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    omg.

    i dont know what to say or how to say it, i just need to vent.

    my implants are fucked.
    literally.

    the scars are massive and after all the shit ive been thru this year with them, having 2 ops cos one "fell out" ive tried to stay positive.

    but its getting too much. i see other chicks scars on their boobs,and there is barely anything. mine look like someone butchered them, and its depressing.

    i used to dance on stage proudly, now im so scared about poeple talking about my scars i try and hold the bottom of my boobs when im topless so they cant see them.

    i dont know what to do. none of that vit e stuff works, i tried, then got sick of trying,and couldnt be bothered, i got that silicone gel sheeting, and all it did was open up my incision again.

    when i flex my arms ie doing ANY pole trick, my implant stays in the same place and my boob shrivells up around it leaving a huge gash cutting my boob in half, it looks horrible, and they are all red and not even in my crease ( cos i went bigger, and the scar moved around)


    what do i do before i go out of my mind?! heh before i was sad and feeling sorry for myself, now im pissed off and wanna chop aussie ps balls off!!!! HAHAHA
    sorry for the long depressing post, but i dont know what to do.i love my boobs, but the scars make me hate them,and myself something chronic.
    Last edited by mermaidnz; 11-22-2004 at 12:10 PM. Reason: new pics

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    Default Re: im starting to go outta my mind with these boobs

    Do you have any pics of them? Especially the things you don't like...the scars, the "bunching," etc.

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    mermaid, is it ONLY the scars that are bothering you?

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    yeah....but the scars and im NOT exaggerating (sp?!) are HORRENDOUS (sp again!)

    seeing is believing.
    they look about 1 inch thick, and 5 inch long, red horriblt things.

    then, to make it worse,one boob, the scar cuts in when i flex, like maybe 2 inchs IN!! it looks like a horror movie, i swear.

    and no i dont have pics, cos i cant d/l them on stupid japanese language computer! lol

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    Default Re: im starting to go outta my mind with these boobs

    maybe the best thing to do for now is to do all that you can to prevent them from getting worse (like cover the scars completely if you tan so they don't darken) and to start seeking a surgeon who is skilled in scar revision. Could be another 8 months down the road though. Have you tried covering the redness with stage makeup?

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    yep.

    doesnt really work. comes off by the time im off stage. and it goes all over my costumes.messy.


    i want them gone properly tho

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    Default Re: im starting to go outta my mind with these boobs

    maybe try a different style top?

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    Default Re: im starting to go outta my mind with these boobs

    I can definitely sympathize. I'm overall happy with my boob job, but my scars are also pretty noticeable.

    Cortisone shots are good for reducing the scars. I have to see my dermatologist for a course of them.

    In the meantime, Estee Lauder makes a fantastic opaque concealer than will not budge. It's called Double Wear. It covers my scars quite well. Mine are also a bit raised though, so I've caught myself covering them up with my hands and feeling more than a little self-conscious about them.

    I'm not sure if Estee Lauder cosmetics are available in Tokyo, but I'm certain you can buy the stuff online. And try to find a good English-speaking dermatologist to ask about cortisone shots to minimize the scars.
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    I find that even cheap concealer stays put if you apply it, powder it, hairspray it and then powder again.
    I'm sorry to hear you're unhappy with your boobies- maybe once you're done in Japan you should take some time off to give them time to recover? I know a lot of girls who don't do pole tricks topless because the implants look weird when their muscles flex, so I think that's somewhat normal.

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    Im not a lawyer but id say go see one. If you dont pay the doctor he may send you to collections (not good). Thing is (dont quote me). I think you would need to pay him what you owe him and then sue his ass... for what you paid him, what you paid for all the revisions, scar repair, mental anguish, all that... I would call or go see a good attorney about this... it may take years but you should at least get a settlement of a good amount. Id say find a lawyer asap.

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    I think I'd agree with Audrey Leigh (have I said that I think your name is great?). If your job is really that badly done, I'd seek legal advice about being compensated for it. You may even have a claim for loss of wages since you dance, and implants are supposed to help you make more money.

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    yeah, but its difficult, to prove who was at fault i think, i KNOW it was aussie dr, but how would i get such proof?

    then is it expensive suing someone?


    on another note, i emailed my thai dr, asking about scar revision, and he replied back saying he done it on my second op, but it was so fucked up he couldnt help it much more, and to just wait and see what happens. i cant be any more patient with these things ,i just cant.

    its not so much that i want to have the scar covered, foundation etc, doesnt change the scar damage to my breast SHAPE. i dont know how to explian it properly, my scar sits mid way between bottom of nipple, and crease, so its highly visible, then to make it worse, there is an indentation about a thrid of an inch when it kinda seperates my boob in two . so when i flex, its even more noticable and the indentatin ( which surrounds my scar) then goes in about 3inch and cuts my boob in half.

    i think i mean the tissue is damaged or something.

    its disgusting.
    depressing.

    bleh.

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    It sounds like you'd probably have to go to a Dr. next time around who is a specialist in reconstructive surgery.
    I'd do a search of Dr.'s EVERYWHERE and make a consultation appt. with the one who had the most experience, and best before/after pics
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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver
    I find that even cheap concealer stays put if you apply it, powder it, hairspray it and then powder again.
    Excellent suggestion.

    Mermaid, Try taking 5000 mg of Vitamin C throughout the day. Vitamin C is a great skin healer and you should see results in a week or 2.
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    Also can you post a picture ?
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    Default Re: im starting to go outta my mind with these boobs

    I'm sorry you're going through this hun. I can relate, even though my situtaion is different. What kind of implants do you have?

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    Mermaid...I know you are getting impatient...however, in another thread you admitted that you are NOT using the creams, etc the way your doctor advised you to use them (the amount, time, frequency, etc). You cannot expect results if you are not following doctors orders.

    As for the other doctor...go see a lawyer in your country. Some lawyers will take a case (at least here in the states) without money up-front...if they think that you have a case, they will not charge you up front, but keep a portion of your settlement (like 20-25%).

    The only thing you'll lose is the consultation time (maybe fee). But, they'll be honest with you about what legal protection you have. If you do not want to pay the Aussie doc, then you need to send him a letter voicing your complete and total displeasure of his work (mailed it signature required delivery) and tell him that you refuse to pay for any of the work he's done as he's only made the problem worse with his chop shop procedure. See what he says to that...but, courts (at least in the states) do not look favorably on someone refusing to pay for something and then saying, "Well, he did a bad job." With no evidence that you were displeased and without giving the doctor/whoever a chance to rectify the situation before you get to court. If the doctor insists that you pay him...then take him to court...if a lawyer feels that you have legal grounds in which to do so.

    BTW...it's been several months...you are going to need to get the ball rolling NOW...do not wait. Email with a lawyer...do whatever you need to do to get a consultation and advice NOW not next year when you get back from Japan.

    I have to add...this is not legal advice and should not be taken as such. Please consult someone who knows the rules, regs and laws of your country.

    Much luck to you,

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    What Venus said. PI lawyers generally don't charge for an initial consultation, and often work on a contingency basis. If your PS was truly at fault, he'd probably settle out of court anyway. At the least, I'd go see a lawyer to check on the vialbility of a suit.

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    farrah, it not a conceler problem as such. its more of a phsycal thing, ok i hate how they are red and a lil raised, but thats no problem, conceler hides it ok, and i DO understand that if i could be bothered with creams etc it will go away in time.

    but the indentation is not fixable with foundation etc, and i think the only way to get rid of it is with more surgery.

    thanks for the advice girls. im gonna send stupid aussie dr an email now

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    Ok, when I was close to your age I had knee surgery. As a hyper little kid who thought I knew everything, I stopped using the Vitamin E gel and I now have a really nasty keloid on my knee. Most of scarring is genetic, or result of poor suturing, but rubbing the oil helps, keep with it. I am also lazy about following any kind of regimen dealie too, I feel ya....

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    please see attached pics.

    warning these photos will scare some of ya about having surgery, no they are not doctored pics,just butchered boobs!!

    there is one pic,me standing normally.
    the next i am flexing, and the next side view of flex.

    see gallery page three of uploads, or if already moved under my login name.

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    You know what I just thought of Mermaid?

    What might help is if you get some pics of your boobs after the first boob job...then get some pics of AFTER you went to the Aussie doc...and last the finals (which you have in the gallery).

    It'll show where you had your original scarring...and then what your boobs look like after the Aussie fiasco.

    Hope that helps. Please keep us updated on the progress...

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    OMG SWEETIE!!! <hugz> Time to sue someone!!!

    mermaidz, which doc do you believe caused this to happen? (aussie?)

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    yep aussie.

    i know the scars are higer then they should be, but this is my fault. i got my implants a few sizes bigger on the second operation ( heh it was gonna cost the same price so why not. ) duh didnt think, and forgot that the scar would move up. so that bits my fault.

    only my right boob is munted tho, i understand that a little bit of bunching is normal when you flex, but its a permanant bump thing happeing, cos of stupid aus dr stitching it up like that.

    grrr

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    I don't think anything is your fault mermaidnz. Foresight is the doctor's responsibility.

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