My question is this..
How would you feel if your SO masturbated after sex ?





My question is this..
How would you feel if your SO masturbated after sex ?
My new love...is me !
Even the greatest authority does not, ultimately, know you as you know yourself.
Jhuka
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Maya Angelou





Hmm...
I've never had this happen before. Usually I wear him out enough that he passes out....I think I'd be a little put off. I mean, why have sex if it doesn't do enough for you?
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That is weird.It's like as if he's saying it wasn't good enough.I would actually be offended.
One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.
一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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As long as I get off, He can wack that thing until it fell off.
Ahem...
--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
Originally Posted by Farrah_Holiday
"like shit"...





LMFAO,Rose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.
一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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Originally Posted by RoseDelight
LOL,Rose!!!
hmmm, good question. I have to say that I know what feels like from one perspective, but that was the drugs talking...
on the other hand, if my lady seemed to need more, I would ask if I could "help" her somehow if she was intent on it being a solo thing.
good question!





Thats not cool guys..I used to masturbate after sex with my ex..But shit it wouldn't be all that sometimes or he would cum to quickly, so whats a woman to do ???
After reading all of your posts I starting to wonder if I his feelings got hurt !??
My new love...is me !
Even the greatest authority does not, ultimately, know you as you know yourself.
Jhuka
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Maya Angelou





Now thats what I'm talking about !!Originally Posted by bigteninch
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My new love...is me !
Even the greatest authority does not, ultimately, know you as you know yourself.
Jhuka
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Maya Angelou
Well, Did you tell him you masturbated?
--Georg Christoph Litchenberg





Well, he kinda knew..But I never masturbated after sex before with anyone before himOriginally Posted by RoseDelight
go figure..I mean the sex was good, but most of the time it didn't last that long..
My new love...is me !
Even the greatest authority does not, ultimately, know you as you know yourself.
Jhuka
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Maya Angelou
LOL....If he hasn't said anything, I think you're fine
I did that once. I dated this really gorgeous guy for 6 months, and I decided ya know...I am going to sleep with him. He bragged for months about how great he was, I had to test drive him before I bought him. We start having sex, He lasted for about two minutes, and then hops off and says,"Well, that was amazing".....I brought out my toys and finished. He wasted a perfectly good condom.
--Georg Christoph Litchenberg
My personal view on this is that if I know, then if I can be part of solution cool. Usually, it's the kinds of thing that focus is meant to bring her to that place first or nearly coincident. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
What I was really trying to say was that before going C&S, there were times when, for me only, it was something I was driven to by the train I was riding. She was understanding, but a few times she got pissed and left the room. Looking back, I can understand how she felt. I only hope that in the future, should she not derive the same pleasure or attain the same level of enjoyment, that she will feel she can be open and honest with me enough to let me know. Right now that is no problem because she reports each and every one, that is if she's not faking.![]()
Well, my SO does masterbate, but because I tell him to and I want him to cum all over my face after I have gotten my fill.. so I'm not sure if the question applies to me..... but, I don't think he'd "just" masterbate because he couldn't get off otherwise..
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Nawh, thats a WHOLE nother storyOriginally Posted by Gynger
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My new love...is me !
Even the greatest authority does not, ultimately, know you as you know yourself.
Jhuka
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Maya Angelou
I have gone into the bathroom after my so had came to masterbate,not to hurt his feeling,It alwys seemed to be a big deal to him if I came or not.Sometimes it aint worth disgussing shit.
Actually, I have it worked out in our relationship that I DON'T EVEN HAVE TO BE THERE AT THE START OF SEX..
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My wife masterbates after sex sometimes. It use to bother me but don't anymore I understand now that her sex drive is way higher than mine. It's ok with me as long as I have made her cum a few times she can do what ever she wishes. I even help out in so way or other.
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."
LOLWe start having sex, He lasted for about two minutes, and then hops off and says,"Well, that was amazing".....I brought out my toys and finished. He wasted a perfectly good condom.
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William F. Buckley, Jr.
Completely inadequate. If he has enough energy to masterbate after I am done with him...then I didn't do my job.Originally Posted by Farrah_Holiday
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We can have some incredible sex that lasts for quite a while, but still some of her best orgasms come from postcoital masturbation. I help her with it, so perhaps that's outside the definition of "masturbation."
Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
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"That's your answer Old Man? I guess you're a Hard Case too...."
- Luke
"Some men, you just can't reach...."
- Boss, re Luke
If there's one thing in my life these years have taught me,
it's that you can always see it coming, but you can never stop it.
-Cowboy Junkies
sex drive can be different somedays, someone my be on the fastlane at timeslots of reasons why masturbating is okay to me. well... this often enough gets into a two-way action again and I absolutely go with Gynger - what about a second run with a good finish
being into bodage and some SM I think it is me turning the watcher on enough to get him beat the meat even without just fucking... I love to get my share orally or with a toy so I'm not too fucused on him just sticking it in there![]()
Farrah, thats different... Women dont get off as easily as men. So if you didnt get to, I think a guy would understand that. But if a GUY doesnt get off, then I would be offended too. LikeOriginally Posted by Farrah_Holiday
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