancers might be interested, Who knows. But it's a business.....We need to pay our bills as much as you do.
    No, you don't need to be told that you are ugly as a customer lol, but shouldn't it be up to the customer to solicit the dance? He (or she) is the one paying...

    And if $500 is nothing to you, as it is for many men that frequent NYC SCs, then I don't consider that getting played, I consider it getting entertained...

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    Hmmmm...sounds like some customers here are desperate for validation or permission to hit on dancers. IMHO, I agree with Rose (and the other similar posts by dancers)--SC's are fun, it's great to talk to strippers--but if you are going there to try to get a stripper to date/go home with you, you are there for the wrong reason, and are likely to annoy many dancers.

    I would suggest listening to the dancers on the board. Seems like the universal sentiment among these women is that they want to be treated with respect, and do not like to be asked out by customers. Period. Please believe them.

    My two cents.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Russ Reign
    I see ur points, althouh I disagree w/ them somewhat... Personally my friends would be more impressed if I was dating a med student...

    As far as "Well, she's naked, might as well go see if I can fuck her," what about the STRIPPERS, who upon leaving the club and walking through the parking lot, saw what I drive and asked me if I wanted to party? Was that because they were interested in ME as a person, or cause they thought I could afford a Kg of blow?

    You are fun to argue w lol...
    Well, Here's the difference in that......It wasn't inside the club. It was outside, was it not? What we do in our daily life is a completely different than what idiot we hit on in a club.

    If you go in a strip club and say you flash around $5,000 bucks. You'll have about 15 strippers running to get to you. Now do you think they give a shit about what the name of your cat is, or how you cried when Bambi died? "Fraid not.

    I am saying in general.

    A strip club is for fun. We make money, You enjoy the show, etc.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DeepGreen
    Hmmmm...sounds like some customers here are desperate for validation or permission to hit on dancers.
    Not my point at all... my point is simply that I think many more dancers than let on to it on this board have or do date customers, that's it...

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    Russ....


    Bro, it's ENTERTAINMENT. LOL. She complimented you, & asked you to the champagne....Hello, trying to make a lil living. She's not trying to pick you up, c'mon now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    Well, Here's the difference in that......It wasn't inside the club. It was outside, was it not? What we do in our daily life is a completely different than what idiot we hit on in a club.

    If you go in a strip club and say you flash around $5,000 bucks. You'll have about 15 strippers running to get to you. Now do you think they give a shit about what the name of your cat is, or how you cried when Bambi died? "Fraid not.

    I am saying in general.

    A strip club is for fun. We make money, You enjoy the show, etc.
    The incident I was referring to happened in a SC parking lot... that's not "daily life" - still a SC environment if you ask me...

    And no, I don't think they care about my cats name, nor do I want them to... I want them to dance and thats it, I don't need to be showered w/ praise in order to pay up lol...

    I'm just saying, on a rare occassion a dancer might find something diff about a customer for some reason and actually say something like that which she means...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka
    Russ....


    Bro, it's ENTERTAINMENT. LOL. She complimented you, & asked you to the champagne....Hello, trying to make a lil living. She's not trying to pick you up, c'mon now.
    Darling, that was a hypothetical situation... never really happened, I was just trying to make a point...

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    If you go in a strip club and say you flash around $5,000 bucks. You'll have about 15 strippers running to get to you. Now do you think they give a shit about what the name of your cat is, or how you cried when Bambi died? "Fraid not.
    Lol, Rose. You need to start an advice column. You beat the heck out of Dr. Laura.
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    It can happen......But just because a customer in a strip club with 50 bucks to spare gets a compliment about his yellow teeth doesn't mean that it's love.


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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    It can happen......But just because a customer in a strip club with 50 bucks to spare gets a compliment about his yellow teeth doesn't mean that it's love.



    Sorry Russ, I misread but you get my drift.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    It can happen......But just because a customer in a strip club with 50 bucks to spare gets a compliment about his yellow teeth doesn't mean that it's love.
    When did I ever say anything remotely similar to that? lol

    Anyway, I have to go to the gym... need to get ripped so ALL STRIPPERS WILL LOVE ME AND WANT TO TAKE ME HOME FOR FLASHING A TWENTY

    And Rose, darling, you are an annomoly...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka



    Sorry Russ, I misread but you get my drift.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    It's anomaly, But I know
    Spelled it wrong on purpose to see if you'd correct me - CONTROL FREAK haha... tty ladies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Russ Reign
    When did I ever say anything remotely similar to that? lol

    Anyway, I have to go to the gym... need to get ripped so ALL STRIPPERS WILL LOVE ME AND WANT TO TAKE ME HOME FOR FLASHING A TWENTY

    And Rose, darling, you are an annomoly...
    It's spelled anomaly but I know


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    Most of the customers aren't classy, and some are dogs.
    This is sadly very true. It's also why I generally have a great time at a club--separating wheat from chaff, if you will.



    Then don't reat us like suckers who were born yesterday and are too stupid to discern between "Wow I love your tatts - lets go get busy in the champaign room" and real interest lol...
    Dude, the reason that RD and the other girls here post as they do is specifically because most guys in strip clubs are suckers who break at the first sign of a good hustle and lose their grip on reality; they enter the club without realistic expectations.

    Your continued efforts to get girls here to get validation for picking up chicks at strip clubs is making the rest of us PLs look good, dude.
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    I think theres a fair chance that the dancers that we're aquainted with here on SW are largely the exception to the rule. They have computers,internet access,a place to put a computer...electricity that hasent been shut off..etc etc...this alone weeds out a goodly percentage. The idea of "strippers" is a poor generalization too,theres LOTS of strippers.some work at Scores,some work at the litle shithole bar out behind the truckstop,Theres a wide variety,with diverse motivations and countless possible responses to any of a zillion possible scenerios.Kinda like regular girls anywhere else.You all know shitloads of strippers will date a custy,whole bunches of em never would,some will blow ya for a stamp bag in the shitter of the shell station.I kinda think we're dealin with the smarter,more inteligent ones here. Like Casual Observer said earlier,the ones you'd like to date mostly wont,and the ones that are easy are probably more trouble than they're worth. Oh well... my .02
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    Like Casual Observer said earlier,the ones you'd like to date mostly wont,and the ones that are easy are probably more trouble than they're worth.
    Casual Observer's Universal Stripper Conundrum is a right bitch.

    : sigh :
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    It's easy JZ. I just look for cute, responsible, drug-free dancers who would be interested in taking money from a sincere, deep thinker such as myself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    A strip club is for fun! Buy dances, talk to strippers, etc....Have fun! If you 'connect' with someone, Whatever floats your boat.
    That says it all, IMHO. Bullseye! Very refreshing to see a realist point of view.

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    generalizations make it easy to make the complex simple. like, oh your a dentist - have you thought of suicide lately... or, oh she has her closthes off, she must be easy and lonely too - chances are good that she already has a S/O, but that doesn't stop everybody either...

    so what does someone go there for? enjoy some converstation with an attractive person within a somewhat more sexual situation? I personally believe if a person is looking for someone to "meet" they would have better luck at the Gap.

    I think the original posting that pasted the obvious generalizations on here to be very amusing, since it summed up all the typical shit a typical friend of mine would say after he was unsuccessful at getting a girls number after spending a few dollars for a few minutes of a girls time...

    oh yeah, and just maybe it's against policy both the clubs and the girl's

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blade
    Lmao! that was funny in a purely entertainment value sorta way!
    Oh my god...was that funny or what?

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