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    Does a customer ever ask you to go home with him? If so what do you tell them ( Like whats your excuse)

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    I used to get asked that all the time.

    My answer was always No. I don't think I ever made up an excuse really, It was just firmly No.


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    Ok I thought that you would need an excuse......Like when a guy at a bar when your out with your girlfriends trys to take you home..........Usually they ask why not...........LOL....But I guess its different
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    If they do, Say you have other plans, etc......


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    Sometimes I'll tell them that I live with my mom and can't bring anyone home or that I have seven kids and don't want to wakem them up. but most of the time it's just plain no.

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    My favourite is "No! If we do that we'll have to get married!"

    Again, I'm constantly surprised at how many people just don't think I'm funny. Sick.
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    I say that other people are depending on me to drive them home.

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    No. And i would tell them my job does not allow me to leave with customers, and i need to work.

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    Over the years I used lots of excuses- some real some fake- the guys never accepted any of them and always kept up the pressure - very annoying.

    Towards the end of my club career I just said no and then left the guy asap because I learned the ones who ask for dates or sex aren't going usually to spend much after the get shot down, no matter how nice or honest the no was.

    So my advice is to move the convo away from that subject if you can so they never get to ask and you never have to say no-- and if thats not possible just say no and then move on rather than waste your time any further.

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    Quote Originally Posted by waitress311
    Does a customer ever ask you to go home with him? If so what do you tell them ( Like whats your excuse)
    If'n someone wants to ride the ole "Bob-sled"thru thier winter wonderland this holiday season,as long as she is purty and plans on spending alot of money,i dont mind bringing her home to the SO.
    We are not allowed to sleep with employee's,so customers and features are fair game dammit!!!!

    Now if I were an entertainer,i would NEVER leave with a customer,that would be breaking the fantasy,and crossing the line of our profession imo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katherine
    I say that other people are depending on me to drive them home.
    I have used that one before.
    Usually I just say NO..and when they say why, I say BECAUSE! and that is why.



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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
    If'n someone wants to ride the ole "Bob-sled"thru thier winter wonderland this holiday season,as long as she is purty and plans on spending alot of money,i dont mind bringing her home to the SO.
    wait a min.-- I thought you were against homosexual behavior. G/G is still homosexual behavior ya know

    I dont think its legal for a DJ to take customers home either. What county are you in- I'd like to look up the local laws.

    In most cases I don't think it matters who leaves with a customer from a stripclub- it is still considered prostitution to the best of my knowledge.

    Very unprofessional behavior- imo- no matter what postion a person has in a club- including the DJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    My favourite is "No! If we do that we'll have to get married!"

    Again, I'm constantly surprised at how many people just don't think I'm funny. Sick.


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    We can't leave with a customer anyway or we'll get fined.. heck, we can't even leave with a SO if he or she came into the club as a customer. I wouldn't leave with a customer anyway, but it's great to have a legitimate reason fro why I won't go with them.
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    Fck the excuses! I did that when I was new at dancing and it got really old really fast! I just say NO. They want to know why- tell them. If you don't want to hurt their feelings, say you're married.


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    Well I always say well this is were I work if you want to see me you need to come here. I would not be a dancer if I met you outside of here then I would be a prostitute. This happened the other night and I kept telling the guy listen Iam dancing for you here period. Iam not seeing you elsewere. My sister has a good one. She says would you ask the cashier in wallmart or the waitress at your reatraunt to come home with you. Didnt think so. They are working and so are we.

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    ha, i say something like your cousin says, and the guys STOP asking pretty quickly.

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    I say "no" real coy like and then I meet them afterwards, I'm just kidding. If a guy gets really pushy about it I'll go into detail about the dangers of picking up strange women who may have criminal tendencies.

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    "oh Im sorry Im on arrest...I cant go anywhere else but to here and home or I have to tell my parole officer!"

    No you cant go home with me....yea I'm guilty I made that mistake and learned quickly that those guys would rather date you and have you dance for them. Waste of time..I moved to the next guy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by michele1
    Well I always say well this is were I work if you want to see me you need to come here. I would not be a dancer if I met you outside of here then I would be a prostitute. This happened the other night and I kept telling the guy listen Iam dancing for you here period. Iam not seeing you elsewere. My sister has a good one. She says would you ask the cashier in wallmart or the waitress at your reatraunt to come home with you. Didnt think so. They are working and so are we.
    Well, I married a waitress I met on her job,and I still hit on the girls at Wal-Mart,so,does this mean that maybe I DO have a shot with my fav dancer?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tigerlilly
    wait a min.-- I thought you were against homosexual behavior. G/G is still homosexual behavior ya know
    I didnt say it was wrong or that im against it,I said i didnt agree with same sex marriage.There is a difference.
    Lipstick lesbians make the best porn imo!!!
    I dont think its legal for a DJ to take customers home either. What county are you in- I'd like to look up the local laws.

    In most cases I don't think it matters who leaves with a customer from a stripclub- it is still considered prostitution to the best of my knowledge.

    Very unprofessional behavior- imo- no matter what postion a person has in a club- including the DJ.
    Calm down,it was a joke,i thought everyone saw that.

    If i dont think dancers and waitresses should go home with customers,why would i think the dj should,or the mgr,or the doorguys??

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    I just say "no, that's not really my style... sorry".

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    Quote Originally Posted by countrywitch
    Well, I married a waitress I met on her job,and I still hit on the girls at Wal-Mart,so,does this mean that maybe I DO have a shot with my fav dancer?
    No, it just means you're potentially irritating your local walmart workers.

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    tell them that you rode with someone to work and then say a town that's an hour away, if he tries to tell you he'll give you a ride then tell him the dancer who drove today would be very pissed, or you could even play it out such as: tell the guy you'll go ask your friend, go tell her to come up and make a big deal out of it.did i explain that well? it works very well!
    the slutty one

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    seems like a great idea to me *shrugs*

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