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    Default How does the dancer feel when a guy finishes?

    I know dancers who work at low contact clubs never have to deal with this but this question is directed to dancers in high contact clubs do not get that same luxury. I have some friends that go to clubs just to get off and the dancer is very willing to grind her way into the guy's dreams. I was wondering how a dancer feels when a guy finishes or if she knows when the guy does? Does the dance continue as normal after this occurs? I know the majority of strip clubs dont have very high contact dances that would cause this but for the ones that do, how do the dancers deal with this?
    Any feedback from dancers who work at high-contact to medium-contact clubs where this kind of thing happens would be greatly appreciated.

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    ew ew ew ew ew............ew

    I went to a full contact club in Indiana...she put a little towel on my lap. I almost started laughing then thought "Christ...these girls must have to deal with this on a regular basis." I left the towel...but didn't need it. yack
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    Something like this...

    "Peter Venkman" from the movie Ghostbusters: He slimed me!.





    Dude, common sense tells us that it's probably pretty gross most of the time.

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    Oh, the icky things that we have to tolerate sometimes.

    I had yet another icky encounter over the weekend when a customer whom I was private dancing for asked me to finger myself and stick my finger in his mouth. How gross.

    I think the western world has an increased number of oral lovers. I've had more customers ask to do more oral things with my kitty than I ever have had before. Please tell me I'm not the only one who experiences this?
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    Default Re: How does the dancer feel when a guy finishes?

    I've had a couple guys "finish" while I danced for them. No spooge on me, and that's a plus. My response, (as weirded-out as I was), was to act like it was perfectly normal and go, "So, uhm, do I have to keep dancing, or can we say we're done?" What I found the oddest about it was I wasn't even doing a high-contact dance. I totally didn't expect it. They were on hair triggers, I guess.

    I count myself lucky. A girl came out of the private room one day, RAN into the dressing room, and then sat down at a table with myself and a couple mutual friends/customers and declared "I NEED a shot! That guy just came on my ass!"

    As for the oral thing, I have had that request many many many times.
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    Never touch a crumpled up tablecloth in a corner of a lapdance couch....just trust me on this one...sometimes there are no napkins and a very red-faced customer.........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Never touch a crumpled up tablecloth in a corner of a lapdance couch....just trust me on this one...sometimes there are no napkins and a very red-faced customer.........
    Kat is sooo right. You have no idea. Sometimes it's not just the guy.... I used to bring sheets of Bounty in my pocket for a fave who would get really wet. One day she asked for it as we started champagne, pulled out her tampon, decided she didn't really need it, wrapped it in the Bounty, tossed it on the champagne table, and forgot to take it when we left.

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    Sporty,
    That is just all kinds of nasty.........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Sporty,
    That is just all kinds of nasty.........
    very nasty

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    Default Re: How does the dancer feel when a guy finishes?

    I have had dances with some ladies that do a pretty good grind and most of them don't use the "lap dance cloth." Although I have noticed some dancers do change outfits when their clients lose control.

    Quoting from G-String Divas...Ewwww I can't believe he did that. But in the next scene she says that if she didn't cause that, she feels that she didn't do her job. Go figure.

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    Hmmm. I think it has happened to me a few times, as I have had guys make me stop in the middle of a dance (either because they were about to come or they already did). That's good because I would not keep dancing for a guy who came. I don't want that on me, ugh.

    As previously stated, you don't even need to be doing a high-contact dance for the guy to come. Some guys release VERY easily (like my ex-boyfriend with the 3 inch penis who would come while trying to put it in during sex).

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    That's never happened to me, I hope it never does. But I remember a customer accidently peeing on a stripper once. Poor thing got too excited! Boys are interesting at that lonely age of 21.


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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    That's never happened to me, I hope it never does. But I remember a customer accidently peeing on a stripper once. Poor thing got too excited! Boys are interesting at that lonely age of 21.
    OMG lol... that HURTS...

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    I sometimes frequent a low mileage club that allows 18 and over customers on weeknihgts. Favs have told me stories about kids blasting off just from a dancer coming in close for a hug. Unless they learn some self control, these poor young men are destined to lives filled with short-term relationships.
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    The Old Man Delivers...what the Young Man Promises.
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    Its not always young men....I've had middle age guys spunk within the first 20 seconds of a low contact dance...this is BEFORE I've even offered the extras lol

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    Ive also heard about many guys of different ages "realesing" on girls during a dance. I think sometimes its just gonna happen just hopefully not on right on ya or seeping out on you.
    It was the 1st and hopefully the last. During day shift with 10 dollar dances this poor mexican guy wanted to buy a dance from me. I started dancing and right about with 30 secs or so left in the song when he suddenly bursts with excitment all over himself in his pants. I think he was embarrased as much as I was grossed out (given that has never happened to me until then). He gave me 20 and bolted out of the door of the club. Needless to say I was scrubbed my ass afterwards.
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    I know I'm weird, but I've never understood how guys can release during a dance--or after 20 dances for that matter. What they hell do they do during sex (if they ever have it)? Triple bag it with lidocaine lube?

    Only three conditions really end the evening for me, in order of frequency of occurance:

    --The club closes before I've spent my budget

    --I've spent my budget

    --Blue balls sets in (only happened twice)

    Anyway, I salute you ladies; people who say it's an easy $20 have no idea.

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    I knew of clients that would put on a condom before a dance, they use finished and it was a nice idea that it would not affect me in any way. And these weren't guys that only bought one dance, so the weirdness to it was lessened by the promise if a few guaranteed dances.
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    This happens often at my club, though it doesn't usually get on the girls. Some guys put the condoms on but I think that's largely in part because they may get lucky and find a girl who will "do the do". There was this one guy who came halfway through the dance, then picked up his cell phone, muttered a few words into it like "hello... really? okay here i come?" then handed me $20 and ran out of the club saying he had to go because there was an emergency! LoL... the funny thing is that he's done this with me 3 times already and each time he did the exact same thing! what a loser!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    I know I'm weird, but I've never understood how guys can release during a dance--or after 20 dances for that matter. What they hell do they do during sex (if they ever have it)? Triple bag it with lidocaine lube?
    Good point. I don't get it either.
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    but we can "get" why it happens to others.
    Speak for yourself, dude. I don't get it...not at all. If I had any inkling whatsoever that it was going to happen, I would stop her.
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    Some guys just can't hold out. They have no inkling, no clue, no time to stop the process.



    Play the first Tubby Bob trailer. You can't help but feel bad for the dude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2
    Play the first Tubby Bob trailer. You can't help but feel bad for the dude.

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    You can't help but feel bad for the dude.
    In more ways than one, dude.
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