I Want To Spice Up My Marriage - HELP!

**aIsha** · 11-16-2004, 09:43 AM

Hello Ladies,

I am married and my anniversary is coming up on Valentines Day, 2005. I want to take my husband to a hotel and give him a lap dance. I do not know how to lap dance. So I would like to know
- if there are any videos out there that you think are best, to teach me a few steps or a routine for that night.
- What type of music should I use?
- What should I wear.
If you have any other suggestions, I would like that too.

Thank You
aIsha

**jennee** · 11-19-2004, 03:09 PM

hey there,

check out http://www.sfactor.com. this is not raunchy stuff, but her dvd's will get you started. also, try http://www.snaz75.com for shoes (those are key!) and http://www.poledanzer.com if you want to go as far as including a pole! good luck... you're going to blow his mind.

**Prina** · 11-19-2004, 06:48 PM

Be confident and sexy!!! Have him sitting in a chair or couch. Get yourself in the mood like you're in heat and you want him BAD. Look him in the eyes to remind him he is the ONLY man that can Do it for you. Tell him he is not allowed to touch and whisper what you want him to do to you after the dance. Then crawl on the bed like a kitty while he is still sitting and whisper "come here". That's what I would do...hope that helps
Still unsure... try to go to strip club with a girlfriend and get a few dances.

**RedZ28** · 11-19-2004, 07:02 PM

I'm sure he'll enjoy it just because you're trying. I know I would.

**aIsha** · 11-22-2004, 06:20 PM

Thank you for the advice, all of you. I am going to check out the recommended sites by jenee.

**hardkandee** · 11-22-2004, 06:55 PM

Originally Posted by RedZ28

I'm sure he'll enjoy it just because you're trying. I know I would.

I second that. Plus you already know what he likes, like how to tease him and what he likes to see you in. Just play up his fantasies!

242_fair · 11-22-2004, 07:45 PM

You should definetly go to a club and get a dance for yourself!~!

**Casual Observer** · 11-22-2004, 07:50 PM

Be confident and sexy!!! Have him sitting in a chair or couch. Get yourself in the mood like you're in heat and you want him BAD. Look him in the eyes to remind him he is the ONLY man that can Do it for you. Tell him he is not allowed to touch and whisper what you want him to do to you after the dance. Then crawl on the bed like a kitty while he is still sitting and whisper "come here". That's what I would do...hope that helps

It certainly does.

Wait.

You're weren't addressing me, were you?

Sorry. Nevermind.

Ahem.