This seems to happen to me every time I go to a club....
I'll be sitting there drinking my drink, checking out the scenery, maybe trying to see which girl I'd like to spend time/money with, when a girl that I have ZERO interest in sits in my lap/next to me and starts chatting me up.
Now, I like when strippers make the extra effort in this regard. One of the more annoying things dancers do is the "walk up and say 'wanna dance?'" and that's it. But when a girl makes conversation, tries to entice me, shows some personality, etc, I'm definitely more likely to go for a girl that does that even if I wasn't initially into her...
...to a point. The girl still has to be attractive to me.
But inevitably a girl who I really have no interest in will come sit on/by me, strike up a conversation...but never ask for a dance. They'll just sort of wait, even occasionally just sitting there saying nothing. I think they're sort of trying to get a LD by attrition...maybe if they hang around long enough, I'll buy.
How can I politely get out of this situation without spending 30 buzzkill minutes waiting?



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