Hey guys,
I came across this in my explorations and wanted to share....
But I got over that and eventually came back to the idea that I always come to when I hear that someone's been talking negatively about me behind my back: You can't pay attention to what people say about you when you are not present.
There are three reasons:
1. They are venting -- so much of what they are saying is exaggerated. (Have you ever said anything about anyone that was exaggerated?)
2. That which is heartfelt at the moment may be temporary. (Think about how your opinion about certain colleagues has changed over the years.)
3. Most of what is heartfelt and permanent doesn't affect you. It's just talk.
So don't worry about what people say behind your back. It is mostly a reflection of how powerless they feel. Focus on doing what you think is best and hope that your detractors will come around to seeing the wisdom of your ways.
k xo
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