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    Sad so called friend giving your # out to custy

    have any of you had a so called friend give your phone # out to a coustomer who then starts calling u and asking what you would charge for sex?
    This has happened to me just recentley. So to avoid this problem I had my # changed and plus I might be quiting dancing, and also there is this coustmer who has been coming in the club for years and years and for what ever reson is real interested in me and it is getting quite scary. he stays until the club closes then goes out to his car and waits for me to come out then is trying his damits to kiss me and begging me to come out to his place (YUK!!!) then he writes all over my windsheild I love you. Management does not walk us out anymore like they use to and since this customer has been comming into the club for years they think his not a threat...but in all honesty it scares the shit out of me.
    so theses are the reasons i want to quite. what do you all think of this problem and how would you handle it.
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    myiah

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    Default Re: so called friend giving your # out to custy

    If my friends ever gave my number out, I'd cut ties with them, and get my number changed.


    --Georg Christoph Litchenberg



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    Default Re: so called friend giving your # out to custy

    If you must, Get a restraining order against him. As much as I like pathetic imbeciles that think 'threatening is fun', I'd get that crap taken care of quick. Your safety is more important than anything.


    --Georg Christoph Litchenberg



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    It would scare the shit out of me, too. Myiah, that's a real danger. I'm not sure what the best course of action is (hopefully some of our more experience ladies will chime in here and help you out) but BE CAREFUL. Even if management won't walk you to your car, find someone who will. And if no one will, find somewhere else to work. Your safety and health is tantamount in this kind of situation. There is always somewhere else to dance where your coworkers will take care of you.

    Oh, and if I was near Knoxville, I'd whup some ass. That's not a friend who gave out your number. That's an enemy. I would not do such a thing to the most casual of friends.
    This guy doesn't have a mousepad, and it's freakin' me out! ~G.B.

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    I agree, anyone who would do something like that doesn't sound like much of a friend at all. After all, a person's privacy is one of the most important things we have in this industry. Definately cut her off and talk to management about it if you can. If that doesn't work, you might want to have someone pick you up after work so this guy can't wait by your car or follow you to your house.

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    Speaking of crazyness.

    I have this regular customer that spends lots of money and brings gifts. But lately he has gotten crazy. He is a doctor going through a divorce and he cant stop emailing me telling me he loves me, misses the smell of me. Wants to take me out.
    He know's that i have a significant other and says to quote "baby he doesn't know what love is, i can shower you with more gifts then any man could ever." He then goes on to say how romantic he is.
    On the latest email he says, he found my number (that he looked it up) and that he is sorry for calling. However, its the wrong number and i havent told him that..
    ahhhh!!!

    here is the email
    Baby, Baby, Baby - -

    I missed you. . . . . . . a lot
    Can I see you?
    Are you OK, really?
    Can I see you?
    How did your surgery go?
    Can I see you?
    Does your nose hurt?
    Can I see you?
    Do you need any pain meds? I'll bring the prescription to you.
    Can I see you?
    Can you smell anything?
    Can I see you?
    Was the doctor nice?
    Can I see you?
    Is calling you a complete no-no? I have your number as *edited to remove phone number* - Is it correct? If you want me to forget the number, I will. I don't want to do anything that might make you uncomfortable. I would love to see you or even speak to you to reassure myself that you are OK.

    I have two cell phones at the moment




    then goes on to give me his number
    Last edited by VenusGoddess; 12-01-2004 at 09:02 AM.

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    and has far as your friend goes!!

    thats not a friend!

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    Tampa, did you just really post your number out there like that?

    Careful!

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    Tampa, is that your number? If so, Hurry and delete sweetie!


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    shoot, post HIS number on here. i'll mess with his ass! What a freak!

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    NOOOOOOO ITS NOT!!!!

    he looked it up, and got the wrong number. read the beginning of my post.....

    i dont know who's number it is!

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    Oh ok!


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    i feel sorry for the unsuspecting person thats has been called several times though.

    LOOKING FOR ELLE.. well, ok its kinda funny..

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    wow I must have missed that part, too. LOL
    Glad its not, hun.
    Be careful

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    carry a weapon!

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    Explain to management. If they still don't listen find a new club.

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    I had a friend sold my # to somebody,needless to say,when I found out ,I ripped them a new one and cut them off..

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    Im sorry all that is happening to you...what a freakin loser! I would give out her number and she how she likes it. Im just vengeful that way I guess. I bet she would get freaked too. Yea, I can agree put a restraining order on him so maybe he can take you seriously if the law is involved. Maybe also you can make you explain the situation to management. I hope they are good people who will make sure your safety is ensured. Do a little stalking of your own and make sure he gets a restraining order agaist him because Im no genius though it sounds like most stalker situations and it will only get worse. Sadly some people dont know where to draw the line.
    I hope things get better for you soon.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    Tampa: I know that you said this is not your real phone number, but I deleted it anyways. It's most obviously someone's phone number and I don't want any problems there.

    If you find out who gave your phone number out, I would take it up with management and the police...

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    i have never personally been in a situation like this, but you couldn't pay me enough money to put myself in danger. i would start looking for a club who cares about the security of their employees. our security walks us to our cars and we all leave the club together. this is no joke. he might seem ok and in reality he might be, but it's not worth the chance. your life is way too valuable. as far as your friend goes. i thoink the others have covered that... get rid of them. You have to think in advance. what if this guy follows you one night? then he'll know where u live. Good luck. Please don't disregard the fact that you could be in danger here.

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    venus, i understand. I contemplated deleting it myself.

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    M - you need to explain to your managers that if something DOES happen to you at the hands of this derranged customer, the club will be held liable. Make sure you tell several people you work with and several friends and if you can family members that this guy is freaking you out and the club won't escort you to your car. If something does happen, you have plenty of witnesses and sue the hell out of your manager and the club. I also agree that you should get a weapon of some sort. Either tear gas strength pepper spray (our house mom actually sells this) or maybe even a tazer gun.

    I've never given out someone's phone number to a customer or anyone else that has asked for their number. I am however guilty of giving out a gf's phone number as my own that way I would never feel guilty for not returning their call. She knows I do this and we laugh but I think I'll stop now!

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    whoa elle.... thats crazy.

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    Wow, what "friend" does that??! That's crazy, i'd be really pissed at her.

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    Ditto what she said!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    If my friends ever gave my number out, I'd cut ties with them, and get my number changed.

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