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    So I was in a local SC with a buddy of mine last weekend. Met a cool girl, bought her a couple of drinks, had some dances, and engaged in good conversation. I had a very good time! I by no means am a regular at any places and still fairly new to this so I’m trying to learn what to expect. Anyway on my last dance from her she gave me two sustained kisses on the lips. I was not prepared for this and it actually messed with my head a little bit the following day. I understand it’s just a fantasy but I guess the kiss started to blur the distinction in my head. Is that normal for most girls to do? If so I need to adjust my expectations so I’m not caught off guard.

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    Hehe some girls will and some go a lot further

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    Quote Originally Posted by DP1017
    ... I guess the kiss started to blur the distinction in my head. Is that normal for most girls to do? If so I need to adjust my expectations so I’m not caught off guard.
    There's your answer, it blurred the distinction, it was part of her act, nothing more. No it's not normal, and personally, I'd never kiss a guy on the mouth in a club, but she did keep you thinking about her the next day.
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    Default Re: Question about expectations

    I always like this question.

    She's trying to get money from you, Some girls would do ANYTHING/EVERYTHING to get that. If it's a kiss here, a conversation there, etc. I wouldn't take it too seriously, if I were you. I am sure she's doing the same to other guys as well.


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    Default Re: Question about expectations

    Thanks for the info, it just took me by surprise. I guess that must be due to inexperience. You’re a great bunch of ladies!

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    Default Re: Question about expectations

    Quote Originally Posted by DP1017
    Thanks for the info, it just took me by surprise. I guess that must be due to inexperience.
    No, not just inexperience; it is pretty unusual. I have been patronizing strip clubs for decades and all over the country and world, and I have only run into dancers who included any significant kissing in their dances a few times, maybe 3 or 4 total.

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    I have been going to strip clubs for many years and have only been kissed on the lips twice, and both times it was by a girl who I had seen many many times. And frankly I wouldn't want to be kissed by I girl that I'd just met cause I'd assume she did that with every guy she met and wanted to see again - I'd assume it was part of her act. My advice is don't have any expectatons when you go to a club, just take whatever happens and enjoy the moment. Expectations will get you into trouble.
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    Default Re: Question about expectations

    From my experience of going to clubs for the past couple of years, that experience is unique. I've only been kissed on the lips twice and from what I've seen its a rarity. She was really trying to "sell the fantasy."

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