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    sometimes i feel bad because i am not really into being touched by my boyfriend right after i get home from work. or i'll find myself talking to/hugging him like a hoe. do any of you feel like this? how do you deal?

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    Dancing made me appreciate my SO more.

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    Ditto what Venus said. Not only did I appreciate him more, but he was the benificiary of me being fairly well turned on by dancing!!!

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    I sometimes feel like I've expended all of my sexual energy at work and have none left for my husband. Plus he's asleep when I get home. When we actually are awake together, all I want to do is cuddle. Luckily he's into that. If it gets really bad, then I drop a shift from my schedule so we can find some time to be together.

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    yep, its kinda weird. ive been dancing only 7 weeks and its been a real turn on for me and him, (esp. on nites when he comes to watch me) but sometimes i come home and only want to sleep, while he wants to f*** while i tell him my nites adventures. also- why am i so wet ALL the time? i usually dont feel super horny like on stage, tho often i do when lap grinding, but "she" must have a mind of her own, cause shes always soaked, even at nite when we're sleepin. whats up with that? oh well, sure is fun.

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    I'm seeing a guy and our sex life has turned up a considerable amount. But then again, I'm a new dancer that only dances one a week.
    Sounds to me that you sexually burn yourself out at work so you don't want to deal with it at home. I could be wrong though.

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    Katherine, you are totally right. I have been dancing for three years. I get so sick of men constantly trying to touch me, get in my pants, bring me home, or convince me that they are the greates guy in the world and if I would be with them they would ive me the world, that when I get home, the last thing I want my fiance to do is try to get in my pants. I want him to be my friend, not just the guy i live with and sleep with.
    Another thing is he (much of the time) just wants to follow me around the house grabbing me! LEAVE ME ALONE!! I get surprize grabbing enough at work, I do not want to come home to the same bs.
    He says things like, "why doyou treat me like a customer?" and all I can think is ,"because you are acting like a customer!"
    ok, that felt good to get off my chest.

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    OMG, finally someone who understands how I feel. I love my boyfriend very much, but sex has not been on my mind in the past month. Im not dancing for the nesxt two months, but when I was it was like youre feeling me up again, aghh. However, I apprieciate how great he has been about everything. He was really against me dancing, but he ended up respecting me for working so hard. It's not about him, it really is my personal issues, i will have to learn to separate my job from my life. Otherwise, I feel I should not return to work. But that's just me. Im just glad someone else feel this way.

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