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    I am going to school in a little more than a month and I need a job badly, I have been thinking of dancing for quite some time now, and I have been working on my body so that I would have a better chance. I went on a diet, I excercise every day, I used to weigh 130, but then I got pregnant and gained 4o pounds! So far I have lost a fair bit of weight and have built muscle too. I am 5'9 and currently wiegh in at 152 and have a 32C cup. Is my weight too high?? I am very self concious about my looks because I still feel overwieght even though I know I am not. I am fit, I don't have visible stretch marks, and I think that I have a chance... but I am still very new to this and don't know what is an acceptable stripper body. Any Help? I also have another month before I go away to school and actually audition, but I'd like to know if any of you think I have a chance.

    I included a picture... I am the one on the far right... this was me about 6 months ago, (sorry, no recent pics of my body) and I have lost about 12 pounds since then... and built a little muscle since then as well... also included a pic of my face... i dunno if I have a good enough face???


    ANy tips or encouragement or positive criticism would really be helping me out! Thanks girlies.... Tank xo

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    Ps- Tank ain't my nickname because of my weight... it's because I can drink...lol... just to clarify...

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    Default Re: Needing help, feeling very uneasy...

    I don't know about the rest of these guys, but I'd want some dances from you. Canadian girls mmmm.

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    Aw, thanks so much Red! You can be my first customer... Tank

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    From the looks of your pic, your face looks beautiful, and the description of your body sounds wonderful. You should have no problem finding a job, or regular custys. I know, as a customer, that part of the attraction is that the dancers are NOT perfect. However, they exude a confidence in themselves that makes them extra sexy in mine, and the other custys' eyes.
    In my opinion, appearance is about 70%. Confidence, attitude, smile, and stage presence works the rest of the magic. You have to have something to back up your body. LOTS OF LUCK!!!

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    I say go for it!!!!! you look GREAT!

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    You have a beautiful face and smile, and your body (from what is evident in the picture) looks great. If you were up on stage I would definitely pay attention Go for it!!
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    Well if you ever find yourself dancing in Upstate NY or NJ, sure. I bet you'll do just fine.

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    You can do it, you're good looking enough in the face for sure. Hard to tell your body with that pic but you're not obese. If your chest is pretty big, you could definitely get away with the "voluptuous" look (one which I happen to really dig). But if your chest is small, you might want to slim down a little more to balance the curves out a little.

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    I'll try and get you all a better pic so that ya'll know what you're dealing with.... thanks for all the help so far...

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    You look awesome... honnest opinion.

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    You look great! I'm 5'10, 155lbs and a 34b, not to far off from you, I think you'll do great!

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    You do look great. My big thing is the smile -- and you've got a GREAT smile. Customers really seem to dig that. As for your bod, it sounds like that's not a prob at all. Just stay in great shape and work out a lot and you'll be fine.

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    Default Re: Needing help, feeling very uneasy...

    That is exaclty the type of encouragement I needed... thank you

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    Sweetie youre beautiful, trust my judgement, its the best....lol.... Really I think you are a very attractive young lady and your weight from how you describe it sounds fine... Good Luck!!

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    Your weight is proportionate to your height. I have a good friend who is the same height and weight as you (and same cup size) and she is absolutely perfect. Keep in mind, most clubs are very dimly lit, and the small imperfections we obsess about in the mirror are usually invisible to the customer. Also, your height is an advantage. Anything that makes you stand out, be it being very tall or very petite, will work in your favor. Best of luck to you.

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    Tanketta, you have an adorable cute face girl.

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    Whoever it was that said you have a great smile was right, and also your eyes are very pretty. 150 at 5'9" is not fat at all but how you carry it matters. If it's all in your ass or if you're not toned up, then you mght have an issue.

    If you're nice/bubbly/fun and a good salesperson, I'd buy a few dances from you, going on what I see in those pics alone for looks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KC Joe
    Let's see how your ass looks in a thong.
    ROFLMAO.... MEN! You'd prolly ask her that if she was applying for a job at McDonalds!!!

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    LOL... i'll see what I can do for ya...

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    You're great! Go for it!!!

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    wow,looks like sin dipped in honey to me...what a smile!!!

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    You look great to me, just arm yourself with a big boost of confidence and go kick some ass!

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    Thanks so much! Honestly I think you're all being too nice, but I'll take it all in anyways... I'm getting excioted about auditioning!!, still nervous... but that's to be expected....

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    Do it... you'll be surprised how well you'll do.
    "That's your answer Old Man? I guess you're a Hard Case too...."
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