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    Ok ladies I am making the transition from working only stage dancing to starting at a lap dance club tomorrow. I am nervous! I was also wondering...after you finish lap dancing for someone, after checking to see if they would like you to continue, if not, then what do you do? Walk them back to their table? Excuse yourself to go "freshen up" or something? Help! ALso how long did it take you guys to get comfortable lap dancing and figure out how to do it well?

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    Well, I can only speak for my experiences as a customer. However, when dancers have finished with LDs for me (typically in a private or semi-private booth) they typically get dressed while I gather the money I owe plus a tip (if I have not paid in advance). They then usher me out of the booth, say 'thank you,' with a nice smile, then walk off--generally to what I assume is a dressing room area. A bit later they generally show up again on the floor. It is generally not necessary to make any excuses for leaving...most guys expect that a dancer will go on to other customers once the LD is finished. Not sure if this was helpful, but it is my experience...
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    I'll usually walk them back to their weat at the bar or back to their friends. If it's not a crazy busy night I'll mention I'll be back later. I'll usually be able to pick up another dance in those instances.

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    The dancer usually gets dressed, I say thank you and pay her what I owe for the dances and she gives me a hug. This usually happens with ladies that have danced for me before. At the very least I get a smile and an invitation to come see her again.

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    I thought the comment was nice. I always thought leaving the customer with a "bye thank you" and putting my clothes back on was a bit akward.
    Well, now I know better. We are all in the business/service industry so some of that makes sense.
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    After every dance, I give a smile, thank you, and a tip. EVERY girl has said some form of verbal thanks, and I have always gotten a warm hug. Very nice, IMO. Nothing too personal, nothing too business-like.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    I thought the comment was nice. I always thought leaving the customer with a "bye thank you" and putting my clothes back on was a bit akward.
    Well, now I know better. We are all in the business/service industry so some of that makes sense.
    Yeah, I used to feel that way, now I only think leaving right after the dance is inappropriate if they've bought a lot of dances or bought you a drink. If a guy has bought more than 5 dances, I will always sit and chat for a bit, since often he'll want more dances or will come back and see me again!

    But if a guy only gets a dance or two, I assume that he wants to get back to his friends/the show or maybe check out another dancer. Often I'll check back later though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle
    Um, okay... this is a messageboard for strippers, not Letters to Penthouse. Save it, dude.
    I can understand your reaction, but NewbieCust made a good point by example. A hot dancer may not have the best touch post lapdance. I generally like honest affection more than breaking the rules during lapdances. And I like a lingering hug more than kissing.

    If someone has purchased 4+ dances, and the dancer likes him, she should invest a few minutes of "I'm your friend" affection. Especially if she's about to be called on stage within 10 minutes. When someone does that with me, I take them to VIP and off stage rotation.

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