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    1. What does it take to get a female stripper to notice you. I was in a club by myself on Saturday for three hours and only one girl talked to me the whole time. I am a little shy, second time in a club, and they just would not approach me. Is there something I was doing wrong. My first club trip (with Friends) was completely different, girls would not stop asking me for a dance. This club I got nothing. It was Uptown Cabaret in Charlotte. I was sitting in a booth.

    2. Finally, I work up my nerve to go to the sniffers lane (cute dancer that I wanted to get a dance from) gets up there. I had seen she was with a party, so I had been waiting til she got on stage to see if I could get a dance. She says how long are you going to be around, I said just a few minutes. She says she tell her party that she will be back. She gets done dancing and never gave me a second glance. Is taht normal? I felt pretty depressed. I am trying to decide whether to go back to try again later this week. She was that cute (to me).

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    Default Re: Two questions

    ohhhhhh

    you sound really sweet!

    You are probably young, and as much as I hate to say it, dancers usually ignore young guys. The best way to get their attention is to tip well. Give her 3-5 dollars (in ones, has more impact than a $5 bill).

    Be sure that you dress well and smell well too. I know this is obvious, but I felt it was worth saying.

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    If you don't feel comfortable flagging down the dancer of your choice yourself, then talk to management or one of the staff members! That's what they're there for.

    Don't take it personally if a dancer doesn't return to you. We are there to make money, and if this gal was making money off a party, it's possible that she just really didn't have time to come back to you. I know, it sucks, but that's the way the cookie crumbles. I can think of countless times that I have told someone that I would be back but got torn away to go back to a party that I was entertaining earlier.

    Last, don't let this turn you off from the dancer that you think is so cute.

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    welcome to the wonderful world of strippers. She isn't going to leave the guys she's working until the money is done. A "friend" of mine will sometimes excuse herself to use the restroom and then do a quick dance for a guy...but since thats hit and run money it can leave the guy feeling more depressed since she just comes back to me until my money is gone. You are doing nothing wrong however just don't get to attached to the pretty faces and for gods sake don't use your money to attract them to you, you'll find yourself broke and broken hearted. But if you really want that hot body gyrating on your lap...go when its slow or get her number and call her to see if she's busy or not....save the time and agony and keep the commercial transaction for what it is.

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    Default Re: Two questions

    Thanks everybody. I really appreciate the input.

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    Strange indeed. Never had a problem getting dancers to notice my interest in them. Plus if I wanted a dance from someone, I tell her to come get me after she's done with her stage show or I approach her.

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    Okay, you're sitting by yourself, at a booth, not the bar. For the sake of argument, let's assume you've recently showered and are dressed decently

    So far, so good.

    Despite your first experience, most girls will approach the loners first. I think there may have even been a poll on here like that. As was mentioned before, in some clubs, the way to get a girl to come over is to tip her well on stage. When you do, point out where you are sitting and invite her to join you when she's done. Also don't forget the waitresses. Tip them well, word gets around. If you do spot the girl of your dreams and are uncomfortable approaching her, ask the waitress to ask her to join you.

    The key is to let it be known that you have money and are willing to spend it. That sets you apart from the losers that just come for a free show.
    Dancing is wonderful training for girls, it's the first way you learn to guess what a man is going to do before he does it. ~Christopher Morley, Kitty Foyle

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    Re: Two questions

    I have great luck smiling, making good eye contact, and tipping very generously If I'm tipping during a stage performance and I am interested in having a dancer approach me, I will typically try to tip at least twice what others are tipping at the same time. I want to let the dancer know that 1] I am interested and 2] I am willing to part with my money...
    There's only us. There's only this. Forget regret, or life is yours to miss... --RENT

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    I didn't approach the guys in the booths much at Uptown because it's difficult to dance for someone sitting in a booth (especially if there are no other seats available). The girls at Excalibur/Paper Moon in Winston Salem are much more friendly anyway if you feel like driving

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