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    Default Re: "I want to spoil you Outside of here"

    Quote Originally Posted by KC Joe
    And what do you suggust saying to a dancer who keeps asking you to meet her OTC to take her shopping, dinner, on vacation?

    I quit going when she worked, and quit answering her phone calls. It's been two months and she still calls asking why I won't come to see her.

    BTW, I told her no, because I wasn't going to be her sugerdaddy. My fantasy ends at the door and so does my monetary obligations.

    Im just curious if your monetary obligations ends outside the door why did you give her your number??
    just curious
    I never give my number or take a customers phone number
    it just isnt neccesary!
    that one act( giving or taking the number) means that either party is interested in obligations outside the club!

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    yeah, ive heard shit like this a billion times, and Ive only been dancing for a month! Theres this guy in my club that sits in the corner every week with a group of friends like he's the don and tells the dancers that he wants x girl to "be my baby." then tries to get her number. I gave him a dance and he kpt tring to kiss me and wanted me to say that my pussy was his, and saying he wanted to take me on a vacation to puerto rico--riot! I gave him my cell # just to fuck with him whenever he calls i send the call the vm (i have a function on my phone that will block unwanted calls so im not worried) i just listen to his messages, "ive been calling you and u havint called back thats not right" when i see him this week, im going to tell him, "i dont know who you been calling, u asked for a number, a gave u A NUMBER, just not mine"
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    Default Re: "I want to spoil you Outside of here"

    Trust me, they only have selfish goals. They want to get you away from the bouncers, the rules that protect you, and try to get in your head (and g-string lol). Even if everything goes smoothly, they'll bug and bug to get you alone again... and try to get more. The club is there to protect you. :j
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    DW--the difference between what you wrote and what I wrote is that your response would have to be a joke, or I'd know it was just a line (the dancer's going to pay for MY dinner? I think not...). If the dancer is NOT going to meet the custy outside the club, a line like yours (said as a joke) would be a reasonable way to respond. If they are willing to consider the possibility (for the right amount of $ and with the right understanding), I don't think that line is the best one to take.

    But either way--it's just one sentence in a conversation, and it's easy to get your real intent across. I'm just saying that without the right context, I don't like that line. Maybe some customers are different.

    Is it more appropriate to PM stuff like this so it doesn't clog up threads?
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    Default Re: "I want to spoil you Outside of here"

    i think this is being waaaay over analyzed. the reality is that its gonna happen alot. Just say "no i dont see ppl outside the club"--i explain to the guy thats just the way it is and has nothing to do with them as a person. they usually understand--if they get stupid, just walk away--youre not getting money oout of them.
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    I don't understand why the guy would come to the club in the first place if he didn't spend $ on the girls...guess he has that issue like a lot of guys do that the strippers are all going to fall madly in love with him and aren't there to make money.

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    Default Re: "I want to spoil you Outside of here"

    The older “gentlemen will spend in AND out of the club at YOUR discretion. Anyone who wants you to just leave with them is looking for a hooker.


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    Default Re: "I want to spoil you Outside of here"

    There was a lot of good advice at the begining of this thread. Sometimes, even though I've been doing this so long, I forget good ways to deal with situations. Thanks ladies, and just a few guys.

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    Bella totally nailed it . Guys that want 2 get you out of the club & wanna get in2 ur pants 4 free or close 2 it anyway.

    I just laugh at these guys and tell them their best bet is 2 hit the yellow pages if they are looking 4 "company" out of the club.

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    Default Re: "I want to spoil you Outside of here"

    I only have a clear answer for the "dont want to give you money that the club gets a cut of" line.

    Set up a Paypal account.

    Seriously.

    Then tell the guy that if he has a credit card and access to the net, he can give you money there. The club gets none. As long as you dont hae your Paypal account linked to an adult site, Paypal cant bitch about the content.

    Hell, I used to have business cards with info on Paypalling me tips on the back.
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    Default Re: "I want to spoil you Outside of here"

    It's exactly what they want. They want to change the environment. If they get you outside the club, they think that youll see them differently and fall for them or so enjoy their spending money on you that you'll keep going out with them.

    There is a fineline between being a stripper and escort but that line should never be crossed. And a club should never be used to arrange dates outside the club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by amylynnej
    It's exactly what they want. They want to change the environment. If they get you outside the club, they think that youll see them differently and fall for them or so enjoy their spending money on you that you'll keep going out with them.

    There is a fineline between being a stripper and escort but that line should never be crossed. And a club should never be used to arrange dates outside the club.
    Blah blah ... fine line... you're so much better than escorts, right?

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    Default Re: "I want to spoil you Outside of here"

    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter
    I only have a clear answer for the "dont want to give you money that the club gets a cut of" line.

    Set up a Paypal account.

    Seriously.

    Then tell the guy that if he has a credit card and access to the net, he can give you money there. The club gets none. As long as you dont hae your Paypal account linked to an adult site, Paypal cant bitch about the content.

    Hell, I used to have business cards with info on Paypalling me tips on the back.
    And guys used it? You must have much more generous customers than me because mine would laugh if I gave them instructions on how to send me money via Paypal.

    I am guessing that you had guys PayPal you for dances you performed for them in the club, and later they paid on the internet. I am impressed they would follow through.
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