I never ask for money upfront because all the other dancers in my club collect after, and the times that I have tried the majority of them think I'm trying to rip them off. Also I never do multiple's unless it's a regular or they've proven they have the money.
Last night I almost got screwed. One of the big spender's brought some friends and asked me to take his friend to the VIP. After each dance I told him what number we were on and asked if he wanted to go on. We went for a total of 9 dances before his friend came and told him they were leaving. He asked again how much he owed and I told him "225". He acted as if that was impossible and we were not up there that long. In his wallet he had $40, so I escorted him to the ATM where he attempted to fool me by using his drivers license. His friend asked what was wrong, I said "He's short on cash and told him the grand total." HIs exact words were "You fucked him, he owes you nothing." Then he pushed me away. I ran after the both of them and in the process they both fell down the stairs. hahaha. but then he decides to call me a "lying cheating whore." Of course I don't stand for that, so I pinned him against a wall along with the boy I danced for and put them in their place. They shut up, and told me I would get paid. But then after I let them go tried to pull the same crap again. Eventually security came, and the boy says "she's lying she never danced for me." Looks at me and says "Hunny, what are you talking about you never gave me any dances." Then I say "WHAT DO YOU TAKE ME FOR?" very funny. I turned to the security guard who was up their the whole time I was dancing for him and saw us. I told him to please speak up for me, and he shook his head saying he couldn't do anything.
Another security guard pulled me away to a secluded area and yelled at me saying my performance was "unlady like". So I'm thinking they think I gave some extra, which I have NEVER done and never will do. Basically if someone calls me a whore and a bitch, I need to just take it. Not me, let's just pretend but I will always defend myself. He then gave me $200 from the guy but they refused to pay the last $25.
anyway, to aviod this from happening again. What would you suggest I do? Besides collecting before the dances and getting security. How can I attempt to get the payment before things get out of hand?



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