I was reading a magazine article today and they had an interesting poll...."Sex with love, or without love. Which would you pick?"....60% decided on sex without love.
So I was curious, Which would you rather have?
I was reading a magazine article today and they had an interesting poll...."Sex with love, or without love. Which would you pick?"....60% decided on sex without love.
So I was curious, Which would you rather have?
--Georg Christoph Litchenberg





Sex with love.
Sex without love (IMHO) can get too messy for my taste.
Because there ain't no tits on the radio
I've never tried it without love. Is that bad?![]()
Only WITH love. I can honestly say that I've only been with 2 men my whole life.. Married them both.
After I got divorced, I was with someone for about a year, even lived with him. No sex. I didn't love him.





With Love





So far I've only had sex without love and with $.
With Love!![]()
Call me a romantic but I gotta have love with my sex
With love! Without love, ew.
Feature costumes for sale!
i love one night stands, it's really exciting.
the slutty one
Both have their place.
"The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
-Humphrey Bogart
"Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
-Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
"Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
-His reply
"If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
-David Daye
Wish I could chime in with the Hallmark Card crowd here, but for two and a half years I had the most unbelievably torrid relationship with a woman whom I could never love, whom most of the time I didn't even like, and whom I usually resented. But from the very first time I kissed her, our sexual chemistry was volatile and potent; she was the napalm to my white phosphorous and when we got together, we burned the motherfucking neighborhood down. It was tempestuous, contentious, consuming and as long as we were fucking, we loved every second with each other. It was mutually addictive like chocolate-covered, crack-laced barbeque potato chips. We were as close to a perfect match sexually as either of us could have ever hoped for or dreamed of, and yet we were otherwise the antithesis of what we wanted from each other in a relationship. In many ways, it was better not to feel too much for her and frankly she made it easy for me; she was a cruel woman who took great pleasure in denigrating me and I fully admit I let her do it because like the Succubus that she was, she had her talons lodged deep inside me. Her middle initial was V, and I came to realize that represented four things about her character: vain, vindictive, vapid and venal.
And while for the most part I spit her name when I think of it, I still miss the sex everyday. It's been just over a year now since that ended, and though I'm grateful that it's over and that I had that amazingly fulfilling sexual experience, sometimes I think (or fear) I'll never have sex like that again--or anything even close to it.
Here's to hoping I'm wrong.
My long answer to a short question. Sorry.![]()
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.




shoot I'd take any kind of sex at this point![]()
With love. It seems more fun that way - more giving. Without love - I know I am looking for my satisfaction and she is looking for hers - that is more taking.
Had both. But same guy. We broke up, was love once upon a time for us. We continued to just have sex, no love, we both said we did not love each other anymore.
I can say one thing, when you don't have the love, it feels very different. Not a good thing.
I prefer with love
Pamela
That cracked me up!Originally Posted by CalifSCVisitor65
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--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
i have only been with ppl i love. without love feels to wrong for me. if there is no love then the sex is not very good.
When your in Jr.High,High School and your having sex you can confuse it with love.But when you share your soul mentally and physically with someone their's nothing else that can compare to it.
"Love"
Aww, the romantic soul!Originally Posted by SonicBones
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--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
And you? you have yet to post your choiceOriginally Posted by RoseDelight
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I've had both, Love puts that extra spice onto it![]()
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--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
K, Now your off the hookOriginally Posted by RoseDelight
. I agree as well




Thanks RoseOriginally Posted by RoseDelight
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BTW great pic, is that really you and your new tongue ring? You are hottttt![]()
Shoot, I missed you while in Miami, where do you dance in Miami anyways. I've only been to Tootsie's and one of the Gold Clubs on Biscayne Blvd in N. Miami.
Maybe it's good that I missed you because you would probably have busted my budget and then no more vacations/club for at least a yr.![]()
I had both, but I agree...LOVE is the best!
LOVE![]()
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