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    I know this question has been asked a million times probably but I still get speechless as to what to say to a guy who want to tell me I could make more money if I just left the club with him. Last night I stuck it out though with one customer who was trying to get me to go home with him. I worked it out to where I won my case and got him to buy me a bottle of champagne and tips for dances made most my money off this one guy. I am looking for more suggestions if any of you have them but I will also share what I did. What I told him was that if I wanted to go home with guys who propositioned me in the club then I might as well just work from a hotel or stay home. I told him that I was special and that guys had to earn my company that I was picky. lol! It worked he felt special and felt like I was a challenge however it was all bullshit I dont date customers but I do have to play in the fantasy world. I am sure some of you can relate. Anyways I am always looking for suggestions so please feel free to give any advice or opinions on this, your feedback is grately appreciated and I am sure I can learn from each and every one of you.

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    I am usually more blunt about, and not as nice as you were! I have been asked this question a few times and I always seem to give the same answer "No sex in the Champagne Room!!!". And then they look at me like I have 3 heads or something...lol, usually ask me what I mean by that, and I just tell them "I am a stripper, not a prostitute, if that's what you're looking for, the yellow pages has tons of escort service listings....". While I know that response is probably the least beneficial for ME, my mouth sometimes can't help it, and it just says what it wants...
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    I agree with Lisa. I am not that patient and I would rather not deal with that type of asshole...I mean guy because he'll come back and be expecting more and paying you less. I don't do extras and I would much rather have him go find someone that does instead of wasting both of our time. I don't like playing games or lieing about being that type of girl..... I am an entertainer not a hooker and only deal with people who treat me as such. I give you credit though.... I sware I would be rich if I was just a better liar.....

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    Another way to word it is a bit more positive and may also make you money as well. Just say, "I appreciate the offer and I'm in a happily commited relationship. I couldn't ever imagine cheating on HER so I'm affraid I can't do that. I'd be happy to spend some quality time with you here though so how about we go to the VIP room for a while?" This way it gets you off the hook in a variety of ways, plays off the guy girl/girl fantasy and may also make you some money to boot. If he's not interested after you say that, kick him to the curb and know that you're better off. Either way, everyone wins.

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    yeah, i can really relate to that because I worked in a club in puerto rico for many years, and the latin guys were always begging and sometimes downright expecting me to go home with them. At first I thought money comes first and I would lure the guy into champagne and tell him that we needed to spend time first, but after a while it got on my nerves, and I preferred customers that didnt expect that...I think DancerWealths suggestion is pretty good-girl/girl relationships seem non threatining can begin a kinky conversation into the VIP room or private dance..

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    I say something more along the lines of: I will maybe consider going to your hotel for free after you show me how generous you are with me here in the club. The "maybe consider" is your loophole and way out of the situation as you never promised anything.

    If they ask how generous do they need to be... ask him to take you for an hour in the VIP (or in my case, just an hour). This way if they get too handsy or what-have-you whilst in the VIP (or in my case, private dance area room).. you can "kick them to the curb". If not, just keep saying... I'm still not convinced of your generousity or something.

    Otherwise, just do not bother. Tell them right out that they can pay you to make them feel like a king whilst you are naked however there isn't a chance that anything other than some harmless adult fun will happen.

    As for if they wanted to give me money instead of the club - I tell them that they are giving me money instead of the club. In my club I keep whatever I make... otherwise, if I am working in a club that takes a percentage (ie the club across the road from my current home club) then I will inform them that if they tip me when I'm on stage - I get to keep all those tips.

    EDIT TO ADD: I remember one customer doing this with myself and two other dancers at that percentage club. Worked out rather well. We got to keep all the money 100% and he got to feel "better" that he was giving the dancers' the money instead of the club (he was buying drinks so the club was making something from him).


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    "I will maybe consider going to your hotel for free after you show me how generous you are with me here in the club. "

    That is an EXCELLENT response! Thank you Goldcoastgirl =)

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    Please for your own safety don't use that line, even though it is a very smart and witty reply. Saying something like that can still get you charged with assertion for prostitution due to the fact the stripclubs are deemed sexually oriented businesses. You never know who is undercover vice.

    I really suggest just moving on to a new customer. The men who say that type of thing to dancers are not going to spend money in the club and therefore are a waste of your time.

    I just tell them I prefer to stay out of jail, but that's just me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LauraLove
    Please for your own safety don't use that line, even though it is a very smart and witty reply. Saying something like that can still get you charged with assertion for prostitution due to the fact the stripclubs are deemed sexually oriented businesses. You never know who is undercover vice.

    I really suggest just moving on to a new customer. The men who say that type of thing to dancers are not going to spend money in the club and therefore are a waste of your time.

    I just tell them I prefer to stay out of jail, but that's just me.
    Too true. LE really sucks sometimes.

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    I agree with Laura. Using that as a response to get out of someone badgering you for a date is one thing, using it to get out of a solicitation for prostitution is begging for a trip downtown. All it takes is one cop to hear you say that and the next thing you know you're wearing handcuffs and riding in the same car with Dennis Rodman

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    But if she is saying "free" then its not really soliciting is it? Yeah, I know, I know, LE is going to use anything they want to arrest you, but if they want to arrest you, they will find another way to do it, and its really going to be hard to get charged with anything based on a 1-1 conversation.

    I like the line, its worth the risk. Luckily I mostly work in clubs where I keep all of my VIP earnings anyway.....

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    The fact that the clever line would be used in a sexually oriented business is where the problem lies, legally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LauraLove
    The fact that the clever line would be used in a sexually oriented business is where the problem lies, legally.
    Laura...you drive me nuts in PP sometimes, and yet I love you in here. You're absolutely right. More arrests of dancers in clubs happens not because a dancer crossed the line, but because she crossed into the "grey area" and that's all an undercover cop needs to make an arrest.

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    Why not just alter it? "I might be willing to go to your hotel room for a private show if you show how generous you in the club first." Or something like that? Unless being a private parties dancer can be used against you too.
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    this one girl got fired in my club for leading a guy on like that. She basically said "I need $600, I am broke, and I have 3 kids." So this guy gave her $600, and she agreed to meet him at a bar after work. She followed him on the freeway for about 15 minutes, slowed down and then got off on an exit when he was far enough ahead. The guy was so upset he went to the club the next day, and told the manager and she got fired for it.

    So I always tell guys straight up, I have a boyfriend and I'm happy. If they don't leave it at that, then I throw in that I am not a prostitute, and I just work there to support myself while in school. If they still keep asking, I get really bitchy and just tell them I hate my job. Probably not the best way to make money, but it's all true.

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    Okay.. bad idea. Seemed to be a good one at the time. Just that LE doesn't really frequent the clubs here.. you don't hear about clubs being busted by LE. More along the lines of Liquior Licensing will bust them for this or that infringement.... usually not involving the dancers.

    I guess stick with my second suggestion: they can pay you to make them feel like a king whilst you are naked however there isn't a chance that anything other than some harmless adult fun will happen.


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    "The best show you'll get from me will be in the vip room and if you are concerned that I don't make enough money here you are certainly free to tip me whatever you think is appropriate." If they don't bite after that it's time to move on.

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    "Hows get fucked sound?" Is about all I have patience for lately. Saves alot of time and effort! If I say it with a smile I find they'll quite often tip me on the podium anyway, after shaking me by the hand and congratulating me for having morals. Strange!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lolita86
    "I will maybe consider going to your hotel for free after you show me how generous you are with me here in the club. "
    Quote Originally Posted by Lolita86
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    The main reason I dislike that one is because it is an outright LIE and is exploitative. Further if the customer is LE, your his new project for the night--surprise, surprise!


    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth
    Another way to word it is a bit more positive and may also make you money as well. Just say, "I appreciate the offer and I'm in a happily commited relationship. I couldn't ever imagine cheating on HER so I'm affraid I can't do that. I'd be happy to spend some quality time with you here though so how about we go to the VIP room for a while?"
    And this one is close enough to the truth and isn't exploitative at all. Just dancer sales talk. Won't even hurt him much if he finds out on a subsequent night that it wasn't the full truth. Maybe it's me, but I hate people who try to exploit and lie to me for whatever misguided statement I might make. Let people have a little self-respect even if you don't like the suggestion they make. Remember all the rumors about dancers the newbies have? This is that. But if he keeps it up, swat him like a fly.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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