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    Ok here's how it all went down. In the last hour that my club was open I was getting off stage as another girl (who I like) was getting on the stage. I was trying to get dressed and get on the floor to make $ before we closed. I "heard" her say to the dj that she was getting ready to do a tub dance. That late at night all I did was "hear" I wasn't "listening", know what I mean? So anyway as I was walking through the club a guy with a group of about 5 stopped me and asked what I was doing. I said "nothing now I just got off stage". So he asks me to do a bath. So I agreed. The tub was already run, I guess from the girl that was on stage. He asked another girl to join me. So we jumped in and were going to refill the tub after our song, plenty of time for it to fill while the first girl got off stage, etc. Come to find out, the guy that asked me for the tub dance was in the same group as anothere guy who was getting a tub dance from the first girl. Anyway, the other guy didn't want a tub dance from the first girl now for some reason. If I had known that it would spoil the chance for the first girl to do the dance I would have never agreed. I feel so bad now, I don't really know what to do. I am not a cut-throat person. I thought about giving her half of what I got from the dance. What do you think?

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    Sucks...these things happen. Maybe next time someone asks you to do a "tub dance" and want you to do it with "a friend", you can go get her...

    Hmmmmm...I've never had that happen, so I'll be interested in what the other girls say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    Hmmmmm...I've never had that happen, so I'll be interested in what the other girls say.
    So will I... prior to being exposed to inner workings of clubs several years ago, would have never guessed such an intricate system of unwritten rules was at play, and would have never suspected such an altogether-too-familiar game of "office politics" was being played.
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    i don't feel that was being cut throat....the coustmer asked you for a dance you did not ask him he asked you. he wanted you and another girl....he wanted to see two hot women all wet and he didn't want to wait. you did nothing wrong.

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    Speaking for myself, I'd say you did nothing wrong. That kind of thing happens alot, it's happened to me before where a guy wanted a dance from me but then his friend talked him into going with another girl. I didn't sweat it all that much. I just moved on to the next customer.

    In this business you're going to step on a lot of toes whether accidentally or not to make money. That's just how it goes, ya know?
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    I'm sorry but a 'tub dance'? Why do they even include the word 'dance'. So stupid.

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    same reason they call a shower dance a "shower dance...." there is no auctual dancing just lots of water and soap and movement of the hands and body.

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    Sounds like fun. For the record, most guys don't like waiting. Myiah is that you in the avatar? Damn!

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    Shit happens. You don't owe her anything, but it would be nice if you bought her a drink or hustled her into your next two girl dance.



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    It's not your fault she can't keep up with the competition. Don't be silly, you made your money, so keep it!
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    Thanks ladies (and gents)! I just wanted to get other dancers' opinions. I guess I will at least ask the guy if he has another girl who is expecting the dance the next time this situation. What I SHOULD have done would have been to decline the tub dance and offer 2 laps while he waited for her. But you're right. It wasn't intentional so I'll just buy her a drink tonight!

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    I don't think that you did anything wrong. You didn't know that she was doing the dance for them right? You also didn't know that they had already asked that girl to do the tub dance. I have been on both sides of this one before. All most all of the time, if you explain that you didn't know and that you feel bad about it, then the girl will have no hard feelings. If you think that you should buy her a drink tonight then I say go for it.

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    You shouldn't feel obligated to ask every guy who asks you for a dance if he's already asked someone else. That's ridiculous and no one else would do it. If the guy asks you, he's CHOSEN you, and that's all you need to know. If you've never been on the other end of that situation, you will if you keep dancing for long. It's part of the game. Just explain to the girl that he ASKED you and another girl for the dance, that you didn't know she was supposed to do it, that he apparently didn't want to wait for her to get off stage or whatever. It's not your fault and you don't need to make it up to her, but just to keep "in good graces" it would be nice if you get HER the next time someone wants a 2girl dance with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    You shouldn't feel obligated to ask every guy who asks you for a dance if he's already asked someone else. That's ridiculous and no one else would do it. If the guy asks you, he's CHOSEN you, and that's all you need to know. If you've never been on the other end of that situation, you will if you keep dancing for long. It's part of the game. Just explain to the girl that he ASKED you and another girl for the dance, that you didn't know she was supposed to do it, that he apparently didn't want to wait for her to get off stage or whatever. It's not your fault and you don't need to make it up to her, but just to keep "in good graces" it would be nice if you get HER the next time someone wants a 2girl dance with you.
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