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    Hi guys I just started last tuesday and this is my first time dancing, I was wondering across the board what is the level of contact allowed and is it strictly enforced? My club is no contact except the men can touch knee down, arms and your sides. Thanks for your replies.
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    We have a no contact rule, but it's only enforced if they are trying to get some kind of zoning or licensing change!

    However it's enforced for the guys during a dance. They can't touch. We can touch them. They can touch in the VIP room or out on the floor.

    The level of allowed contact is directly proportional to how much clothes she has on, in my club and in the entire state.

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    In my club the guys can't touch but I can.
    I'm about to started work in a higher contact club where they can touch my butt and if I'm comfy my boobs. I don't know how I'll feel about that yet.

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    Yeah, mine is like mentioned before, we can touch them, they can't touch us.

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    We can touch them, they can touch us boobs, butt, arms legs backs etc... the no touching rule is only enforced if a girl complains. They let us dancers decide who can touch where. Basically at the dancer's discretion. I like that we get to choose the amount of touching-if any- that goes on.

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    I work in a no touching the girls club. We give full contact lap dances but the men are supposed to keep their hands to themselves. It is strictly enforced on the main floor. In the VIP room, well ... most girls allow minimum touching. Some allow boobs. If the bouncers see them touching they may say something, but that kind of depends on the girl. Some girls dont mind the men fondling all over them and others do. The bouncers pretty much know who is a hands off girl and they tend to be more strict with the customers sitting with these girls, so it is kind of dancer discreation as long as the dancer isnt getting carried away.

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    The club I'm in has a no contact rule too Emily. It's a Boston rule. There's definately no grinding during the dances. I'm not sure what the rule for the VIP is though its probably the same as for the dances. I'm considering going to a high/medium contact club in another state in a few months to see if it's more money.

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    At my club, the customers can't touch the girls at all during any type of dance. Our bouncers watch this super close.

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    I've been to some clubs where even a little bit of touching and the bouncer will warn you. Needless to say, I don't go to those clubs anymore. I like the medium to high contact ones and don't look for extras.

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    Touching both ways. Everywhere except inner thigh, pubic area, vagina, anus and near the anus (allowed to touch sides of butt)... same rule for customer and dancer. Enforced.

    Most dancers will say "above the waist only" tho'.

    Rockhampton - above the waist only. They were only starting to enforce it in the last week I was there as I got fined one time for allowing a guy to touch my butt (I didn't do so on purpose).


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    Medium two-way contact. Some guys sit with their hands on the side, some carress you. I've seen some boobie groping, but I am guessing that the girl was drunk or stupid because she seemed oblivious to it.

    My GM yelled at my customer for touching the side of my butt last week, so I'm not longer allowing that.

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    Wow... living here, I tend to forget how different things are in the rest of the world!
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    Yeah, Houston clubs are very high mileage, two-way contact. Guys expect for you to let them maul your boobs and buttcheeks. Extras are the norm in some, not all club. NOT EVERY HOUSTON DANCER DOES EXTRAS!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    NOT EVERY HOUSTON DANCER DOES EXTRAS!
    And I had no intention whatsoever of implying otherwise - you, me, and everyone else who's ever experienced Houston clubs first hand know better... it's all YMMV, and the clubs vary widely in both the levels of contact and the availability of extras.
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    Montreal : Full contact you can touch them they can touch you
    Windsor : No contact at all it's suposed to be airdance but we lapdance without grinding and without touching them too much
    Toronto: It's suposed to be lapdance with light contact (they can only touch arms, back and legs) but i've seen everything : grinding and high contact so this law is not really enforced !

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    You can go as far as you want... some dancers give the guys bj on the back room....

    So, it's up to you to draw the line. If you want to be touched or you want to touch ... etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal_eyes
    Montreal : Full contact you can touch them they can touch you
    Windsor : No contact at all it's suposed to be airdance but we lapdance without grinding and without touching them too much
    Toronto: It's suposed to be lapdance with light contact (they can only touch arms, back and legs) but i've seen everything : grinding and high contact so this law is not really enforced !
    I frequent clubs in Providence and Montreal--contact seems to be similar, if perhaps a bit more extensive in Providence on average. Not sure if there is a "one-foot-on-the-floor" rule in Montreal for contact LDs, but my experience suggests that there might be. Also, in the Montreal club I go to most often, it seems like full contact is only allowed topless--whereas in Providence full contact is allowed nude (but no touching between the legs, of course, and some dancers do not allow breast contact).

    By the way, Crystal_eyes, if that is really your picture I need to take another trip to Montreal soon. WOW!!
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    In most of the "upper class" sydney clubs there is a "no contact" kind of rule, and we are meant to be at least 30cm away from the customer during a private show... However I find this rule sometimes gets a little bent for VIP (ie big spending) customers...

    Does anyone else get that? (management looking the other way for certain customers)

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    My club is a no-contact club. No grinding or touching from customers. It is enforced but they are cool with you lying back on the customer or cuddling him by sitting on his leg during a dance. It is not sooo strict that you can't be somewhat creative but there is no sexual touching of any kind. Surpisingly the girls at my new club are actually following the rules. I guess they finally caught on that they are so beautiful and talented they don't have to be sleazy. Some girls barley touch the guys and the guys keep getting multiple dances. It is amazing what a good club that hires the best looking women can do.

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    No contact at all in most of the clubs in Vancouver

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    Quote Originally Posted by DeepGreen
    I frequent clubs in Providence and Montreal--contact seems to be similar, if perhaps a bit more extensive in Providence on average. Not sure if there is a "one-foot-on-the-floor" rule in Montreal for contact LDs, but my experience suggests that there might be. Also, in the Montreal club I go to most often, it seems like full contact is only allowed topless--whereas in Providence full contact is allowed nude (but no touching between the legs, of course, and some dancers do not allow breast contact).

    By the way, Crystal_eyes, if that is really your picture I need to take another trip to Montreal soon. WOW!!
    No in Montreal theres no rules except no sex and not touching betwen legs ! And yes it's only topless ! Hahaha no it's not me in the picture but I think it looks like me so thats why i've put it there !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal_eyes
    No in Montreal theres no rules except no sex and not touching betwen legs ! And yes it's only topless ! Hahaha no it's not me in the picture but I think it looks like me so thats why i've put it there !
    LMOA close enough for me! Thanks for the update Crystal--glad to be straightened out. Planning to head up to Montreal in early January with my wife-- she loves the clubs up there, we'll see how it goes. (A little off-topic (sorry!), but if you have any recommendations for clubs up there pls let me know...)

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    No touching at our club. I really like that rule. We do give "lap dances" though and I do grind and slide down their bodies. I just don't want them touching me. We also have a one foot on the floor at all times rule, though I've seen girls breaking it lately (no big deal to me).
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    Does anyone else get that? (management looking the other way for certain customers)

    You only have to look at some of the other threads in the various folders to know that alot can be allowed for big spenders. (Sorry off topic but I thought it was worth saying - she asked.)


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    no touching in the main area - what goes on in the vip is up to the dancer. i have worked in touch clubs too where basically carassing legs or butt cheeks was allowed.

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