The young, good-looking types there w/ friends to have a good time or the older, suit-wearing loner in hopes that he has more $?
Also, do any of you ever get turned on when giving a lapdance if you are physically attracted to a guy?
Hmmm...
The young, good-looking types there w/ friends to have a good time or the older, suit-wearing loner in hopes that he has more $?
Also, do any of you ever get turned on when giving a lapdance if you are physically attracted to a guy?
Hmmm...
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Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
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I'd rather dance for the older guys.....
1. They have money, lots of it.
2. A little bit more 'kinder'....
3. Always willing to give out more and more money.
The younger ones always seem to be so damn 'ansy', and they find the most interesting things to ask you about.
Lapdancing with a goodlooking guy? I am just looking at the money factor. He could be 4'4 ft, mold, blue ears, and 5 eyes.......Does he have money? If so, He'll be 'hot' for that long 10 minutes. The focus is money, the green, only the green!
After a few shots of liquor, and $1,000 bucks later.
You're all pretty cute to me.
Seriously, No, Not really.
--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
More money IS a "good time."Originally Posted by DJ Russ Reign
Yes, I get very turned on when I dance. Especially when I dance for a sexy, good-looking guy like you. In fact, if you buy one more dance I'll probably cum.Originally Posted by DJ Russ Reign
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LOLOriginally Posted by grace
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--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
Someone who is NOT rude, crude or lude.
Oh, he can NOT be stink bomb either!
I was unaware that we'd met before.Originally Posted by RoseDelight
"The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
-Humphrey Bogart
"Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
-Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
"Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
-His reply
"If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
-David Daye
You can chill w/ the attitude, I was asking a simple question because I was curious...Originally Posted by grace
I know if I was a dancer, I'd rather grind on someone who I was attracted to who was dressed and smelled nice, rather than a hairy, sweaty, fat guy - even if it meant I was making a few less bucks under the usual tipping circumstances... I'd think that would be human nature...
I mean obviously, it's about the money for you girls, it's your job, but is it ALL about the money? No matter what? I mean, in corporate America, I'd def rather work for the "good boss" and make $75K a year than work for the demanding, obnoxious one and make $85K...





The point is you are NOT a dancer. Your not even a woman. You and I can only speak of human nature from a man's pespective. You are making the assumption that, becase you enjoy going to a strip club that the dancer does too.Originally Posted by DJ Russ Reign
Most dancers I've talked to prefer a man who acts like a gentleman and doesn't smell bad. Period. Over my too many years of strip clubbing, I've seen enough beautiful women riding trolls to be fairly confident that, for any SUCCESSFUL dancer, it is in fact, all about the money-as it should be.
I never even mentioned myself or which of these categories I fall into, if either... I was just curious...Originally Posted by yoda57us
And if it's truly ALL about the money, what's to stop the dancer from going home with someone for an extra few grand (I mean I know some who do, but I def don't think that's the norm, at least in the higher class places, ya know?)
Due to my profession, I'm friends w/ a lot of dancers, and have dated a few, and it seems that for some it's not ALL about the money - being desired by men can be a great confidence builder for people w/ certain personailty types, and can even help the shyer types to come out of their shells... other people get enjoyment from knowing that they can put a smile on someone's face for a few minutes - I mean obviously it's a job FIRST, but I think that by anyone saying it's ALL about the money, that's being quite contrite... perhaps I'm mistaken...
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You'd rather dance for someone 'good looking with less money' ? Are you kidding? That's the only reason we do stripping is for the money, and free liquor of course! We aren't doing it because Bobby has dimples, and cute blue eyes. We're doing it become Harold has green money.
--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
haha... well of course If Harold is taking you to the champaign room and Bobby is dropping a dollar here and there at the table, it's a no brainer...Originally Posted by RoseDelight
but... what if Harold will spend $1,000 on you and Bobby $800... I'm just saying that PERSONALLY, I'd take Bobby and his dimples for the "more pleasant experience," but hey - I'm not a dancer... well at least I don't get paid for it![]()
I'd pick Harold. The whole goal is to 'make more money'.....Not less.
--Georg Christoph Litchenberg





I think idealistically, a truly professional dancer would want to dance for Harold AND Bobby and make $1800, but hey - I'm not a dancer either.Originally Posted by DJ Russ Reign
Regardless, anyone going to a SC willing to spend $800, and gets outbid for a particular lady's company will most likely will be having one hell of a consolation prize (perhaps several) stop by his table to soothe his bruised ego.
Former SCJ now in rehab.
Well put, I must say.Originally Posted by doc-catfish
--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
Haha true... LOLOriginally Posted by doc-catfish
But personally, If I go all out on the champagne room, I am the only person getting that dancer for the remainder of the night - don't want to smell another guy on "my" girl lol




How the hell would you "smell" another guy on the girl? What on earth would the guy be doing to make her smell? Unless she has been dancing for a particularly smelly guy, there is no way you would know. And I know if I dance for a smelly guy I go to the dressing room and clean up before hitting the floor again, I assume mosr girls would do this.Originally Posted by DJ Russ Reign
Dancing for an "unattractive" smelly guy with money is not the end of the world. I don't care who I make money off of as long as they are polite and respectful. Looks do not matter AT ALL.
Haha I was playin... although I guess if someone smoked a LOT you might be able to smell that on a dancer's hair?Originally Posted by noelle
Christ, this is why WE are the dancers and YOU are the customer.
And just because its all about the money doesn't mean that everyone wants to go home and have sex with customers. That is an added level of risk and an entirely different act.
Get thee back under your bridge Troll!
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
It's about money, Helllllllllllooooooo? This isn't about you being cute, and bubbly, dear. If you're broke, Go home and get a playboy. The ONLY thing that the dancers see is the money, It doesn't matter how cute you are.
A man's scent on a dancer? What the hell would he be doing?
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Who ever said anything about all the dancers wanting to go home and have sex w/ the customers?Originally Posted by Katrine
I actually REFUTED that by saying if it was ALL about the money, more dancers WOULD be doing stuff like that, thus insinuating, that at least in my opinion, it's not ALL about the money, but anyway...
Plenty of dancers DO do have sex with customers outside the club. Shhhhh.......
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
What makes you think it's not all about the money? Is your dick made of chocolate or something? Sweetie, If you're a dancer....It's about the money. You'd be nuts, if you gave guys free dances because they were 'cute'. You're a customer.
Next time you're in a strip club, and you start working your boyish 'charms'....Notice how much money you put out at the end of the night and figure out was she 'into' you for the money or your lovely personality.
Crazy, But have fun!![]()
--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
You love to argue don't you? LOL...Originally Posted by Katrine
Next time I go to an SC with mys, I will make sure that I understand that the
s view me as a
and assume that I have no
because of my
age. I will not ask ato
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with me outside a SC, cause she'll probably assume that I can afford no better than
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Darling you are not understanding me lol... I'm actually laughing, and hope you are as entertained as I am... I never said, nor insinuated, that strippers everywhere are dying to fuck me, or even that I was good-looking for that matter... I don't go to a strip club trying to find a date, a prostitute, or anything more than a little stress relief or a good time w/ my friends...Originally Posted by RoseDelight
Personally, I've prob been to a strip-club like 20 times in my life... Almost all of those times I've wound up in the champaigne room, cause I don't see the point of anything else... And half of those times, I was with my ex, who had a fond affinity for the fairer sex...... of course it's about the money, that's your job as a dancer - the whole point of this post originally was just to see if dancers would rather dance for men that they thought were cute - I'd think they would - but I guess I was wrong.
That being said, having dated a few strippers (who were NOT met in the club) it seems they had different opinions on this subject than you guys do...
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