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    Default I think my hustling sucks, lol...

    Seriously, I think it does but then again it was my first night & it wasn't that long either. There were moments where I was just got blank too, but then again I didn't sleep much that night which was my biggest mistake.

    Anyway, what's the best way for you to approach a guy and try to sell a dance/room? I don't want to annoy the guy by simply asking wanna dance w/no stripper personality, I need more spunk. I did try to do alot of eye contacts as possible which worked too of course.

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    Default Re: I think my hustling sucks, lol...

    time and patience grasshopper.

    Your questions will be answered if you read as many of the Hustle Hut threads as possible. Do a search if you want to learn anything very specific. Then, if any unanswered questions remain, ask.........

    "Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
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    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    Default Re: I think my hustling sucks, lol...

    also, observe other girls at your club.

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    Try talking to the guys. Some of us really hate the "Wanna dance?" approach.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    time and patience grasshopper.
    LOL, true... The first and one time i've ever danced in my life & i'm already being hard on myself.

    LSM, I did try to look at the other girls but I didn't want to be so obvious either. It's hard to look at them w/o anyone noticing it.

    Redz, I know hun....lol

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    Sorry, guess I forgot to read that part. Smiling works. Touching our arms or whatever you're comfortable with. And looking just the way you do, should do the trick in most cases.

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    Relax! that's first

    second, who cares if the other girls see you looking. If they catch you just explain to them, "I'm new and trying to figure out how to do this."

    They'll probably be flattered....not that you should expect them to take you under their wing or anything.

    Find your "mentor" (she doesn't have to know she's doing this) and watch her.

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    Oh man, my biggest mistake was being very honest with this one customer. He asked me what made me do what I do & I told him the somewhat the truth. I work during the day & I just wanted a little more financial help to go back to school. Yeah that was very erotic & sexy to hear. I thought of that a little bit too late.

    There were alot of things I said that night that made me think, "Shit, I should've never said that & said this instead." HHMMPPHHH!!!

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    Oh brother, I hate that question! He knows why you strip, for the money. GOD THAT FUCKING PISSES ME OFF!!!!!

    Sure, giggle, tell him you are a nymphomaniac and an exhibitionist, but DO NOT hesitate to say you are there to make money too, or they will try to get free time for you. Trust me..........
    .....I usually respond with, "what made you decide to be a porn shop mop boy" or something silly like that to let them know their question is retarded.

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    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    Right, lol! That was like my biggest test...I think.

    I was thinking of saying this, "Because I love to flirt, tease, & please....your eyes."

    But I thought that might've sound cheesy!! LMAO

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    Also, I tend to kiss every guy on the check like hello(when I introduce myself) & bye. Is that ok? I didn't see other girls do it. Like if one guy refused my dance & he tells me he has no money, I would ask him, "Well are you having a good time at least?" Then he answers and I go, "Good, enjoy your time here handsome....i'm glad that you are." Wink and kiss on the cheek.

    Then I prance around somewhere else.

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    Hustling ain't easy.

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    I never kissed any guys. Bigger spenders might get a hug. I wouldn't kiss every guy if I were you. Save the cheek pecks for special customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka
    Hustling ain't easy.


    Hustling is extremely easy actually. You just need to know how to do it. It's like any skill in any area. It will seem difficult to learn at first and when you know how to do it and give it some time, it will get easier. Remember when you learned how to swim? You probably almost drowned at first. You were in the water, and you were scared and had no idea what to do. Then someone taught you. It was tough at first...you probably drank a bunch of pool water at first and you thought it was harder than hell to do. Eventually you got the hang of it though. Selling or "hustling" is no different.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KC Joe
    When walking thru the room, walk up behind the customer, touch them on the shoulder as you walk by. Let them see your ass as you walk away. You’ve got their attention. Come back shortly to hit them up for dances. Make them feel special.
    I did that. & I have a way of swaying my ass as I walk too, haha.

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    Ok Vyanka, I'm still a newb & probaby in no position to give pointers...But here is what works for me.
    My club is usually slow (days), so I make most of my $ off 2-3 guys who stay all day. Anyhoo, I always notice who is watching me the most when I'm on stage or walk by. But, not everyone who tips you wants a dance...Some have said they are too shy to tip, so you have to approach them.
    Sometimes I'll ask if I may join them, or I'll sit next to them and pull a cig out, and they usually offer to light it(visa versa). Next, if they give off a warm vibe(cocky annoys me but I'm learning to tolerate them better), I just make small talk. If they say No thank or not now..I mention that a 2-4-1 is coming up, and they usually go for that. Hearing "no" sucks, but at least you know & can move on to the next victim.
    I personally hate dealing with guys in groups...I do best with loners.
    Intuition comes in handy...And positive thinking as corny as it sounds. Imagine money swirling around you & don't get brought down by any "drama wenches" who will talk shit when you start banking because they are sitting on their asses scowling!!! haha
    Good luck!!!

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    Try this one out: Before you approach any man in particular, make yourself "seen" as you walk through the club, and let your hand touch the shoulders or necks of nearly every man in the house! The trick is to MOVE on -- at least in the beginning!

    Every man in a given club has the secret desire to be laid by the dancers. No great news there! It is a universal truth that the sense of touch is like dynamite in your hands if you know how to use it!

    Believe me ... the customers will notice the girls who are willing to extend a hand, or a kiss on the cheek. After you've made your rounds, simply come up to the "victim", and place your hand on his neck or shoulder, and politely ask "may I sit with you?" -- I absolutely guarantee that the man will say YES and will be more than willing to part with his cash on you!!!

    Happy hunting. mccodu

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    Oh man, I actually did that too with my hand. I would gently carress it on his neck as I would walk by...hoping they'd say something. I'll try to be a bit more agressive (yet not annoying lol) too tonight.


    Thx alot for the tips everyone.

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