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    Default Hey customers who read on here....

    Let Vyanka know what you like and dislike to hear from a dancer. Or even a way she dances too.


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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    I like a dancer to chat with me like a regular person. I also know I am in a SC, and I often like to talk about things such as how her evening (or day) is going. Is it a good or slow day? How have the customers been? I like to feel like I am talking to a real person. I am honestly interested in how her day has been going, and I love to chat about such things. Now, this may not be common....

    I don't generally react well to an obvious hustle, and I can't stand the "wannadance" approach. Even if I do find a dancer attractive, that approach will always get a "no" from me. However, being a guy, a little subtle flirting will often get you a long way.

    I will also often go into a SC with my wife, and it is always great (with us) to tell us how much you like to see a couple so comfortable and happy in the club. This is very flattering to us, and is a big winner--much more likely to make us buy dances, etc. If you strike up a conversation with her that is also great--because I am more than happy to watch the two of you chat. If you flirt with her all the better, because she loves it--and I certainly won't complain either

    Most of all, smile and seem happy to see me. The topic of conversation is secondary, but if you seem happy that I am there spending money on you, I will be more likely to keep doing so...
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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    Quote Originally Posted by DeepGreen
    I like a dancer to chat with me like a regular person. I also know I am in a SC, and I often like to talk about things such as how her evening (or day) is going. Is it a good or slow day? How have the customers been? I like to feel like I am talking to a real person. I am honestly interested in how her day has been going, and I love to chat about such things. Now, this may not be common....

    I don't generally react well to an obvious hustle, and I can't stand the "wannadance" approach. Even if I do find a dancer attractive, that approach will always get a "no" from me. However, being a guy, a little subtle flirting will often get you a long way.

    I will also often go into a SC with my wife, and it is always great (with us) to tell us how much you like to see a couple so comfortable and happy in the club. This is very flattering to us, and is a big winner--much more likely to make us buy dances, etc. If you strike up a conversation with her that is also great--because I am more than happy to watch the two of you chat. If you flirt with her all the better, because she loves it--and I certainly won't complain either

    Most of all, smile and seem happy to see me. The topic of conversation is secondary, but if you seem happy that I am there spending money on you, I will be more likely to keep doing so...
    HHMM, the last part was perfect! Thanks DG!!

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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    Don't relate all the catty bits about other dancers to us while we're sitting and talking before going to the VIP. This happened to me recently and I hated it.
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    Appreciate my dollar...even if it doesn't seem like a lot...and I will find a way to give you a few more...whenever I can.

    Look in my eyes and tilt you're head slightly.

    Ask me a question about something I have said...it shows you're listening.

    Don't watch yourself in the mirror if you're dancing for me...look at me.

    I'm not fooled...I know I'm just another guy...and I cannot go in with the kinds of bucks that I would really like to...so I'll try not to waste your time...but if you look at me just right...I'll give you just a little more than I really should.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
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    SeppeSai, I would never....so i'm good there.

    Um, Mojo....NICE!! I'm even impressed, lol!!

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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    The ladies that get the most money out of me do the best job of "selling the fantasy." She does a pretty good job of pretending to "dig me." It's not the quantity of the dances, but the quality. If the dances are awesome, even if I may only buy a few now. I'll be back for more later.

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    One thing I can't stand when I am out visiting other clubs is a dancer that comes over, sits down, ask me how I am(do I want a dance, VIP, will I buy them a drink) and then tell me about all the money she hasn't made that night and all the money she needs to make to feed her kids, fix her car, pay her rent, etc. If I wanted to hear about problems I would stay home. Like alot of us have said, we come there for the fantasy, the escape of reality if only for a little while. Let us enjoy that. Smile, be polite, show interest in what I want to talk about and please, NEVER be pushy about money or dances.

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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    Mojo hit this nail squarely on the head-

    "Don't watch yourself in the mirror if you're dancing for me...look at me."

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    I dislike hearing a Dancer do impressions of Nelson Rockefeller fondling a chicken. Just dance, dammit!

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    I agree with DeepGreen, treat me like a real person. Treat me with courtesy and respect, and giving me a big phoney come-on and big hustle is disrespectful. Show genuine interest in me as a person. Focus your attention on me and stop looking around the room while we're talking - if I'm boring you, get up and leave. Smile, be positive and don't complain unless we know each other well. Be a little playful without overdoing it. Treat me the way you want me to treat you and I will return the favor. Remember my name and use it. And please don't call me "baby."
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    A couple of big don'ts that occurred to me recently. Don't come up behind me and buzz in my ear, especially just as I'm taking a drink. Not only is that not sexy, it scared the crap out of me.

    Another big don't, at least for me, is make fake moaning sounds at inappropriate times. I mean, fantasy is one thing, but I'm not deluded enough to believe that a dancer is compelled to moan with delight mere seconds into dancing for me. Likewise, don't overdo the moaning or the dirty talk, again, the fantasy has to have some basis in reality to be a decent fantasy.

    Third, others have mentioned dont look in the mirror while dancing for me. Eye contact will do wonders - its way more sensual and personal. Its always nice to be reassured that a dancer isn't repulsed by the thought of dancing for you. By looking in the mirror while dancing, a dancer might as well yawn right in my face.

    The pickup line "wanna dance" works when the club is packed. However when there are three people in the club, it certainly helps when a dancer spares a minute to sit and chat.

    Lastly, I dislike when dancers plop down next to me, say nothing and just sit there for several minutes or longer and wait for me to either tip her or get a dance.

    Things I like:

    A dancer that takes a moment or two to engage in some form of light small talk. I realize y'all don't make money by sitting a chatting, so its appreciated when some time is taken.

    At least pretend to be enjoy being around the customer. No one really wants to hang out with someone that doesn't want to be around you. A smile, some flirting will get a dancer everywhere. Essentially, what I like from a dancer is someone who enjoys her work and meeting people. Enthusiasm, smiles, some decent convo, and a hot dance with some eye contact is just fine.

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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka
    Or even a way she dances too.
    I'll refer you to lartec's post on the blue site... now THAT sounds good... you can leave out the kissing part of course
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...189#post413189

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    Great idea for a topic


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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    Great idea for a topic
    ((high five)) Thx

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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    I'm with Hyde and Mojo! I hate thinking as I'm getting a dance " Hey I'm the guy under you....down here hello!"
    "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."

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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    Like:

    Clean teeth,
    Great smile.
    I like the hello, how are you doing line, before asking for a dance.
    "wanna dance" all by itself makes me jaded, unless of course I have been waiting for that particular person all night.
    Good smelling hair.
    Boyshorts with lace
    I especialy like when they tell me their name and its not too many sylables,
    (honestly i only have enough blood to keep one head thinking at a time)

    Dislike,
    If they never look at you during the lapdance.

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    Deal with me like a real person instead of giving me the impression that I'm an ATM and you're trying to figure out the code.
    "That's your answer Old Man? I guess you're a Hard Case too...."
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    I have 3 ATF's that I've spent a lot of money on and they all have one thing in common: when we met they were all brand new at dancing and didn't know what they were doing. But they had a real interest in getting to know customers and pleasing them. And they brought a tremendous enthusiasm to their job. And most of all they were having fun. My advice: stop trying to be professional (read jaded) and go back to being the way you were when you first started. In other words act like the real you and treat us like real people too. And have fun, it's contagious. I never spend money on a phoney act and that includes most of the dancers that I run into.
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    If I give you money for a dance, stop staring at your workmates when you play around.
    Don't slap your arse, that's my job.
    Stop drinking before you go on stage
    If I say no I don't want a dance with you tonight, that's exactly what I mean.
    If you are actually interested in a chat, quit using the work lines, they are tacky in a serious conversation.
    Don't bite or lick your breasts, again that's my job
    Show some interest in your job, I know if you hate it, and you won't get my money.
    My last girl melted in the sun

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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL
    I have 3 ATF's that I've spent a lot of money on and they all have one thing in common: when we met they were all brand new at dancing and didn't know what they were doing. But they had a real interest in getting to know customers and pleasing them. And they brought a tremendous enthusiasm to their job. And most of all they were having fun. My advice: stop trying to be professional (read jaded) and go back to being the way you were when you first started. In other words act like the real you and treat us like real people too. And have fun, it's contagious. I never spend money on a phoney act and that includes most of the dancers that I run into.
    FONDL, that's a perfect summary of how I feel.

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    Wow these are awesome replies to this one ..took a sec to get some people. But, these are quality answer from real people.
    Its just nice to get to satisfy someone. Put a smile on their face. Help them relax.
    Its a great general cut out for when I start working again.
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    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    Wow these are awesome replies to this one ..took a sec to get some people. But, these are quality answer from real people.
    Its just nice to get to satisfy someone. Put a smile on their face. Help them relax.
    Its a great general cut out for when I start working again.
    That's such an awesome attitude TM...Thanks! Just that attitude alone...being friendly and yourself...is so important when I decide who I want to spend time with in a SC.
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    Default Re: Hey customers who read on here....

    I go to the same club frequently, do you know which girls get my hard earned cash? The ones that take 15 seconds to come over and say hi, and give me a hug or a kiss on the cheek. No you dont have to remember my name, or act all happy to see me.

    A little bit of appreciation goes a long way, and when I start laying out the cash, you will see its a two way street.

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    I agree with most of what is already posted here. But I will add some of my own personal favorite things a dancer does.
    (1) I LOVE it when she brings her face slowly up my chest and breezes by my face and I feel her breathing.
    (2) I LOVE it when she touches me ANYWHERE! but behind the neck is nice
    (3) I LOVE it when she drapes herself across my lap and dips her head back making her body seem like a lap dinner tray,,,,,hehe
    (4) As far as personality goes the more she sounds like a reg girl and not some professional the better.

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