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    and what types of extras have you seen performed inside the club? Tell your extra Story

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    Katharine, the SCJ blues developed an extras list numbered like a Chinese menu. You can just list numbers and save the words for describing unusual variations.

    For example, an SCJ might say, "I'm a 3,5,9,14 kind of guy."

    The first set is for normal dancers (ND).

    1. "accidental" boob touching
    2. nipple not-a-munch (The nipple passes over the lips and the compression is not enough to alter the intended movement of the nipple. A guys's lips can sense compression before a dancer's nipple can, so for her it doesn't really happen.)
    3. GF kissing, lips closed (this can be all over the rankings)
    4. rubbing face on cock outside pants (chin, forehead, nose and mouth in that order of progression)
    5. nipple munching (dry)
    6. cookie kissing with thong on
    7. cock rub outside pants
    8. cock grabbing outside pants
    9. forced orgasm
    10. cookie touching over thong
    11. deliberate boob fondling
    12. mouthing cock through pants (biting and sucking)
    13. touching cookie inside of thong
    14. pulling on labia
    15. cookie licking with thong off/aside
    16. hand job
    17. boob fucking
    18. fingering (anything deeper than the first knuckle)
    19. DFK, but I've seen it at 1-3 (no thanks at that level)
    20. BJ (covered and bare)
    21. FS (anything else)

    Separate list for submissive dancers (SD). Once you start pulling hair, the rest generaly falls under 3.

    1. pulling dancer's hair
    2. slapping, usually on the butt
    3. pinching/biting nipples
    4. finger on butthole

    Separate list for submissive customers (SC). Some dancers love this; others won't have anything to do with it.

    1. pulling customer's hair
    2. face slapping
    3. spitting on customer with verbal abuse
    4. pinching/biting nipples
    5. customer sucks dancer's toes/feet
    6. customer buys dancer's pee in a cup/beer can

    Separate list for lesbian 2on1 dancers (2D):

    1. boob fondling
    2. kissing
    3. nipple sucking
    4. cookie touching
    5. oral sex to orgasm

    I can think of other stuff that's uncommon. For example, some dancers want to deep throat fingers after being fingered, but it's not common enough to make the list. For all references to cookie touching, licking and fingering, you can substiitute anal according to preference.
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    . customer buys dancer's pee in a cup/beer can



    your kidding right?

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    he's not kidding

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    I've been pretty shielded from that kind of stuff in the clubs I've worked in. The most I've ever heard or seen going on was two chicks eating each other out in the Champagne room. I'm sure there's a lot more that's gone on, though it's been VERY discreet apparently.

    I didn't know hair-pulling counted as an extra?!?! Once in a while I'll give a tug to a customer's hair to be playful during dances. Great.
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    I saw a girl giving a guy a blow job on the main floor once. OK well maybe she wasn't really sucking his dick because her long thick hair extensions hid everything. Her head only bobbed up and down between his legs for 3 songs and he had a real sappy glazed look on his face.

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    The worst I have seen at my club is girls making out with customers. There is one girl who people say lets guys lick her box, but I haven't seen it. I did see a guy just sitting there licking her arm though. Gross.

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    I havn't seen as much as I've "heard" in the adjacent VIP booths in Houston. As for my personal experience = .

    For sure I have seen a dancer going down fully on a female customer. I saw a dancer getting fingered once.

    I've seen lots of #1-5. Its pretty common in some of the clubs I've worked and not really considered an extra.

    I have a subbie customer and I've done this to him. I don't consider it an extra per say since I never take off my clothes or do any lapdancing for him anyway:
    1. pulling customer's hair
    2. face slapping
    5. customer sucks dancer's toes/feet

    I don't even know how I would approach this one LOL:
    6. customer buys dancer's pee in a cup/beer can


    Btw Sport, what is this?
    9. forced orgasm

    Does that mean when the guys spews in his pants? How is that an extra?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katharine
    . customer buys dancer's pee in a cup/beer can

    your kidding right?
    I wish we could say yes, and you won't believe what some guys will offer for a glass of a stripper's chateau de bladder.


    For example:
    This Thread - Post #35
    This Thread - Post #1
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    Nina, you slut!!

    I pull hair too...didn't know that was considered an extra...i'm usually pulling their head away to prevent them from trying to do something they aren't allowed to do.

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    Default Re: Whats an Extra Girl?

    ex·tra
    adj.

    1. More than or beyond what is usual, normal, expected, or necessary.

    Extra implies something that is not normally implied in our job description. Since ALL of us take off our clothes and provide sexual fantasies for money, that is NOT an extra. An extra is something that goes beyond that. Try again.
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    A friend of mine just got fired for letting a guy eat her out in VIP
    A male friend got a hand job during a LD
    Two girls at another club snuck a double dong into VIP and put on a show
    A girl that just started at my club gave a guy head in the dancer bathroom
    A girl took a sucker, inserted it.... and gave it to her customer

    I hear of worse, like going home with a custy, blow jobs in cars after hours a few blocks away from the club........

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    Whats an Extra Girl?
    wow,and here i was thinking it was just a girl with a third nipple.

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    I tried Miss H (for ho) when she first started. She was a lot like another dancer I liked: rode reverse cowgirl, pounded hard, fingered herself, deep throated her finger... slutty but fun.

    After that I let her hustle me and kept turning her down. I'd always say, "Drop your act with me and I'd get a champagne room with you every time." But she needed her persona and eventualy stopped trying to hustle me.

    This time I tipped her on stage and told her that if she hustled me and showed me how to use the house ATM (just for show - I didn't actually use it), I'd definitely do a room.

    One minute into the CR, she says, "I know you, so I'll let you suck my boobs for $60 or lick my pussy for $60." I said, "You KNOW me? How about you LIKE me? It's kind of late in the day to suck mass-market boobs. Maybe noon someday." She swore no one had sucked them, but I said, "How can I trust you? I hope you don't mind me passing on this."

    She got upset and said, "Think about it" while she grabbed the meat, went down on her knees, and started chewing on it. I knew another dancer who would do the same thing when she got upset. I smiled and said, "THIS I would pay $60 for."

    I kept negotiating: "I'll guarantee you champagne every time if you do it for free" (she didn't trust me). I offered $30 for one boob (not an option). I asked, "Why don't you charge more for your pussy? She didn't know, but she offered suck AND lick for $100.

    I have no problem with dancers who just like guys and want to do something special for free, but ho types kill the Cheers factor for me. I've seen all kinds of extras, but this encounter bummed me out the most.
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    Depending on the club and the individual girl, you get anything from frigid machine to being raped. I've never been asked to pay for anything but the basic lapdance fee, but I tip well.


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    With the possible exception of a "forced orgasm" ('cause I'm not really sure what that is), and the definite exceptions of spitting on a customer and the pee in a cup thing... all of it, and then some.
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    Questions about the Extras List:

    Hair pulling can be a playful, token thing or it can be a serious trigger that immediately raises the level of intensity. Most dancers don't like having their hair pulled, but many submissives LOVE having it pulled hard.

    Forced orgasms are an extension of "fake it until you make it." Some dancers can get themselves off humping anything. She might even tell you her sexual triggers. Example: A dancer grinds in the same position for half a song and then says, "Hold the inside of my thigh and pull my hair and I'll come."

    Depending on the level of interaction, the customer may feel masturbated on or personally connected.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2
    I kept negotiating: "I'll guarantee you champagne every time if you do it for free" (she didn't trust me). I offered $30 for one boob (not an option). I asked, "Why don't you charge more for your pussy? She didn't know, but she offered suck AND lick for $100.
    These women are extremeley poor saleswomen. Where do you get them from Sporty, Rhode Island Home for the Mentally Retarded? What's the cover there these days?

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    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2

    Forced orgasms are an extension of "fake it until you make it."
    Oh yeah, that's a great little VIP trick. Guys will hold absolutely still for 20 songs if they think they can get you to "come" for them by pretending to rub the outside of your panties...ya'll make this too easy on a girl, LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ashleyrose
    A friend of mine just got fired for letting a guy eat her out in VIP
    I've got a couple of toppers for that one, both girls did it in the champagne room. One girl got fired for getting eaten out there, but the other girl, well, all I know is that she was in the office with the boss for quite some time, and then storms into the dressing room going "well, just so ya'll know, you can't play with your pussy in the champagne room!" I thought everybody knew that! lol (and then, if that wasn't enough, since my boss cut short the session cuz of her being naughty, the dude she went back with kept asking him for a refund! ) But, I'd have to say that's the worst I've heard recently.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    These women are extremeley poor saleswomen.
    Believe me, I have seen worse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Oh yeah, that's a great little VIP trick. Guys will hold absolutely still for 20 songs if they think they can get you to "come" for them by pretending to rub the outside of your panties...ya'll make this too easy on a girl, LOL!
    Ah yes, Kat, but a month out of high school, it's a fun ride, and they'll go at it until they need to suck on an asthma inhaler. I would never trust a dancer over 20.

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    In 20 years of strip clubing I've never-that's right NEVER-had a girl quote me a price for an extra inside the club. In my experience, girls who do it, do it to insure your future business, not for an increased fee (big surprise here, this usualy works!).
    This is not to say I haven't been approached for OTC activities but, at that point, I don't consider it an "extra" anymore.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2

    I have no problem with dancers who just like guys and want to do something special for free, but ho types kill the Cheers factor for me. I've seen all kinds of extras, but this encounter bummed me out the most.
    Why would you get upset if someone wanted to charge you more? If they are doing something "extra" they at least deserve to get paid more for it. And even the girls who do this for you who aren't asking for more money are still doing it for some amount of money, thus they are still prostitutes.
    I bring this up because it seemed by your statement that a girl who charged more for her extras was a "ho" and somehow less of a person while the ones who didn't weren't?
    Also, I'm wondering why guys who are SOOOOOO into extras just don't go to a escort/prostitute. I'm thinking a lot of it has to do with fear, and dislike of prostitutes (and maybe women) in general. Are they afraid they won't get what they want if they answer the escort ad? Afraid/ashamed of the social stigma attached to a "john" as well as a hooker?
    Or maybe it's that they are on a power trip, and get off as much on talking someone into doing something "extra" as they do on the "extra" itself? Or maybe they are cheap? You can talk an amateur "ho" down....but not most professionals. Their rates are set, and the customers must, in respecting the set rates, respect the escort (to some degree) that has set them.
    Or.....perhaps it's that they get off on doing this in public? If this is the case, please leave the strip club with your girl, and go to a swingers club where this behavior will be accepted.....or is it that you are doing it in a place where it's NOT accepted that makes this behavior so attractive to you?

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