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    Im scared to death of going right up on stage, silly I know but Im sure youve been there/ done that so I was wondering is there any other things to do on the floor, etc. with customers to kind of ease into going right on the stage? Im so afraid of making an ass out of myself or hearing negative comments being new to it, I would feel at ease doing something not so "all eyes on you" at first. Do I sound stupid? Sorry but this is new!

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    I had major stage fright when I first started too. I think a lot of it stemmed from the fact that I wasn't confident, becuase I really had no idea what I was doing. Maybe practice dancing at home to help yourself feel more confident, that shoudl ease the stage fright some. The only other advice I can offer is to say that eventually it'll go away...I was scared to death of dancing on stage for like my first month and now I love it!

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    i'm new at this also, but i did the same as you-- i posted on here first and i found most people told me to go into the club early and watch the other girls. take a deep breath. and get up there and dance slow ans sentual. after you get through the first few seconds-- you'll be fine. i look at people's foreheads. and smile. from as far away as they are i doubt they can tell the difference ( i don't know how your club is set up). You will be fine. have fun and make that money. Good uck. Lwet us know how it goes.

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    I was nervous, but ya gotta do it. As you walk up on stage, just think breathe slowly, move slowly, eye contact.

    You'll realize quickly that once you're up there...it's not so bad.

    BTW...do NOT make the mistake of taking a couple of shots or some drinks before going on stage...it'll just create a dependancy and a whole lot of other problems...

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    You're not properly initiated unless you make an ass out of yourself the first time.

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    It helped me on my first night to have music that i really liked playing. I dunno if your club allows you to pick the music. Now i dance to the music i think the customers are into but for the first few sets try that. Definately watch what other girls are doing. I also would go to OTHER clubs and hang out and if I saw someone do something i thought was sexy i would use it. Have Fun!
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    It's not NEARLY as bad as you think. Admittedly, I started out with a couple of tequila shooters, but I DON'T recommend that (dancing on stage while drunk is NOT a good idea... plus you end up with this nasty urge to pee.)

    Seriously, though, in a GOOD club, with good customers (and why dance in a BAD one???), the enthusiasm of the customers gets you out of your shell -- and out of your clothes -- REALLY quickly!!!

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    I have a good idea to add....I dont know how your club operates but sometimes I would practice before the club opens on a day shift. They would let me get up there by myself or with other girls and we would play around and practice moves.
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    No one knows it's your first time except for yourself. Give yourself some credit and relax. and don't worry no one will have anything negative to say. The female body is beautiful and men will always find something pretty about it whether it be a leg, face, hips, breasts.

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    Thanks all...I'm just starting to investigate where I want to go and am in the first steps of this. This site is very helpful. Nervous as hell but I hope it goes away.

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    After awhile, it will be another day at the office. Just relax and remember that everyone that you have worked with has been there. Another plus: club regulars LOVE the new girls....

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    I don't know if all clubs do this, or even if it would be the thing for you to do, but, here goes my .02 cents. The club I work at allows dancers to buy themselves off stage, which is what I did for a while, when I first started. When I finally did get up on stage, I had a few girls that I was on a friendly basis with take turns and come on stage with me. I felt a lot better about it, because I was up there with someone I knew. And, I quickly overcame my stagefright. Good luck!!!
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    Smile, look hot, think you're hot and sexy and you will do well. Good luck.

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    Redhed,, You can practice on me anytime. I could help you since I have been to wayyy to many of these places and had thousands of private dances too.

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