A beautiful, sexy woman who moves with style and grace, dresses well, and has an assured and irresistible manner of speaking will most definitely get hit on with great frequency wherever she goes.
But take that woman, have her strip off revealing costumes to the tiniest scraps of fabric imaginable onstage, and then make her available for serious grinding sessions in darkened alcoves. She will be hit on much, much more.
She will be asked out by geeks, fat guys, imbeciles, guys twice or three times her age, and all manner of totally unacceptable men, far more than she would if she was working at a Walmart. In a Walmart, most of these guys will know they don't have a chance in hell.
It is only human for these guys, maybe, who might let the environment and their fantasies carry them away. But it's certainly only human for a dancer to get a little tired of it, after say a couple of years or so.
Sure it's amusing and flattering and easily ignored during the first few months, and some dancers never have much trouble with ignoring it. But like a waitress who deals with rude, cheap, or annoying customers for a couple of years, some dancers have an understandable need to vent. It's possible that article was written by such a woman, but even if it wasn't, it is amusing to many dancers who have had to deal with some of this.
It really depends on your sense of humor.



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