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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    Quote Originally Posted by CalifSCVisitor65
    Thanks Rose

    BTW great pic, is that really you and your new tongue ring? You are hottttt

    Shoot, I missed you while in Miami, where do you dance in Miami anyways. I've only been to Tootsie's and one of the Gold Clubs on Biscayne Blvd in N. Miami.

    Maybe it's good that I missed you because you would probably have busted my budget and then no more vacations/club for at least a yr.
    Yeah, it is! Thanks!

    I am not doing any dancing right now, but Tootsie's is a very cool place!


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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    I could have probably had sex a ton of times without love and with/without money. But the lack of love (or something resembling it) always stops me.

    One of these days though, I might give in.

    >>>Sad<<<

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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    I don't think I've ever had sex with someone that I didn't love.

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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    Yeah, it is! Thanks!

    I am not doing any dancing right now, but Tootsie's is a very cool place!
    Yes it's crazy in a good way.

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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    Based on quite a lot of both flavors, including sex without even "like"...without even minimal acquaintance actually, sex can be truly great either way, but "with love" has the potentially to be the very best in my experience. If I can make a bit finer distinction, I think the very best sex of all usually happens when you are in that initial stage of love, the part where you are still in the process of falling in love, the first 6 months to 2 years of a typical relationship.

    -Ww


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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    I can only have sex with LOVE. I've done it w/o love, and it's not for me...don't like it. I was hoping that sex w/o love would turn into love, big mistake.

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    I thought about this and am sure this will make someone upset but here goes.I have been married 18yrs now and yes the sex with love ,is not as hot as it use to be she really doesnt like the kinky kind of things that interest me and I could never imagine not being with her , but I definately yern for some hot steamy sex the give it to me here and now style . She enjoys the whole make love thing but seems uninterested in any kind of experimenting . Its a little ( lot ) frustrating .

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    I can have sex without love, but I can NOT have sex without caring about the person I am with. It is just not in me to treat a person merely as a means to get off.

    In my life I have turned down sex because the lady and I werent on the same page, and I know if I we went down that path I would eventually hurt her. A few moments of pleasure arent worth doing that to someone I care about.

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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    i also say, both have its place. onenight stnds can be a total mess or the hottest thing - you have to pick carefully
    best is sex when totally in love though... not in sight fo me at this point.
    econd best is sex with good friends. i have the best experience here, there is trust, respect and also lots of personal freedom

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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    with girls..no love

    with boys, love...



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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    I've done nearly all of 'em.... with love....without love.... even a pity fuck once. (yeah....ewwww..)

    Give me love anytime! Sex without love feels great at the moment, but the next day, all you've got left is just a damp panty liner.....

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    I prefer my sex to be all about love.

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    I've only had sex with a couple guys who I wasn't in love with. My preference is with love, but I can see the thrill of just having sex with someone you are purely attracted to. I just don't like the feeling after. I kinda feel like a slut if I'm not in a relationship with the person I'm sleeping with.

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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    I had to experience sex without love to truely appreciate how much better sex is with love.

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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    Quote Originally Posted by susan
    Give me love anytime! Sex without love feels great at the moment, but the next day, all you've got left is just a damp panty liner.....
    That' s funny!!!!

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    I kinda feel like a slut if I'm not in a relationship with the person I'm sleeping with.
    Now, now, Hottie, you say "slut" like it's a bad word or something.

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    I've had both.. sex with love is awesome.. I don't use the phrase "sex without love" instead I use "Fun fuck" because basically that's all it is, pure fucking for fun.. LOL... and that's ok too as long as everyone can be mature about it. Basically, I just love sex, so either way, but sex with love is my preference of choice.


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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    How about hate sex? That's AWESOME sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    How about hate sex? That's AWESOME sex.
    MAKE UP SEX!!! Now there's an activity that can catch a bed on fire!


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    It has to be love - helplessly romatic

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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    With or without love it costs real money.

    But with love the orgasms are stronger.

    And we will do much more.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    Preference is "with love" or at least some resemblence of caring for the person.

    I've had only a few one night stands. They fulfilled their purpose yet I don't go looking for them as I prefer to have some sort of connection with the person first.

    Now.. when I say "with love"... I'm also assuming that there is definately enough lust there already ("fun fuck") and the "love" bit just makes it all the better... that's all...


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    Default Re: It's all about the sex!

    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl
    Preference is "with love" or at least some resemblence of caring for the person.

    I've had only a few one night stands. They fulfilled their purpose yet I don't go looking for them as I prefer to have some sort of connection with the person first.

    Now.. when I say "with love"... I'm also assuming that there is definately enough lust there already ("fun fuck") and the "love" bit just makes it all the better... that's all...
    Yup... can't agree more


    nothing beats love.. but I can't ignore the power of lust either.

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