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    Had an interesting experience last night-
    My fave wasn't there, so I saw a great looking young, thin, blonde on stage and went up to tip her. I asked her if she wanted to do a dance, and her response was "Maybe"! I laughed out loud. In years of SC experience, I had never heard that response- It really left me confused.
    As it turns out, she was a real newbe, had just started the night before, and had not yet given her first lap dance, so was trying to decide whether she really wanted to or not.
    When she came to my table, she explained things and agreed to let me break her in. After three active dances (no extras), she said she was tired, so I offered to buy her a drink, had a drink, then a couple more dances before I left
    (pleased, but not satisfied).
    A couple of questions:
    1) For guys -What interesting responses have other guys received when asking for a dance?
    2) For gals- Does it take some time to build up enough stamina to do the 9 to 12 dances I normally get without the stripper getting tired?

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    Oh yeah, The girls do get tired. Miss A is always asking if she could sit for a song or two in the middle of our sessions. I don't mind it at all.

    I don't really have any interesting responses, but I got a WTF are you crazy look before. She thought she was the shit and was surprised that I said no after half the section around me got one.

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    I got worse than a "maybe" once, the girl flat out said "no" when I asked her if she would dance for me. I asked her why and she said "because you're wearing shorts", hmmm, it was Vegas, it was the middle of the summer, it was HOT as hell out, they were nice shorts (i.e. not gym shorts), there were lots of other guys there in shorts, I laughed, talked to her a bit, she finally said "you know what, you don't seem like a perv, I'll dance for you, but only if you pay me for 5 up front". She was hot, but there was no way I'd committ to that not knowing what I'd get, plus the fact that she didn't dance for guys in shorts was a "red flag" in my book, so I told her "no thanks" and found someone willing to dance for guys in shorts and spent a lot of money on her as I recall (with no extras from the girl or expectations of them from me BTW).
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    When I go see Ms. J, I ask her to skip songs every now and then. She says she doesn't mind, and sometimes I need the break to calm down after her energetic and enthusiastic dancing.

    And I have had the wonderful pleasure of being a dancer's first customer. That was a fun time, and though she was new, she had potential. I liked her quite a bit, but this was shortly before Ms. J and I started our business. After Ms. J, there hasn't been anyone else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lo Bok
    2) For gals- Does it take some time to build up enough stamina to do the 9 to 12 dances I normally get without the stripper getting tired?
    Yeah, at the beginning when you're inexperienced at doing LDs, it's harder to pace yourself. Newbies also don't usually have the powerful thigh muscles the seasoned strippers have from doing LDs. I think the most dances I have ever done straight was somewhere around 16-18. I prefer guys who get all their dances at once or with a few short breaks in between.

    I would never ask to take a break when the money is flowing, but I think asking the girl if she needs a break every 5-10 songs (depending on the dancer) would be much appreciated by most girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lo Bok
    My fave wasn't there, so I saw a great looking young, thin, blonde on stage and went up to tip her. I asked her if she wanted to do a dance, and her response was "Maybe"! I laughed out loud. In years of SC experience, I had never heard that response- It really left me confused.
    ah, yesterday's young and fresh-looking cashier at wal-mart is today's young, fresh-looking and hopefully gullible stripper . hopefully, she won't get too caught up in the lifestyle and turn haggard and rancid like milk gone bad in the next six months.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lo Bok
    As it turns out, she was a real newbe, had just started the night before, and had not yet given her first lap dance, so was trying to decide whether she really wanted to or not.
    When she came to my table, she explained things and agreed to let me break her in. After three active dances (no extras), she said she was tired, so I offered to buy her a drink, had a drink, then a couple more dances before I left (pleased, but not satisfied).
    typical. a young dancer's strength lies not in her LD skills because she hasn't acquired any yet. her strength lies in being young, fresh-looking, and accommodating. young dancers think that constant hyperactive movements equals a good LD. she hasn't learned to use other parts of her body to achieve the same result, but with a lower expediture of physical energy. like noelle mentioned, it's a marathon not a sprint. anyway, here is something you might find interesting. it's a excerpt from an old ass-c post by OldGuru on the subject of young dancers. it's still good relevant advice.

    New Dancers:

    The neat thing about strip clubs is that there is a seemingly neverending supply of new talent. If you go to a club during the slow periods, you will have the opportunity to meet many NEW dancers....girls who might have been working at McDonalds yesterday...and today is their first day as a stripper. Meeting new naive dancers is SOOOO much fun. I like to assume the role as mentor to the new dancer, and explain to her the best way to make customers happy...heh..heh..heh..

    New dancers have several endearing qualities which I find to be very interesting. They haven't had time to develop the "attitude" or the hustle that many older dancers exhibit. In fact, new dancers actuall are glad to get a helping "hand" from a friendly compassionate ...horny....ASSCer....plus:

    1. They don't know how to ask for money.

    2. They don't know how to say NO!!

    3. They don't know the rules...you can tell them anything and they believe it.

    Generally speaking, you can do more for less money with new dancers...who tend to be younger and more attractive than the average dancer anyway...which makes it much more fun. Also, old guys like me find young naive dancers to be very stimulating. My older dancer friends know I like new young dancers, and SET ME UP with them. Waitresses will also send new young slender dancers to sit with me - that is worth a nice tip!!!

    If you think all of the preceding sounds TOO MUCH like work, then you may not qualify to be a professional dirty old man.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lo Bok
    1) For guys -What interesting responses have other guys received when asking for a dance?.
    you might want to take a look at this thread also and be sure to hit the hyperlink in the first post.http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=39722
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    Doing LD's is VERY tiring when a girl first starts dancing. It takes a few weeks to really build up the thigh muscles. I can remember the first night I ever stripped and how exhausted I was after just 2 or 3 dances.

    I agree with Noelle that it's polite to ask a dancer if she would like a break if you know you're going to keep her on your lap for quite some time. It nice for the dancer to have a chance to rest and if you're a fairly regular customer of hers and the two of you are comfortable it can make for some nice cuddling time.
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    New Dancers:

    Also, old guys like me find young naive dancers to be very stimulating. My older dancer friends know I like new young dancers, and SET ME UP with them. Waitresses will also send new young slender dancers to sit with me - that is worth a nice tip!!!

    If you think all of the preceding sounds TOO MUCH like work, then you may not qualify to be a professional dirty old man.
    We're on the same wave-length here!
    However, my Fav's have brought new girls to me to check out and always seem to think the newbe has more potential than what is there. I've suffered through some miserable LD's from some not-so-hot newbe's and some that were obviously there for the first (and last) time, just to please my Fav's- even when my Fav offered to pay for the LD.
    I've put in enough effort in pleasing 'oldies' and breaking in newbe's that I believe I am a qualified (certified?) PDOM.
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    Actually I do remember one interesting turn down. I got a "No, you remind me of my brother." That's kinda messed up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britfreak2
    Actually I do remember one interesting turn down. I got a "No, you remind me of my brother." That's kinda messed up.
    brit lmao thats funny. Seems to me that a dancer would need to put all that sort of thing behind her...shes at the club to work and make money. If she looks hard enough, she could always find someone who reminded her of her brother, cousin, uncle, former boss that she hated or whoever.

    I cant remember ever being turned down for a dance but I bet it would be wierd if it happened.

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    I only turn guys down after I've danced for them before and they've tried something. I will, as a rule, avoid really drunk people. I have, on several occasions, danced for guys I've known from school or from other jobs. It's a little awkward but funny.

    A couple of weeks ago I got turned down by a dancer who wouldn't dance for women, but she brought me a hot friend, so it worked out.

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    I've never been turned down without a good reason, like she was with a regular, another customer, stage set coming up, had to leave, etc.

    What makes me want to pull my hair out is when the dancer accepts, I point out my table, then after her set she wanders off somewhere never to be seen again. In a busy hectic club, I could perhaps understand this, but not when the place is semi-dead.

    After about a half hour, I have to decide whether to continue waiting it out or find a new dancing partner, in which time I've passed up a number of suitable ladies. Like any other purchase, it's always wise to comparison shop I guess.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    What makes me want to pull my hair out is when the dancer accepts, I point out my table, then after her set she wanders off somewhere never to be seen again. In a busy hectic club, I could perhaps understand this, but not when the place is semi-dead.

    After about a half hour, I have to decide whether to continue waiting it out or find a new dancing partner, in which time I've passed up a number of suitable ladies. Like any other purchase, it's always wise to comparison shop I guess.
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    Wait guys, there are sub-categories here:

    You find her later and she says something like, "You were talking to the waitress. I didn't think you really wanted me."

    You find her and she gives you a blank look like she's never seen you before in her life. Ketamine does that to gurlz.

    She goes over to sit with two kids wearing backward baseball caps and doesn't make a dime for the next hour. And when the BBC boys laugh, you think she just said, "Fuck his money. He's a loser."

    She goes over to sit with her young dancer friend and smoke. Neither makes a dime for the next hour. And when they laugh, you think she just said, "Fuck his money. He's a loser."

    She comes out of the dressing room in street clothes and leaves without even looking at you. And you think you scared her away forever.

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    I danced for a guy who looks just like my brother not long ago. I managed, he was well-behaved and docile. Now I feel sorry for anyone dancing for my real brother in Htown. He has boasted to me before about his achieving many a $60 BJ.....

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    I've had a flat NO.

    Dancer: "Every time I dance you make comments. You won't shut up and let me do my thing. I'm not dancing for you again. There's lots of girls in here who will do anything you want. I really like you but you drive me nuts."

    We had a drink and talked. I said, "If you ever change your mind, come and see me." Then we hugged good-bye. Must have been PMS, because the next time she saw me, she came right over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2
    I've had a flat NO.

    Dancer: "Every time I dance you make comments. You won't shut up and let me do my thing. I'm not dancing for you again. There's lots of girls in here who will do anything you want. I really like you but you drive me nuts."

    We had a drink and talked. I said, "If you ever change your mind, come and see me." Then we hugged good-bye. Must have been PMS, because the next time she saw me, she came right over.
    What type of comments, I love it when my customer talks dirty, but not when he's asking me if that's a zit on my ass, or why oh why won't I let him touch just a 'lil..........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    What type of comments, I love it when my customer talks dirty, but not when he's asking me if that's a zit on my ass, or why oh why won't I let him touch just a 'lil..........
    Playful comments. Like if she's been butt grinding 20 seconds, I'll start counting down from 5.... If she breaks eye contact, I'll say, "What's for dinner?".... If I haven't seen a scar before, I'll mention it.... Or a bruise: "Is that from rough sex or a beating?" That was the last straw I think. Some dancers will smile and say, "Rough sex, really rough sex," but this girl had an abusive BF.

    I learned from that. I mostly make CS comments now. You know, "You have just the kind of boobs I like," stuff like that. When they're cranked up, I'll talk dirty in a caring way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    What type of comments, I love it when my customer talks dirty, but not when he's asking me if that's a zit on my ass, or why oh why won't I let him touch just a 'lil..........
    See, whenever my customers start talking dirty I start giggling like a dirty minded twelve year old.
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    lapdances do get tiring after a while! for me though, it's not necessarily that i get tired, it's more that i get really hot, temperature wise. i'll do a bunch in a row and just get hot and my hair will get sweaty, yum hah. getting a break to have a drink is always nice but if a customer wants a lot of dances i'm more than happy to give them to him.

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    I agree with Susan!
    I try to stay far away from the really drunk guys...
    couple reasons there...lol
    1) Drunk guys often forget that we are doing a job... we don't REALLY want to make out with them.
    2) Drunk guys often think that we REALLY want to go home with them... ummm... that's a definate NO!!!
    3)Drunk guys have spilt drinks on me before. I don't drink at work and I don't particularly like smelling like a brewery at the end of the night.
    4) Drunk guys have a very bad habit of falling down the stairs and with 7 inch heals on... I don't want to risk going down with them!!!


    I have had to turn down guys though... usually I'll get a line going during my stage set and I have to turn people away. I had one guy wait almost 4 hours for me and then told me the guy I was with was hogging me!!! He was mad and told me I need to be more considerate of my regular customers. I apologized but would be with the guy I was with anyday over him... or anyone else for that matter!!
    Other than that though... if you have money... I will gladly take it from you!!!
    heehee

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    If I wanna try out a dancer I haven't had dances from before, she gets a minimum of two dances to make her case. My preferred dances get a minimum of three dances. If its more than that, they ask if I want to take a break. The only way I get rejected is if she's doing a VIP with someone else.

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